Someone on the Internet once did such a survey: in the modern marriage market, how many unmarried women want to marry a rich person? The survey results show that 93% want to marry rich people, and almost every woman has a dream in her heart, that is, to catch a veritable "golden turtle son-in-law".
As the old saying goes, "A woman does a good job than marries well". Some time ago, the Shanghai "pseudonymous yuan" circle that was popular on the Internet, these women with good looks and good looks, did not hesitate to rack their brains to package themselves, although in reality they also faced a variety of embarrassments of food, clothing, shelter and transportation, in the end, they were nothing more than using this gorgeous packaging to change their fate and realize their long-cherished wish of "the old nest is a mud swallow, flying up the branches to become a phoenix".
Some people have successfully married the "Golden Turtle Son-in-law" by virtue of this, and since then they have become among the rich and famous circles, achieved a gorgeous turnaround, and have lived a prosperous life since then, but more people are "as deep as the sea", and the bitterness in them can only be experienced by themselves. In the face of this, we can only say that everyone has the right to choose what kind of life they live, good and bad, fortunate and unfortunate, are all decided by themselves.
In the eyes of modern people, the "golden turtle son-in-law" that people have painstakingly fished is nothing more than a rich person, and with the continuous interpretation of this concept of money, the golden turtle son-in-law is also wrapped in layers of copper odor. When we trace back to the roots and look for the provenance of the Golden Turtle Son-in-Law, we will find that the historical "Golden Turtle Son-in-Law" refers more to the son-in-law with noble status. The beautiful name of "Golden Turtle Son-in-law" comes from Li Shangyin's small poem "For There", which describes the grievances of the young women of the eunuch family.
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Author: Li Shangyin
For the infinite delicacy of the cloud screen, Fengcheng is cold and afraid of spring supper.
Marry the golden turtle concubine for no reason, and live up to the early dynasty of the Xiang Dynasty.
Li Shangyin's life was bumpy, and the ambitions in his heart could not be realized, so he used poetry to dispel the depression and uneasiness in his heart. About 600 of Li Shangyin's poems have survived, and his epic poems focus on drawing on historical lessons to refer to Chen Zhengshi and ridicule the times to supplement them, and his achievements are relatively high. And his unique untitled poems, mostly based on the love of men and women as the theme, the mood should be squinting, the emotions are like a turn, the words are exquisite, the tone and beauty can be dense, and the reading is respirant.
The poem was written between the sixth year of Huichang (846) and the fifth year of Da Zhong (851), after Li Deyu's resignation and before the death of his wife Wang Shi. During this period, the niu and Li party fought, and the victories and defeats were fully displayed, and Li Shangyin's personal and family situation was very difficult. This poem clearly writes grievances, but the "Notes on the Collected Poems of Yuxi Sheng" cloud "has thorns outside the words". "Yuxi Sheng Poetry": Qu Fu: Yuxi with the world's most beautiful talent, the end of the old curtain, in the morning and out of the evening, the book is flawless, and the marriage of noble sons-in-law, negative incense? Its grievances should also be. It can be seen that this poem has an unspoken meaning and an unspoken sound.
The first sentence, "For being", goes straight to the point to suggest the cause of the grievance. "Yunping" mica screen, boudoir furnishings are rich, obviously in the official eunuch's home, the beauty behind the mica screen is particularly delicate, and at this time the cold winter in the capital is exhausted, the spring wind sends warmth, as the saying goes, "a moment of spring supper is worth thousands of gold", such a pleasant climate, this short spring supper, should have been warm and secretly sent, the young woman but "afraid" mood.
Three or four sentences reveal the cause of "fear". "Marry the Golden Turtle concubine for no reason, and live up to the early dynasty of xiangyuan." It turned out that he had married a husband who was a high-ranking official for no reason, and as an official in the dynasty, he had to get up early every day to go to the court, and for the sake of his career prospects, he could not covet warm incense, and he was also bent on thinking about the early dynasty, at this time, only the young woman was left alone in the empty house, and she had a grudge in vain. The word "unprovoked" portrays the young woman's delicate and complaining state, the pillow is warm, the two mouths are affectionate, and the noble son-in-law who wears a golden turtle wants to get up and leave, when he hears the young woman's strange words, his heart is also bitter and helpless. This unprovoked pillow-side remark not only reveals the young woman's deep affection for her husband's "repentant husband and wife seeking a marquis", and pours out her deep affection to her husband, but also reflects her husband's distress from the side, both the longing for the delicate and amorous wife, and the intolerance of the wife's strange words.
Thinking about oneself, it is not difficult to see that this poem is shallow and deep, associating the poet's own suffering, as a victim of the partisan struggle, a cavity of enthusiasm, full of economic ambitions have nowhere to show, but also by the unprovoked people as ungrateful xiaoxiao, personality is seriously insulted, the poet's painful mood of regret is the same as the mood of the young woman.
"Continuation of the Poetry Realm": When the bridesmaids are full of ambition, they are turning to the dawn bell of the Golden Que and the same dream of breaking the golden veil: the desire of life, and the period of satisfaction! In terms of poetry, Qi Simiao's pen, Gu "Incense Chips Collection" in the best selection also.
Notes on Li Yishan's Poetry Collection: Yao Peiqian: This is a careful and considerate word. The word "gratuitous" is a wonderful word, and its unspoken meaning should be so.
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