Before reading this article, I sincerely invite you to click the "Follow" button, so that you can continue to push such articles in the future, and it is also convenient for you to discuss and share, your support is the driving force for us to insist on creating~
: My grandmother in her 50s was divorced because she was too pretty, and her husband thought she was making a bad influence on society. What challenges will such a beautiful grandmother face, and how will she start her life anew?
I'm a grandmother and I'm over 50 years old. I used to be a happy housewife with whom my husband spent many wonderful years. However, I didn't expect my appearance to make my husband feel upset and think that I was making a bad influence in society. Eventually, we got divorced.
The news of the divorce was a huge blow to me, and I felt very lost and distressed. I realized that I had to start my life all over again, to regain my confidence and courage. I asked myself, what do I do next?
I decided to move to a new city and start a new life. In the new city, I rented a small apartment and started my new life. My neighbors were very friendly to me and gave me a lot of help and support. They encouraged me to go to social events and meet new people. I also tried to make new connections and made some like-minded friends.
And in the process, I met a retired teacher named Mr. Li. He was an amiable, personable gentleman. We met at a social event and have been dating frequently ever since. I found that I got a lot of joy and comfort from being with him, and I gradually realized that I had some feelings for him.
One day, while we were shopping together, he suddenly said to me, "You know what? Your beauty needs no explanation, and it's definitely not something you should be ashamed of." Instead, you should be proud of your beauty and live stronger and more confident. ”
I was deeply touched by his words. I realized that the pain and low self-esteem of the past were over, and now I should pick myself up again and give full play to my strengths and charms. So I rejected my inner fear and hesitation and accepted Mr. Li's love.
Our relationship has become more stable day by day, Mr. Li has also been very nice to me, and I feel more fulfilled and happy with his care and attention. We travel together, we taste all kinds of food together, we wander the streets together...... I rediscovered my joy in life and rekindled my hope for the future.
Through this experience, I learned a truth: everyone should have their own worth and dignity, regardless of age. My appearance is not my fault, and I don't need to be ashamed of it. If someone can't accept my beauty, then he doesn't deserve my nostalgia. I want to be brave enough to pursue my own happiness and start my life anew.
Now, Mr. Li and I live happily ever after, we care for each other, support each other, and spend every wonderful moment together. I often feel that if I hadn't divorced at the beginning, maybe I wouldn't have had the opportunity to meet Mr. Li and regain my beauty and self-confidence. I know that I have finally found the happiness I want, and I will cherish it.
"Mr. Li, I really appreciate your understanding and support for me. I said to Mr. Li gratefully.
He looked at me tenderly and said with a smile, "You don't have to be grateful to me, this is what I should have done." I know you've been through a lot, but I want you to know that I'll always be there for you. ”
Hearing him say that, I felt a warm heart. Since being with him, I have finally let go of my previous pain. My life has regained its brightness and I have started to take each day more positively.
"Mr. Li, I would also like to share with you some of my past. I said.
"Of course, I'm willing to listen, if you're willing to say it. Mr. Li said.
I sighed softly and then honestly revealed to him, "My former husband didn't understand me, and he was always jealous of the beauty I had. He thinks that my appearance will cause some unnecessary problems in the social circle and affect our family. In the end, he chose to divorce. ”
Mr. Lee shook my hand and said, "I can understand your feelings. But he doesn't understand that beauty is not a mistake, but a gift. Your beauty reflects not only your outer appearance, but also your inner elegance and purity. If he gives up on you, it can only mean that he has lost a precious treasure. ”
I was touched by these words. I never imagined that at this age, I would meet someone who understands and supports me in this way. I looked at Mr. Li gratefully, and a warm current swelled in my heart.
"Thank you, Mr. Lee. Since I met you, I have learned that happiness can be so simple and sincere. I smiled and said to Mr. Lee.
"Fools, this is to cherish each other and support each other. You are not alone in the world, with me, I am willing to go through all the ups and downs with you. Mr. Li gently stroked my head.
As a result, with Mr. Li's company, I became stronger and more confident. We walked together in the moonlight, shared each other's stories, and looked forward to a better future together. I know that no matter what happens, I will have his company and support. That's what happiness looks like.
Our days went on like this, and I began to re-examine my life. Every morning, the sun poured into the room through the window, and Mr. Li and I enjoyed breakfast together and discussed life and ideals together. He would always ask me after breakfast with concern, "Honey, what are your plans for today?"
I smiled and replied, "I plan to accompany you for a walk in the garden and then go to see your favorite movie together." ”
His eyes were full of appreciation and concern: "It sounds good, then let's go and enjoy the sunshine, feel the gentleness of the wind, and everything will be so beautiful." ”
During this wonderful time, I found myself becoming more calm and stronger. I regained my self-confidence and understood that my worth is not determined by any external factors. Mr. Li has always been by my side to encourage me and bring me constant strength and hope.
One day, we went to a charity dinner. I wore a red dress, red is my favorite color, it makes me feel confident and beautiful. As I walked around the dinner party, I felt the attention and appreciation of others. But I don't feel scared, because I know that I have Mr. Li by my side to support me all the time.
After dinner, we slowly walked on our way home. Mr. Li held my hand tightly and said, "Honey, you are so beautiful tonight, your smile and confidence make my heart flutter. ”
I looked at him gratefully: "It is your understanding and support that has made me better, we have faced everything together, and we have reaped happiness together." ”
He approached me and kissed me softly on the forehead: "I will always be by your side forever." ”
I reveled in his embrace, filled with happiness and gratitude. At this moment, I understood that happiness does not lie in the beauty of the outside, but in the goodness and strength of the heart. I am willing to face the challenges of life with Mr. Li and create more beautiful memories together.
I looked out the window, and the moonlight was as soft as water. I know that with Mr. Lee's company, I am no longer afraid of loneliness and challenges. We will embrace life together and create our happiness together. This is the happiness I have found, simple and sincere.
The moonlight of that night shone on me and Mr. Li, and the dim light of the street lamp was cast on our way. As we walked through the quiet streets, I felt calm and content. Suddenly, the cry of a young girl interrupted my thoughts. I stopped and saw a young girl sitting on a bench on the side of the road sobbing.
Mr. Li looked at me and whispered, "Go see her, maybe she needs help." ”
I nodded, and walked over to the girl. As I sat next to her, she lifted her tearful face and said to me, "I have nothing. My parents left me, I lost my job, and I didn't even have a friend to talk to. ”
I patted her gently on the back and tried to comfort her: "Don't worry, everything will be fine." Don't give up on yourself, life will be better, and I will always be with you. ”
The girl looked up, and there was a hint of hope in her eyes: "Who are you?"
I smiled and introduced myself: "My name is Xiao Si, and this is my friend, Mr. Li." We have been through many challenges and tribulations, but we have all found our happiness. Now, we have been together, supporting each other, and facing the ups and downs of life together. You will also find your own happiness. ”
"Thank you, you are such kind people. Gratitude grew to her eyes.
I shook her hand and said encouragingly, "Remember, when life forces you into the dark, there will always be someone who reaches out to help you and don't give up hope." ”
We saw the girl off and continued our walk down the street. Mr. Li silently held my hand, his eyes full of appreciation and love.
"Your kindness and care always make me proud. We've been feeling the world and caring for others. Mr. Li said.
I smiled and responded, "I think we are lucky because we are all together with each other, we have experienced difficulties together, and we have felt happiness together." We need to continue to support each other and face life's challenges together. ”
Mr. Li hugged me tightly, and we walked towards the future together, embracing the light of tomorrow together.
The kindness and love that wells up in our hearts make us happy and make us messengers of helping others. At this moment, I understood the meaning of life and the essence of happiness. It was at this moment that I felt a deep sense of peace and contentment.
We walked on the way home, the stars were shining brightly and the night breeze was blowing. I am grateful for all this, and I am grateful for the happiness that fate has brought me. "Xiao Si, look, how beautiful the stars in the sky are. Mr. Li said as he looked at the night sky with a smile. "Yes, they shine brightly, like a little bit of light in our lives. I responded. Mr. Li clasped my hand tightly, as if making a wish through the starlight: "I hope that we can always have this happiness, no matter what difficulties we encounter, we can face them together and spend a little bit of life together." "Yes, we'll always be together. I nodded, my heart swelling with happiness and gratitude. Mr. Li said softly to the little girl, "You have to believe that life will get better." No matter what happens, you're not alone. We will be with you. I also encouraged the little girl: "Remember, hope is always waiting for you, you have to be strong in the face of the difficulties in front of you, and believe that good things will come." "We had a great time with the children, and it also made me deeply understand the true meaning of happiness. Happiness is not just about having, it's about giving and giving. Back at home, I sat quietly on the balcony. I learned that happiness is what we experience and cherish. It is the love we give to others, the support and warmth from others, and the experience that we know how to cherish and dedicate. "Xiao Si, I made some hot tea," Mr. Li said as he walked to the balcony, "and now the starry sky outside looks like a shimmering brown color." I looked at him with a smile, then hugged him tightly in my arms: "Tomorrow will be better because of you." "We look up at the night sky, and our hearts are filled with gratitude for life and hope for the future. From that moment on, I knew this was what I was looking for...... Happiness.
Mr. Li and I sat on the balcony, the hot tea in our cups gradually dissipating the chill of the night. I took a quiet sip of tea and said, "Our lives have changed for the better, and that encounter and all the experiences are the gift of happiness." ”
"Yes, all the twists and turns and ups and downs, let us cherish each other's understanding and tolerance even more. Mr. Li quietly sipped the tea, "I thank God for allowing me to spend all this time with you." ”
Suddenly, Mr. Li put away the teacup, stood up, and said to me with a smile: "Xiao Si, I want to show you a secret!"
"What's the secret?" I asked curiously.
"Follow me!" He smiled and took my hand and led me through the living room to our study.
"Look!" he pointed to the wall of the study.
I looked up and saw that the walls were full of pictures of us, pictures of us traveling together, pictures of us facing life hand in hand, pictures of our happy times...... Each photo is a record of our shared memories and happiness.
"This is my secret for you, we have had so many beautiful moments along the way, I want to keep them all here, so that our happy story will be remembered forever. Mr. Lee smiled so happily and contentedly.
As I looked at the photos, tears blurred my eyes, and I could no longer control the gratitude that welled up in my heart.
"Thank you, dear, for showing me our happiness and making me even more convinced of the future of goodness. I hugged Mr. Li excitedly.
We hugged each other and felt this touching warmth.
"I am willing to continue to work with you in the future to overcome every difficulty and create a beautiful future for us. Mr. Lee's voice was full of yearning for the future.
Our love and happiness are as warm and touching as the pictures on the walls of this room. Everything in front of me is so beautiful and real. We have already found the happiness in each other's hearts, and this happiness will always be guarded together.