Zeng Zhiwei has two marriages and four children
Zeng Zhiwei, who was in his prime, ushered in his first marriage at the age of 19. At that time, he was still young and inexperienced in relationships and marriages, and the marriage arranged by his parents lasted for 3 years and ended in divorce.
Although this marriage was short-lived, it also gave Zeng Zhiwei the first gift in his life - 2 innocent daughters. Their birth brought a lot of joy to Zeng Zhiwei, who was depressed in the future.
Subsequently, Zeng Zhiwei met the other half of his life - Zhu Xizhen. Zhu Xizhen does not have the aura of the entertainment industry, just a kind and virtuous woman. She gave Zeng Zhiwei a warm home and brought him 2 lovely sons.
For a while, Zeng Zhiwei seemed to have a complete family. The days with Zhu Xizhen were Zeng Zhiwei's happiest time, because he was accompanied by his lover and surrounded by his children.
He also loves his two sons very much and hopes that they will grow up healthy and happy.
However, the good times were short-lived. When her son was 10 years old, Zhu Xizhen suddenly left Hong Kong with her two children and went to distant Canada.
This decision directly led to a rift in the relationship between Zeng Zhiwei and his sons. Living in a foreign country for many years, the sense of distance between father and son has been invisibly widened. Although I still have concerns in my heart, I have less time to spend with each other, and I understand less.
Zeng Zhiwei's father's love has nowhere to put it, but can only pin it on work and career.
eldest daughter-in-law Wang Minyi: An actress who was loved by Zeng Zhiwei
Wang Minyi, born in 1992, is a simple and simple girl. In order to help her family, she began to work as a graphic model at the age of 14 and began her acting career.
An opportunity to cooperate, Wang Minyi was fortunate to meet Zeng Guoxiang's father, the famous comedian Zeng Zhiwei.
At that time, Wang Minyi was just a newcomer in the entertainment industry, and she participated in the movie "Scorching Sun" produced by Zeng Zhiwei. The young and beautiful Wang Minyi left a deep impression on Zeng Zhiwei.
So a few years later, when his son Zeng Guoxiang returned to being single, Zeng Zhiwei decided to match the pair.
Wang Minyi's demeanor and demeanor are very pleasing to Zeng Zhiwei. She is humble and courteous, and has great respect for her great-grandparents. She does not have an uninhibited star style, but is like a considerate and good daughter-in-law.
Zeng Zhiwei saw that Wang Minyi was thinking about Zeng Guoxiang everywhere, and the relationship between husband and wife was also harmonious because of her, and he was very satisfied with this gentle and virtuous daughter-in-law.
The competition in the entertainment industry is so fierce, Zeng Zhiwei couldn't bear to let Wang Minyi suffer in vain, so he gave her great care in her career. Under his recommendation, Wang Minyi was able to play the starring role in a number of popular TV series, and gradually emerged in the circle.
What makes Zeng Zhiwei most pleased is that Wang Minyi's personality is not arrogant because of fame, but is still humble and attentive, and he is grateful to repay his kindness.
Perhaps, everyone's final gain is directly proportional to their own efforts. Wang Minyi carefully manages the relationship with the Zeng family, and learns to repay this sincerity while being loved.
She has become Zeng Zhiwei's most proud daughter-in-law, and her increasingly successful acting career is also the reward of this gratitude.
Second daughter-in-law Zhang Kehui: A strong woman who turned her face with her father-in-law
Zhang Kehui is a very ambitious woman. She always wants to marry into a wealthy family and live a rich life. finally looked forward to the marriage with Zeng Guoyou, she was ecstatic, but she didn't know that she was not happy in Zeng's family.
When she first married into the Zeng family, Zhang Kehui always felt that she had been wronged. She was dissatisfied with her husband's status in the family business, and she also looked down on her father-in-law and mother-in-law, who were from a civilian background.
As a result, she began to disclose the Zeng family's privacy on the Internet, and then challenged Zeng Zhiwei's authority again and again in public.
Zeng Zhiwei was full of disappointment with this daughter-in-law. What she did is enough to show that she does not regard the Zeng family as her own at all. Zhang Kehui only cared about her own face and interests, and did not take the feelings of other family members to heart at all.
As a result, Zeng Zhiwei's humiliation of her was naturally revealed. When he travels, he will deliberately let Zhang Kehui sit in economy class, while everyone else enjoys it in business class.
Zhang Kehui's roars and complaints did not win the slightest sympathy, but were alienated by the Zeng family.
Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans. Zhang Kehui didn't treat the Zeng family as her home, so naturally she didn't get the love of her family. Her strong style is incompatible with the Zeng family, and her arrogant personality is also difficult for them to accept.
Finally, after many contradictions, Zhang Kehui had to leave the Zeng family and divorce Zeng Guoyou.
The family conflicts exposed on the stage of the party
In 2021, the feud between Zeng Zhiwei's eldest son Wang Haoxin and his wife Chen Ziyao was exposed in public at two galas and became a hot topic at the time.
That year, Wang Haoxin won the throne of the emperor at TVB's awards ceremony. He excitedly walked on the stage to give a speech, full of praise for his wife Chen Ziyao. But Chen Ziyao, who was sitting in the audience, looked indifferent and was not happy about her husband's award.
This scene was completely recorded by the camera, exposing the obvious discord between the two.
In the same year, at TVB's Taiwan celebration party, the host set up a question and answer game session. When Chen Ziyao was asked "something that will lead to being hidden by the company", she didn't dare to answer and pushed the microphone to Lai Weiling on the side.
Who knew that Lai Weiling also shirked the past, and finally passed this "hot potato" to Wang Minyi.
Wang Minyi immediately said the word "derailment" without hesitation, which attracted laughter and warm applause from the audience. Everyone understands that she is angry for Chen Ziyao and makes Wang Haoxin's cheating behavior public.
Zeng Zhiwei saw it in his eyes and admired it. Wang Minyi is the same as him, with clear love and hate, and decisive action. She stood up for her own people in full view, which made Zeng Zhiwei very pleased.
This shows that she has to protect the interests of the Zeng family under pressure, which undoubtedly strengthens her position in the Zeng family.
Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans
"Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans", this proverb expresses a seemingly simple truth of life - what everyone reaps in the end is proportional to what they give.
Zeng Zhiwei's different treatment of his two daughters-in-law reflects this truth.
Wang Minyi integrated into the Zeng family with a grateful heart. She respects her father-in-law and mother-in-law, thinks about Zeng Guoxiang everywhere, and plays the role of a daughter-in-law. Zeng Zhiwei saw it in his eyes, was pleased with her personality, and also saw that she sincerely wanted to be a part of this family.
Therefore, he fully supports Wang Minyi's career, hoping that she can go smoothly in the entertainment industry.
Zhang Kehui is completely the opposite, after she married into the Zeng family, she just blindly demanded privileges and demanded the wealth and status of her husband's family. She doesn't understand that as a new member of the family, it takes time to get used to each other and understand each other.
Zhang Kehui's strong style and arrogant personality made the other members of the Zeng family unacceptable, and also suppressed Zeng Zhiwei's desire to be good to her.
A home is like a circle, and each member is an indispensable piece of the puzzle. Only when everyone sincerely pays for this home, can the home become loving and warm.
Wang Minyi doesn't care about personal gains and losses, and puts the interests of the Zeng family first everywhere. Her every word and deed is proving to her father-in-law that she truly regards the Zeng family as her own home.
This kind of selfless dedication has naturally been recognized and rewarded by Zeng Zhiwei.
On the other hand, Zhang Kehui married into a wealthy family but did not have the cultivation of a wealthy woman, she only thought about getting benefits from the Zeng family, and did not care about the feelings of others. Her selfishness angered her father-in-law and made her mother-in-law feel bad about her.
Zhang Kehui, who lacks the emotional foundation of her family, will not stay in the Zeng family for long after all.
Love is a seed that needs to be watered with the heart before it can blossom and bear fruit. Zhang Kehui is unwilling to spend time and love in the Zeng family, but she has to gain respect and favor first. She does not understand that family relationships need to be established by both parties, and that mutual trust, mutual understanding, and mutual care are required.
If you want to get love, you need to learn to love people first.
The road of life seems to be a double standard, but in fact, cause and effect are related
Zeng Zhiwei's different attitudes towards his two daughters-in-law seem to be "patriarchal" at first glance, but in fact, it is not a subjective double standard, but the love that everyone finally receives is proportional to the love he gave before.
This is not an accident, but an inevitable law of life - plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans.
Wang Minyi treats the Zeng family like a relative, and thinks for everyone everywhere, Zeng Zhiwei naturally trusts and appreciates her. She took the initiative to shorten the distance with her father-in-law, so that Zeng Zhiwei felt her father's love, and Zeng Zhiwei of course treated her sincerely.
And Zhang Kehui just wants to ask and not give, and she doesn't care about other family members, and Zeng Zhiwei's indifference to her is also reasonable.
In fact, Zeng Zhiwei is very fair and just in his heart. He will not deliberately favor one daughter-in-law and snub another. But as the elder of the family, his attitude will naturally favor those who respect him more and make him feel valued.
This has nothing to do with double standards, it is purely a normal human reaction.
The love that everyone receives depends on their previous contributions, which is the truth of life. We all want to be loved, but only if we learn to care about others – about their feelings and needs, not just for them.
It is only by caring for each other that we can achieve happiness.
In fact, Zeng Zhiwei did not deliberately favor one daughter-in-law and snub the other. He just responds fairly and reasonably to the emotions that everyone gives him. We should not comment on Zeng Zhiwei's actions, but reflect on how much love everyone really gave in exchange for the current result.
Before that, we are all equal. How much love each person can receive in the end depends on the degree of their previous care and watering. This is not only applicable to family relationships, but also a universal rule in life - giving will be rewarded, and love needs to be cultivated with heart.