Mom, I've done justice for you!"
"Mom, do you see it, it's not a pity for him to die, it's hard to understand the hatred in my heart!"
In front of the camera, 21-year-old Chen Changyu's eyes were firm.
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Late at night on March 14, 2021, his mother, Woo so-young, was poured gasoline on the sofa at home and set on fire, and later died of severe burns.
After nearly two years, he ran around to speak out, just to bring the murderer to justice, but he almost betrayed his relatives.
Just because, the murderer "Chen Jiwei" is his biological father.
Now, Chen Changyu has received his father's death sentence, but he didn't expect public opinion to push him to the forefront again.
"This child is stupid, your mother is dead, there is only one father, people can't be resurrected after death, and family ugliness can't be publicized, and it's still like this. ”
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Unfilial, stupid, and ruthless hats were buttoned on his head one by one.
He didn't respond much, and only posted a picture on social platforms.
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Because they are husband and wife, they don't have to pay for their lives if they kill someone?
Because it is a father and son, can you be silent and easily erase the hatred of killing your mother?
He wants justice for his mother, and he just needs justice.
"When there was less water to feed the pigs, he set her on fire"
Back in March 2021.
A week after his mother was burned, Chen Changyu got the news.
During that time, Chen Changyu's calls to his mother were not answered, and the only time he was connected, his mother lied that she was running errands in Kunming.
"Then why did the neighbor tell me that my dad beat you again and it's serious?"
Seeing that she couldn't hide it, her mother changed her story - she burned herself when she was filling up the motorcycle with gasoline.
When she arrived at the hospital, her mother, who was lying on the bed, had burns of more than 55% and was unrecognizable.
"She was swollen all over, black like a briquette, wrapped in gauze, and unable to move. I looked at her and didn't recognize her at all. ”
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Later, he learned from his mother what happened:
That night, she slept on the sofa, sleepy and cold, and got up to find a quilt cover. Chen Jiwei went outside and brought in a pot of gasoline and splashed it all over the room. My mom went to grab the oil pot and it spilled on her body. She asked Chen Jiwei, what are you going to do? What's wrong with you? What did I do wrong? Chen Jiwei said that the night before, my mother had fed the pigs with less water. Suddenly, Chen Jiwei lit a fire, and my mother's face was the first to catch fire, and then the whole house was on fire. ”
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In this violence, Chen Jiwei was also slightly injured and lived in the same ward as his mother Yu Xiuying.
More than ten days later, Chen Jiwei was discharged from the hospital and never reappeared. Except for the $1,500 he was initially hospitalized, he refused to pay for other medical expenses.
At the same time, Chen Jiwei's younger brother threatened Chen Changyu not to call the police, otherwise he would not want to get any treatment fees.
Chen Jiwei sold his family's pigs, cattle and truck, and transferred all his money.
(Chen Jiwei who is recuperating at home)
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Chen Changyu could only borrow money from everywhere for his mother's treatment, but he really couldn't come up with the money, so he could only take his mother back to his aunt's house to recuperate.
On July 28, 2021, Chen Changyu just returned to the Guangdong factory to settle his salary. He had planned to accompany his mother to a hospital in Kunming a few days later.
But his mother didn't get him back—
That morning, Woo so-young felt severe pain, and blood oozed from the wound.
Because of the pain, she kept hitting her body on the bed, and finally died due to ineffective rescue.
This year, Yu Xiuying was only in her early 40s.
(Chen Changyu and Auntie's chat history)
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The tragedy of Chen Changyu's mother is not without a hint of foreshadowing.
24 years ago, Yu Xiuying, who was 19 years old and had a marriage contract, met Chen Jiwei on the way to the market.
After that, Yu Xiuying was with Chen Jiwei, even when her mother told her that Chen Jiwei was a well-known gangster in the neighborhood.
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Three years later, Yu Xiuying gave birth to Chen Changyu, and in the same year, Chen Jiwei was imprisoned for robbery with a knife, which was six years.
For six years, Yu Xiuying dragged Chen Changyu to grow up alone, waiting for her husband to come home.
She didn't expect that Chen Jiwei's release from prison brought her not a reunion, but a nightmare.
After returning home, Yu Xiuying was beaten and became commonplace, sometimes using beer bottles, sometimes using hookahs more than half a meter long, and she didn't stop when she saw blood.
Yu Xiuying had heart bypass surgery and couldn't do heavy work, so Chen Jiwei wanted to drive her out.
son Chen Changyu has also become an outlet for his father's anger:
"He used the cord of the rice cooker to pump me, and his legs were bruised, and each beating often lasted more than half an hour, depending on his mood. ”
When he was 9 years old, he was beaten, and Chen Changyu even drank dichlorvos for relief.
In 2017, 15-year-old Chen Changyu fled the family to work in Guangdong.
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Unlike her son, even though she was beaten again and again and fled back to her parents' house for refuge, Yu Xiuying never really thought about divorce.
"More than 20 years of youth have been given to Chen Jiwei, and now that he is old, how can he live after divorce? ”
But Yu Xiuying couldn't imagine that her compromise not only failed to give her son a normal family, but also made him lose his only loved one in the end.
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3 years ago, Yu Xiuying fled back to her parents' home because of unbearable domestic violence.
The year before last, when the Chinese New Year was approaching, Chen Jiwei came to Yu Xiuying and cried and made trouble, and her relatives persuaded her to go back to live again.
So on the sixth day of the Lunar New Year, Yu Xiuying returned to her husband's house.
In less than a month, Yu Xiuying was burned by her husband with gasoline.
Until Yu Xiuying died, Chen Jiwei was not arrested, and relatives persuaded Chen Changyu to treat it as a family matter and settle the matter.
Chen Changyu refused, and three months after his mother's death, Chen Changyu did not cremate her for a long time.
He had to wait for the autopsy results to come out and confirm that he met the conditions for filing a case of "intentional injury" before going to handle his mother's funeral.
In October last year, an autopsy report showed that Woo died of septic poisoning shock caused by burns.
Chen Jiwei's relatives were anxious, blaming Chen Changyu for calling the police, and his family asked him to write a letter of understanding, but Chen Changyu was unwilling.
Even his grandmother, who loved him, accused him of being unfilial.
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On the way to sue his father, Chen Changyu was lonely and desperate.
He did not accept a suspended death sentence, and did not accept indefinitely, so he wanted Chen Jiwei to be sentenced to death.
After the official lawsuit, he never said a word to his father and uncle.
In the court, Chen Jiwei also took a bite back, saying that it was gasoline poured by Yu Xiuying, and he didn't know how the fire burned.
Fortunately, Chen Changyu waited for his mother to do justice.
"Mom, I'll do justice for you. ”
I've seen such a sentence:
"There is never only evil or good in human nature, but if evil is not suppressed, it will grow up devouring the fear of others, gnawing at the good in their bodies with fangs and swallowing it with a mouthful of wine. ”
The tragedy of Chen Changyu's mother has been seen a lot in reality.
The forbearance of domestic violence will only allow evil to become more unscrupulous, and give birth to the next more serious violence.
Silence on domestic violence will not give the child a complete home, but will bring lifelong injuries to the child.
Some people say that if she could get out early, maybe the tragedy would not have happened.
But in fact, getting out is harder than you think.
"Human Lab" once conducted an interview on the street, what will you do when you encounter domestic violence.
Most of the respondents almost did not hesitate to say that they would call the police and get a divorce.
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However, some data show that victims of domestic violence only choose to report to the police after suffering an average of 35 domestic violence attempts.
The first reason is to believe that the other party will change their ways.
In the early stage of violence, the other party often expressed regret, and even cried bitterly, knelt down and other actions.
This is the case with Chen Jiwei. When Yu Xiuying was beaten back to her parents' house, he would bring his relatives to the door and beg her to go back crying and making trouble.
Second, the abuser will exert psychological control over the victim, known as the "gaslighting effect".
After apologizing, the abuser will find a "reasonable" explanation for his actions:
"I'm not domestic violence. "I hit you because you're bad. ”
Under the long-term mental suggestion, the victim will continue to self-deny and doubt, and even have a sense of "guilt" and apologize to the abuser.
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Third, every victim of domestic violence has nothing to rely on.
The people around the victims are mostly persuasive and undissuaded, or even silent.
Chen Changyu remembers that when his mother was beaten when he was a child, he always ran out of the door to ask his neighbors for help. The neighbor came running over, always saying a few words of persuasion and leaving.
Chen Changyu also called the police, but was told that "it is a family dispute and cannot be managed".
He persuaded his mother to divorce many times, but when his mother's family got together, he said, "It is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage."
When 15-year-old Chen Changyu left Shenzhen, no one dared to say anything for Yu Xiuying.
Beyond this tragedy, there is not something we cannot do.
If you are experiencing domestic violence, please leave in time and stop the loss immediately!
Don't leave things to chance, and don't have any illusions that the person in front of you will change.
Forbearance will only make the other party feel weak and deceitful, and every connivance will only make you fall deeper into the black hole!
If someone close to you is experiencing domestic violence, don't take the posture that it is difficult for a clean official to decide the family matter.
Give them a little more understanding, what they need more than the sentence "endure again" is the sentence "I can do something for you".
I hope everyone lights it up and watches it and forwards it to the circle of friends!
I hope more people know: domestic violence is not a family matter, violence is intentional injury!
Resisting violence should not be the business of one person, one gender or one group!
Every appeal is to protect our mothers, sisters, children, and even more importantly, to protect ourselves!