#头条创作挑战赛#
In the past two days, I have once again felt the weight of the words "human words are terrifying".
This time, the victim was a woman from the grandmother's generation, and her name was Yan Huide.
还记得“闺蜜”和“敌蜜”吗？
This "stalk" came from her mouth.
People who don't know why will think she is another "cyber clown"?
Actually the opposite.
Wanyan Huide is a meticulous person.
Her account credentials are:
National Level 2 Psychological Counselor.
In the past three years, she has released more than 700 videos to popularize mental health knowledge, and has been insisting on live broadcasts to provide psychological counseling services to netizens.
However, the ignorant actions of netizens almost ruined this brave woman.
Counselor or clown?
A few months ago, Wanyan Huide suddenly became popular.
It's not because of how well she speaks, but because her slightly rustic accent and outfit make some "Internet musicians" find something to laugh at.
"Dimi" (antonym of Dimi, girlfriend), "Laughing" (laughing), "Thinking of Lianai" (wanting to fall in love), "Women want iPhones" (Women want to keep to themselves), "Problems in the cage" (ethical problems......
Seeing these so-called "stalks", I don't know if everyone laughs.
I didn't really care when I first saw this.
The reason is simple: low-level!
Why laugh at a middle-aged woman's accent?
How short is the world of jokes?
As a party, Wanyan Huide also thinks so.
She feels she has suffered a personal humiliation, and the two videos she pinned to the top are both calling on netizens to stop taunting.
But.
The more serious she is, the more angry she gets, and the more excited netizens become.
A large number of netizens poured into the live broadcast room, swiping the screen with rotten stalks, and foul language, without taking into account Wanyan Huide's feelings.
Sometimes, there is finally a netizen who seems to want to consult for help to apply for a connection, and she opens it a little, and there is a strange sound of yin and yang on the opposite side.
There are also people who deliberately ask some foul-smelling questions, bury traps for her, and wait to see her jokes.
In addition, netizens also ridiculed her for having a very square face, like Yang Mi in the early days.
Many people have "recreated" her voice and images and made them into various vulgar and funny emojis and videos.
What's more, someone hacked the website of her work unit and made harassing phone calls to the Provincial Psychological Association and Peking University.
These people also found her phone address through illegal means, hundreds of harassing phone calls came every day, and even strangers often knocked on her door.
……
Considering her age, Wanyan Huide didn't understand why netizens treated her like this!
Seeing those inexplicable contents go viral all over the Internet, as a psychological counselor, she couldn't think about it for a while......
Who wants to be laughed at?
How is she going to continue her normal life?
What is the difference between this and bullying the elderly in public?
Wan Yan Huide said:
"I'm an innocent person, why should I be insulted like you like this?"
That's right. She used the word "innocent".
Strong or vulnerable?
Before December 21, few people cared about Yan Huide.
But with the release of a documentary, the reversal happened suddenly.
It turned out that Wanyan Huide really reverted to Wanyan, she is a native of Pingliangjingchuan, Gansu, and a descendant of the Jurchen tribe.
In the documentary, she returned to her hometown where she hadn't seen her for seven years, but it was her aunt who greeted her.
Due to the early death of her father, her mother had her own life, and she had to grow up with relatives.
When talking about her parents, she choked up:
"My father died when I was five and a half years old, and I was a girl who wanted me to ...... Mom has a mother's life, don't talk about it, it's here, it's only here. ”
She also said:
"Childhood, looking back, was really happy. But after childhood, it is not so happy. ”
When I was in school, I saw that my classmate's father bought her beautiful clothes, and she said that she was beautiful, but she cried a lot behind her back.
She encouraged herself, "If you don't have parents, you won't have it, I'll study hard Xi how I will ...... in the future"
At that time, the phenomenon of patriarchy in rural areas was very serious, but she gritted her teeth and strengthened her belief in going out, and worked her own.
In that era, she was not only admitted to university, but also self-admitted to Peking University for a degree in psychology.
Choosing psychology may be the hope of self-redemption and becoming a happy person.
Seeing this, many people understand why Yan Huide always advises everyone to read:
"The personification of the dou book (the woman who reads) is the most beautiful, and the personification of the dou book is the best. ”
Wanyan Huide is unmarried and has no children, and no one tells her how to use the Internet.
She taught herself how to edit, broadcast live, and greeted netizens with energy every day.
No one knows how she spent the last six months since she became popular.
Perhaps, not many people can patiently listen to her.
But during the live broadcast, whether it is a black fan or not, she will carefully record the problem.
I couldn't tell if she was a fragile person or a strong person......
Wanyan Huide once preached with tears in her eyes during the live broadcast:
"Once I sat on the mountain and called out to my father, once I sat by the river with tears in my eyes.
Once I was a rootless grass, swaying in the wind, tasting the scorching heat.
Now I have grown into a towering tree.
I am grateful to everyone I meet in my life, and I am grateful to my father for giving me strong self-confidence. ”
At that time, many people laughed at her and adapted her thoughts about her father into a joke......
At this moment, I am extremely convinced:
Those "fun people" are far less than one-ten-thousandth of Wanyan Huide.
I've also really come to understand what it means to be "I'm standing on the top of a mountain, looking down on a mediocre ravine!"
To those who are vulgar and narrow-minded
This is one of the most foul-smelling comments I've ever seen, but hundreds of thousands of people have liked:
A good sentence "playing with stalks contributed to her explosion"!
A good sentence "I have the opportunity to tell her own story"!
What a phrase "don't be sorry for the past"!
really responded to the sentence "If you don't stab yourself, you don't know how much it hurts".
These netizens know how to "self-heal".
After reading it, I even had an illusion:
Is it possible that you have to let Wanyan Huide kowtow to netizens?
We have to admit one fact:
Most of the pain in this world is borne by those who are well-hearted.
Those who don't have a heart will not blame themselves even if they make a big mistake.
In the documentary, the interviewer asked Mr. Wanyan:
"Don't you think people play memes because they like you?"
She was helplessly silent.
She later said that she had been trying to understand the difficulties of these people:
"Maybe they're unhappy with real life. Maybe they can't vent so unscrupulously in front of their parents and teachers. ”
When she said these words, perhaps she remembered her once helpless self again.
Teacher Wanyan didn't do anything wrong, but she took the initiative to bear the consequences of this farce.
She will look for positive comments in the tidal wave of ridicule, and look for hope while receiving blows.
When she sees criticism from netizens, she will take the initiative to reflect on whether she is really old and has not kept up with the rhythm of the times.
When she saw someone say that she had become much more cheerful after two months of attending classes, she felt that it was very meaningful to stick to the live broadcast.
I can't figure it out:
What kind of person would laugh at such a pure person?
What kind of satisfaction can teases her accent and appearance bring to people?
Is the so-called "queue up to apologize" more like a self-touch?
At the end of the interview, Ms. Wan Yan did an MBIT test.
The results showed that her personality types were:
Inspiring optimists.
Seeing this, Teacher Wanyan smiled happily.
Because, she has always been the one who influences others with a positive and optimistic attitude.
Perhaps, her heart has always longed to be recognized and loved.
There is a detail in the documentary:
She wears a mask every time she goes out.
She said that she was worried that she would be photographed by netizens and spoofed again.
I would like to say:
It's not her who should really be ashamed. It's the coarse, narrow-minded hearts.
I really hope that those "fun people" will stop playing stalks and repay Teacher Yan Huide with sincere respect.