In 2013, a news spread in the entertainment industry - Batu openly introduced a woman named Wang Bogu as his girlfriend at a wedding. This news was like a bombshell, which exploded in the circle in an instant.
Because according to common sense, Batu, Song Dandan's only son, if he wants to marry someone, he must go through the mother's checks and considerations, how can he disclose a girlfriend at will? More importantly, this girlfriend Wang Bogu is a full 7 years older than Batu, such an age gap is undoubtedly beyond Song Dandan's acceptance.
Sure enough, when Wang Bogu's name reached Song Dandan's ears, Song Dandan exploded in an instant. She asked her son what was going on, but Batu couldn't come up with a reason.
Song Dandan became more and more angry, and she told reporters categorically that she hoped that Batu would wait for another ten years before considering marriage, which was tantamount to showing that she could not accept this family affair at all.
Song Dandan's reaction was also expected. She had an extremely bad impression of Wang Bogu, a woman, who felt that she was unkempt, often drank and smoked outside, and could not be a good spouse of Batu.
It stands to reason that Batu, a son who has always been filial and obedient, should immediately accept his mother's advice and cut off contact with Wang Bogu.
However, what Song Dandan didn't expect was that this time Batu showed strong stubbornness and persistence. He even proposed to his mother that he had to be with Wang Bogu, and no one could stop this relationship.
Batu's unprecedentedly strong attitude instantly ignited Song Dandan's anger, and she even threatened to sever the mother-son relationship with Batu, but Batu was still unmoved.
Seeing that the mother and son are in a fierce confrontation, how can Wang Bogu resolve the contradiction between the two and open the difficult heart lock of Song Dandan? The answer is still unclear, and people have to continue to observe whether this sweaty comedy can have a successful ending.
In the face of Song Dandan's strong opposition, Wang Bogu did not choose to retreat directly, but took the initiative to find ways to gain the approval of this difficult mother-in-law.
She first spent a lot of money to buy gifts and visited Song Dandan in person. Even if he was turned away every time he went, Wang Bogu never lost heart and continued to do this seemingly futile move.
Because she knows that as long as she has the opportunity to have face-to-face contact with Song Dandan, it is possible to gradually impress her mother-in-law and eliminate her prejudices.
After that, Wang Bogu often sent all kinds of homemade soup to Song Dandan. Without exception, these soups are prepared by Wang Bogu herself, and she hopes to express her sincere feelings for Batu through this subtle brush.
What's more, when Song Dandan went out filming, Wang Bogu also sent the soup to the crew and carefully prepared one for all the staff.
Cleverly, these actions of Wang Bogu soon had an impact within the crew. The employees were full of praise for Wang Bogu's care, and praised her daughter-in-law for her thoughtfulness and outstanding work ability in front of Song Dandan.
Song Dandan, as a person who pays great attention to face, is naturally very encouraged by these praises. Gradually, there was a subtle change in her impression of Wang Bogu - this woman did not seem to be as bad as she imagined.
Under Wang Bogu's thoughtful care, Song Dandan's heart defense was also loosened unconsciously. Finally, at a family banquet, Song Dandan rarely smiled at Wang Bogu and said that she could accept her as Batu's bride.
Wang Bogu's heart was secretly refreshed, and she finally opened the heart lock of this difficult mother-in-law with wisdom and sincerity.
Wang Bogu found that her husband Batu was introverted, often had low self-esteem and lacked assertiveness. This has something to do with his upbringing.
Batu's biological father Yingda divorced Song Dandan when he was very young, and remarried and had children to start a new family, almost severing contact with Batu. Batu has lacked father's love since he was a child, and has lived in the strong atmosphere of his mother Song Dandan for a long time.
Song Dandan always thinks that Batu is lazy and incompetent, and he is not serious about immersing himself in games, so Batu has developed a weak personality.
Knowing this, Wang Bogu was determined to help Batu rebuild his self-confidence. She often gives positive affirmation and encouragement to Batu, and discovers his excellence. In Wang Bogu, Batu finally got the respect of what he said, which helped him a lot in his psychological state.
Gradually, under the influence of Wang Bogu, Batu became more and more aggressive, getting rid of the lazy and negative state of the past.
Wang Bogu also often subtly elevated Batu in front of his mother-in-law, Song Dandan, to show that he has now become hardworking and capable, and has learned to handle household chores. She hopes to repair Song Dandan's prejudice against her son in this way.
The sincere and meticulous attitude has indeed gradually won Song Dandan's recognition. In Wang Bogu, Batu found a "good coach" in life and re-established his self-confidence.
Wang Bogu not only helped Batu gain self-confidence, but also showed a very high emotional intelligence to his mother-in-law Song Dandan.
When the two participated in the variety show "The Man Who Did Housework 4", Song Dandan came to be a guest. Wang Bogu skillfully handled Song Dandan's various concerns, not only expressing his understanding, but also reflecting his trust and support for Batu.
For example, when Song Dandan was worried that her strong personality would be misunderstood, Wang Bogu immediately said that "being strong can also be an advantage", which not only understands her mother-in-law but also expresses tolerance; When Song Dandan criticized Batu for being lazy, Wang Bogu would show Batu's housework skills on the spot to show that he had become industrious and responsible.
Wang Bogu's response made Song Dandan very useful. She found that this daughter-in-law not only has high emotional intelligence, but also understands herself, and can also discover and affirm Batu's growth. Song Dandan's impression of Wang Bogu has changed greatly, and the relationship between the two has grown by leaps and bounds.
Wang Bogu used wisdom and emotional intelligence to successfully drive the two generations to live in harmony. She can not only understand what others think, but also be good at resolving conflicts, which is the key to successfully dealing with her mother-in-law.
This kind of extraordinary understanding and skill makes people have to admire the extraordinariness of this woman.
Wang Bogu has won more and more recognition from Song Dandan through various efforts, but if he wants to really dispel his mother-in-law's prejudices, he still needs to prove himself with practical actions. So after getting married, Wang Bogu encouraged Batu to start a live streaming business to increase his source of income.
With a keen business sense, Wang Bogu quickly helped Batu become a well-known Internet celebrity, and in just half a year, he brought Batu a considerable turnover of 36 million through the live broadcast platform.
This income comes entirely from Batu's own efforts, and he no longer relies on his mother's aura.
Batu's stable economic income surprised Song Dandan. She had always thought that Batu was living on her mother's resources, but she didn't expect that under Wang Bogu's careful cultivation, Batu would be able to support the family on his own.
This surprise and pride diluted the last mustard in Song Dandan's heart, and she completely accepted Wang Bogu as her daughter-in-law.
Through perseverance and hard work, Wang Bogu finally won the sincere approval of his mother-in-law. She not only helped Batuu achieve his career, but also proved her ability with practical actions.