A celebrity couple who used to be a couple of two
It is often said that feelings in the entertainment industry come and go quickly. Facing the spotlight and the public's gaze, the stars wore gorgeous and expensive dresses, stepped on the red carpet arm in arm, looked at each other and smiled, and seemed to be so compatible.
However, marriage is not as happy and sweet as it seems. Many years later, when the romantic love story came to an end, the star couple who originally seemed to be a good match could not escape the doom of "crossing the same boat for a hundred years, thousands of miles together".
Too many celebrities who have experienced a vigorous celebrity romance and marriage have ended in divorce. This is enough to show that marriage is not as simple as imagined, and it is fragile hidden behind the beautiful appearance.
When we witness the joyful and moving moment of a celebrity couple's wedding with envy and yearning; When we praise and praise the affection and love of a certain pair of celebrity partners, the one-word vows and affectionate eyes seem to be able to penetrate the screen and touch people's hearts.
However, in fact, marriage is like a spiritual and emotional climbing, even if it starts hand in hand, it is difficult to guarantee that they will not go their separate ways. When true love fades and sweet words fade, celebrity couples will also be left with indelible wounds and scars.
So when we praise celebrity romances and marriages, we may not turn a blind eye to the underlying vulnerabilities. Because marriage is never as easy, romantic, and logical as it seems.
Xu Min and Zhang Jinling: Gathering less and leaving more leads to relationship breakdown
The love between Xu Min and Zhang Jinling is like an encounter favored by God. The two met and knew each other during the filming of the movie "Hope", Zhang Jinling was deeply attracted by Xu Min's gentle and elegant personality, and Xu Min was also completely conquered by Zhang Jinling's blue and clear eyes and shy smile.
They quickly fell in love and registered their marriage after the crew was finished. After getting married, Zhang Jinling resolutely decided to retire from her husband and children at home, and concentrate on accompanying each other.
However, the good times did not last long, and the separation of the two places made them drift apart. Xu Min has gone abroad for business many times, and the pain of gathering less and leaving more has become the heart disease of the newlyweds.
Zhang Jinling was alone at home taking care of the children, waiting for her husband's return day after day. She tried her best to play the role of a good mother and wife, but she couldn't hide the loneliness and loss in her heart.
At the same time, the burden and pressure of working abroad are also increasing, and he actually misses his family in his heart.
Coming and going, the taste of gathering less and leaving more is really unbearable. There was gradually estrangement and misunderstanding between the two, and small contradictions gradually accumulated. Finally, after a home visit, Xu Min said the word breakup to Zhang Jinling with red eyes.
Although Zhang Jinling had a premonition, she still couldn't help but burst into tears. This is how the years of marriage came to an end, and they finally failed to cross the gap of less and more separation.
Marriage is so fragile.
Cheng Zhi and Yin Xiumei: A typical flash marriage
Speaking of flash marriage, we can't fail to mention Cheng Zhi and Yin Xiumei. The marriage between the two ended in less than half a year, which is undoubtedly a typical "flash marriage".
Cheng Zhi and Yin Xiumei are both popular stars, and their careers are booming, and they have no shortage of suitors. However, somehow, the two suddenly decided to get married in a flash after a certain commercial performance.
Maybe it was impulsiveness, or maybe it was the blindness of love, and they even held a grand and grand wedding without much thought.
However, the unsatisfactory life after marriage quickly shattered the dreams and fantasies of the two. Cheng Zhi's self-styled personality is incompatible with Yin Xiumei's pursuit of perfection, and it is inevitable that she will go further and further after a long run-in.
At first, they can pretend that everything is normal and try to play the role of "husband and wife". Soon, however, the feud deepened and the quarrel intensified.
Finally, after Cheng Zhi didn't return home at night, Yin Xiumei slammed the door with red eyes.
Marriage, from the beginning, was not as easy as they imagined. The celebrity couple did not escape the doom of the 'FAST marriage' either. Maybe next time, they will learn to be more cautious about marriage.
The state of life after the divorce
When celebrity couples announce their divorce, the eyes and discussions of the outside world often focus on the parties' new romance or new chapter in life. Few people will notice that their life after divorce is not as glamorous as they imagined.
Taking Lang Kun as an example, three marriages ended in failure, and the pain of breaking up with Ma Yanli is still vivid. On the surface, he is still active in the entertainment industry, but under the seemingly successful appearance, Lang Kun is often troubled by loneliness after divorce.
He is good at interpreting polite characters, but he actually has a very delicate and sensitive side in his heart. The wounds of divorce do not heal automatically with the passage of time.
Tian Ge and You Xiaogang divorced for many years, although the two maintained a friend relationship on the surface, only one who really knew their inner thoughts was himself. Tian Ge and her sister depend on each other, but she often can't sleep late at night, and her mind is full of bits and pieces of falling in love with You Xiaogang back then.
With superb acting skills, she is calm in front of the camera, but she will actually be secretly sad. The pain of marriage breakdown will not be alleviated by half a point just because she is a star.
Therefore, when we comment on celebrities' divorces and new relationships, we should not ignore the true portrayal of their hearts. The failure of marriage hurts them no less than any ordinary person.
Wang Xinjun's ex-wife's new life
Wang Xinjun and his ex-wife experienced a 10-year marriage, but in the end they did not make it to the end. When the bad news of the marriage change came, Wang Xinjun's ex-wife burst into tears.
She couldn't understand why this marriage that was supposed to be strong had suddenly collapsed. The news that Wang Xinjun turned around and married Qin Hailu made matters worse, revealing the scars on his ex-wife's heart.
In the days after the divorce, Wang Xinjun's ex-wife could only take on the responsibility of raising children alone. She devotes all her time and energy to the development of her children, but she often wakes up in the middle of the night and covers her mouth with a quilt to try to stop the uncontrollable sobbing.
The ex-wife understands that she must be strong to live. So she gradually walked out of her sadness, started anew, and started a new life.
Perhaps, some marriages are destined to end here. She also gradually learned to let go and accept this fact. The pain caused by the breakdown of her marriage will not completely disappear, but she knows that life is still there and the future is long.
Li Guyi's emotion
78-year-old Li Guyi, the two most important men in her life have left her one after another. Her ex-husband, Jin Tielin, who grew old with her back then, unfortunately died early.
Before dying, Jin Tielin held Li Guyi's hand and told her to take care of her body and live to be 100 years old. Li Guyi was sad and couldn't help it, and promised her ex-husband with red eyes that she would go on bravely with their memories.
Now Li Guyi and her daughter depend on each other, even if they live a simple life, she feels extremely satisfied and down-to-earth. Occasionally, when she sat alone by the window and looked into the distance, the time spent with Jin Tielin would come to mind.
Although it came to an end in the end, Li Gu had no regrets. Because she once had, she can be grateful and remembered for the rest of her life.
In fact, everyone's experience reminds us that the beautiful marriage of marriage contains the same touching and sourness. It is precisely because of the pain and parting that the memories are extraordinarily precious, and the rest of the life is extraordinarily fulfilling.
Li Guyi left the two most important men, but he also learned to truly love and be grateful.
The breakdown of the marriages of celebrities may be a portrayal of the married life of ordinary people. We often sincerely rejoice at the perfect ending of a celebrity marriage, but we often sigh when we hear the bad news of the divorce of the former husband and wife on a quiet morning.
People always say that the feelings in the entertainment industry come and go quickly. In fact, not only celebrities, but also ordinary people's marriages are equally fragile. We often hastily entrust our lives to another person because of impulsiveness and instant blindness; We are also often tempted to mess up our commitments to this life because of a small flaw or trivial matter.
Marriage is a road destined for setbacks and bumps, and it has never been the romance of love, but the mutual help day after day, year after year.
However, because we understand the fragility of marriage, we will cherish the people and beauty in front of us more. People who have experienced parting and pain are often the happiest and contented people in the world.
Li Guyi left the two most important men but still lived without regrets, Tian Ge and his sister depended on each other and finally got the comfort of life, which is the true meaning of marriage that ordinary people can also emulate.
Each story deserves to be remembered, because they inspire us to live life as it is: deep and shallow, showing the infinite mystery of life.