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: Did you two try it alone?
I still remember that day at home, when I announced to my family that I was about to get engaged, my brother and daughter-in-law suddenly made a condition: you two should try it alone? However, her words left a deep imprint on my mind. And at this time, another family member made an equally unexpected opinion, and that was my sister-in-law-to-be. She seriously advised, "You two live alone for a while to see if you're really a good fit." "I was a little shocked, but at the same time I felt that the proposal was worth trying.
My fiancée, Lily, is a lively and cheerful girl who always brings me joy and laughter. We've known each other for many years, dating since college, and now our wedding date is approaching. However, Lily's personalities and I are very different. I'm a more introverted and quiet person, while she's an outgoing and social person. We always have happy times together, but the problem is that in the dull days, I start to find our differences gradually manifest.
I started to hesitate, I wasn't sure if we were really fit to get married. When I asked Lily this question, her reaction was beyond my expectations: "Don't you trust our feelings?" Her words made my heart ache, it wasn't that I didn't trust our feelings, but I began to wonder if our personalities could really get along harmoniously. I hesitated, not knowing what to do.
Just when I was in a conflict, my sister-in-law came to my house. She is an intelligent and empathetic woman who often gives pertinent advice to our family's problems. When she heard about my troubles, she said nonchalantly, "You two have tried it alone?"
I looked at her in amazement, and there was a determination in her eyes, and I read a conviction in her eyes. I started to think about it, maybe we really need such a time to confirm our relationship.
So, I decided to make this suggestion to Lily. I was nervous when I faced her. I said, "Lily, I think we need some time to think about our relationship. She was stunned for a moment, then asked, "Don't you want to marry me anymore?" The question made me feel even more helpless, and I couldn't find a proper reason to explain my thoughts. However, when I told her about my confusion, she also started thinking about it.
Eventually, we decided to be apart for a while. I moved out of my old place and Lily moved into her friend's house. We all felt very lonely and lonely during this time. I started thinking about the little things we had and the happy times we had together. And Lily also spends a lot of alone time at her friend's house. This period of time is the most precious time we have ever had.
During this time apart, I began to think about our relationship. I think back to the moments we traveled together and the times we faced difficulties together. I began to realize that our relationship was not weakened by separation. I began to understand that this time had strengthened my determination to spend my life with Lily. And Lily also revisited our relationship during this time, and she was more certain of our relationship.
Finally, we are back together. When we met again, I saw a determination in Lily's eyes. We decided to move on because we understood the importance of each other better. During this time of ordeal, our love has become stronger.
"Why don't you two try it alone?" was a simple yet profound question that strengthened our relationship. This experience made us understand the importance of each other. We are not estranged because we are separated, on the contrary, we understand the importance of each other better. Thanks to my brother-in-law and sister-in-law-to-be, it was their proposal that strengthened our relationship.
In the days we got back together, Lily and I both cherished each other more. We started to be more proactive in making up for each other's shortcomings, and I tried to fit into her preferred social circle. The ordeal between us strengthened our relationship until I finally proposed to her on a starry night. She burst into tears and nodded in agreement.
"Our wedding will be a grand banquet and must be well prepared. Lily said excitedly.
"Well, I'll get everything in order, you don't have to worry. I replied with a smile.
On the eve of the wedding, my brother-in-law suddenly found me. "Are you really ready to get married?" she asked, looking at me earnestly.
"Yes, my relationship with Lily has become stronger, and I firmly believe that she is the love of mine. I replied firmly.
"Alright then, you still have a long way to go, I bless you. She said with a smile.
On the day of the wedding, Lily was dressed in a gorgeous white wedding dress, as beautiful as an angel. I reveled in her beauty, and my heart swelled with endless love for her. When the pastor announced that we were husband and wife, I felt happiness bloom in my heart. Our wedding was like a fairy tale, and we started a new life with the blessings of friends and loved ones.
On our wedding night, Lily and I strolled along the beach, the cool sea breeze on our faces. I took her into my arms and felt her warmth. "Thank you for choosing me. I said softly.
"I also feel very blessed to have you by my side. Lily said, leaning into my arms.
In the years that followed, we walked hand in hand to spend the ups and downs of life together. We have our own strengths and weaknesses, but we are all willing to tolerate each other and grow together. In daily trivial matters, we understand each other and understand each other's hearts better. Sometimes, we also quarrel over small things, but in the end we all sit down and listen to each other's hearts. Time has gradually made us more cherishing and tolerant.
"Baby, our lives are getting better. Lily leaned into my arms and said happily.
"yes, I feel like we're growing all the time and our love is thriving. I put my arms around her and sighed at the happiness I was having.
"You say, if we hadn't been separated, would we be as happy as we are now?" Lily asked softly, looking at me.
I smiled and replied, "Perhaps, we need that time to understand each other better and learn to get along better." So, I feel like the decision was the right one for us. ”
"yes, maybe being separated is not a bad thing, it makes us know more. Lily said, holding my hand tightly.
We hugged each other and looked out at the distant sky, our hearts full of anticipation and hope for the future. We understand that love takes time to precipitate and sublimate. Let's protect this precious relationship together and go through more years. Because, we are always growing, and our love is constantly growing.
Lily and I have gone through many difficulties and setbacks, but we have both tried to bear and face them. On an unforgettable trip, we ascended a towering mountain. Standing on the top of the hill, we overlook the whole city, a spectacular sight.
"It's beautiful, baby. I whispered.
"Yes, the moment was really peaceful and beautiful. Lily said, leaning into my arms.
"I feel like we've been through so much and every step has been so rewarding. I said with emotion.
"Yes, with you by my side, I think it's worth it no matter what difficulties I encounter. Lily said firmly.
We looked at each other and smiled, and on the top of the tranquil mountain, we felt cherished and attached to each other. This period also made me more aware that every difficulty and setback can make us more mature and strong.
"There are always ups and downs in life, but as long as we walk hand in hand, every moment is worth it. I said, holding Lily's hand.
"Yes, I am willing to go through everything with you. Lily said as she squeezed my hand.
At that moment, I felt the true meaning of happiness. The relationship between us is as eternal as the green mountains and green waters, guarding our love.
In retrospect, my sister-in-law-to-be's phrase "You two have tried it alone?" seems to have become part of our love story. Those days of separation made us more aware of the preciousness of each other, and also made us know more about how to tolerate and understand each other in our relationship. This experience has led to a stronger love and a happy marriage.
Perhaps, every relationship takes some time to test, and our love is like the strong Great Wall, which can withstand any challenges encountered. Lily said happily.
"Yes, our love has gone through ups and downs, but it has grown stronger and more precious. I whispered.
We have gone through a lot step by step, and although there will still be all kinds of trivial things and troubles in our current life, we all know how to face and solve them. Now we have become stronger and more mature, and our love has become more beautiful and profound. Every bit of life has made us, just like the mountain, we climbed it and looked down on the beauty of life. Because we're always growing, so is our love.
During this time, our marriage has been better than I could have imagined. Every little bit of my life has become my precious memories, such as waking up every morning to see Lily's sweet smile, and I feel very happy.
"Baby, next weekend, let's go to the beach, I've heard that the sunset is very beautiful. "Lily warmly invited me.
"Okay, let's go next weekend. I excitedly agreed.
So, we came to the seaside city and strolled along the long beach. The waves crash on the beach, the breeze blows, and we feel the beauty of nature. As the sun sets, the afterglow reflects on the sea, and the golden glow reflects on Lily's face, which is so beautiful that people are fascinated.
"The view of the sea at sunset is so beautiful. Lily exclaimed.
"yes, it's intoxicating. I also sighed.
At that moment, I felt that this beautiful love was as peaceful and beautiful as this seaside. The love between us is not only about loving and being loved, but also about knowing each other, tolerating each other, and looking forward to the future.
"I didn't expect our love to go through so much and finally come together. Lily whispered.
"Yes, the ups and downs along the way have made us cherish each other more. I also said with emotion.
After experiencing separation, we have come to understand the preciousness of each other. Every separation and reunion is a sublimation of our love. That time of separation was more like a test of our love, and we both passed this test without any problems.
Back at home, we hugged each other and looked out the window at the starry sky. I felt the happiness in my heart, and the warmth and emotion made me feel that no matter what difficulties I encountered, I was willing to face them with Lily.
"Thank you for being with me through all this. I said gratefully to Lily.
"Fool, we are one. Lily said, stroking my head.
We looked at each other and smiled, and our love shimmered against the starlight. We know that no matter what challenges come our way, we will face them together, because we all know that our love is worth it. Because in the end, our love becomes more mature and precious, and it also makes us stronger and braver.
Standing on the rooftop, Lily and I watched the night view of the city together. The lights flickered, and the starry night sky seemed to reflect the prosperity of the ground.
"The busy figure in the crowd precipitates the ups and downs of life. Lily whispered.
"Yes, the night always has a special charm. I sighed.
The night breeze was blowing, blowing Lily's long hair. I looked at her quietly and felt a deep happiness. Our love has gone through ups and downs, but each experience has made our relationship deeper and more mature.
"Our love is like this night sky, although there has been darkness, it can always be illuminated by stars. Lily's eyes sparkled with wisdom.
"Yes, love is the light that illuminates our way forward. I smiled in response.
In the mutual affection, we have learned to tolerate and understand each other. This love is no longer a matter of two people, it is our common faith and hope.
Perhaps, the separation during that period of time is the importance of making us more aware of each other. Lily said quietly.
"Yes, I also feel that every setback has made our love more precious. "I feel the same way.
Standing on the rooftops of the city, we gaze into the distance. Maybe we need more ups and downs to forge this deep affection. Love is not smooth sailing, maybe it is the sweetness after experiencing ups and downs.
As the night darkens, our love shines like the lights of the city. On this special night, our hearts are as bright as this starry sky.
"Baby, no matter what the future holds, we will face it bravely. I whispered.
"Yes, we will always move hand in hand. Lily said firmly.
We engrave the oath of youth under the stars, and this sincere love has made us successful, and it also makes us cherish and protect it more. Perhaps, we still need to go through wind and rain, but we believe that in every morning, the sun will always bring warm sunshine and illuminate our love. Because we're always growing, so is our love.
Looking at the glittering night view of the city, Lily and I felt a deep sense of joy in our hearts. This night, like a mirror, makes us deeply recall all the sweetness and ups and downs.
"Baby, I feel like our relationship is stronger. Lily said softly.
"Yes, every step of the way has made us happy. "I couldn't agree more.
In this city, we taste the ups and downs of love. Every moment is the forgery of love, and it is also our agreement with time.
"Looking back now, our love path was also tortuous and beautiful. I looked at Lily affectionately.
Perhaps it is parting that makes us more aware of the importance of each other. Lily also said with deep feelings.
We stood hand in hand under the starry sky and felt each other's presence and firmness. At that moment, the light of love illuminates the longing and longing in our hearts.
"Baby, we're all hopeful for the future, aren't we?" I whispered.
"Yes, we're going to keep going. Lily said firmly.