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My name is Ah Zhen and I am 62 years old this year. My wife Xiaolong and I farmed in our hometown for a living, and our son Ah Ming went to the city to work in the early years, and later got married and had children in the city. I have been looking forward to having a grandson, and finally my son Ah Ming has been married for three years, and his wife gave birth to a lovely boy named Xiaobao. I couldn't be happier to finally have a grandchild!
I discussed with my wife and decided to go to my son's house to help take care of my grandson. Although my wife was reluctant to me, she also supported my decision. Yesterday I happily got on the bus to my son's house, excited and looking forward to it.
When I arrived at my son's house, I opened the door and saw my daughter-in-law waiting for me at the door with Xiaobao in her arms. "Mom, you're here!" My son, Ah Ming, also followed and said to me with a smile.
I hurriedly stepped forward and took Xiaobao from my daughter-in-law's hand, Xiaobao looked at me with a pair of big watery eyes, and stretched out her little hand to grab my clothes. "Baby, grandma has come to see you!" I teased him with pleasure.
"Mom, you've worked hard, come in and sit. My daughter-in-law said to me with a smile.
"Good boy, no hard work, no hard work, this is what grandma should do. I laughed.
Amin took my luggage and took me inside. Their home is not big, but it is warm and tidy. "Mom, you live in this room, just tell us if you need anything. "Amin left my luggage in the house and brought me fruit from the fridge.
"My son is so filial, and it's good for my mother to live here. I laughed. I held Xiaobao and refused to let go, and Xiaobao also stuck to me and didn't let go.
"Mom, you can rest for a while, I'll cook. What would you like to eat?" My daughter-in-law asked me.
"I can do it, you can just cook home-cooked meals. I said.
Xiaobao reached out to pull my hair, and I teased him, "Baby, this is grandma's hair, you can't pull it." Xiaobao grinned and went to grab my clothes again. I couldn't be happier, my grandson was so cute.
After dinner in the evening, I hugged Xiaobao to play in the house. Xiaobao laughed constantly, and I couldn't help but laugh with him. Ah Ming and his daughter-in-law looked at us and smiled happily.
"Mom, tell us if you need anything, you can be your own home. Amin said to me.
"Good boy, with you and your daughter-in-law, my mother is already very happy. I said with emotion.
On this day, I got up early to help prepare soy milk, fritters, buns, etc., and my daughter-in-law also got up to help me set the table.
"Auntie has worked hard, I'll come. The daughter-in-law said.
"I'm okay, you go and wake up Armin for breakfast. I said.
The daughter-in-law nodded and went to tell Ah Ming to get up. I picked up Xiaobao, who had just woken up, and teased him, "Baby, shall we go and wake up Daddy?"
Xiaobao muttered in his mouth, as if he hadn't woken up yet. I carried him to Amin's room, knocked on the door and said, "Amin, get up and have breakfast." ”
Ah Ming opened the door, his hair was still a little messy: "Mom, you got up so early." ”
"Here, hug the baby. "I handed Xiaobao to Amin. As soon as Xiaobao saw his father, he immediately became energetic and reached out to pull Amin's hair.
"Alright, let's go have breakfast. Amin said with a smile.
At breakfast, I was very relieved to see the three of them happy. After breakfast, Amin went to work. My daughter-in-law and I cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks, and then hugged Xiaobao to play in the house.
I made a few home-cooked meals at noon, and my daughter-in-law also bought snacks from outside when she came back. "Auntie worked hard, I bought snacks and came back. The daughter-in-law said with a smile.
"Good boy, you've worked hard too. I said.
After lunch, Xiaobao began to feel sleepy. I coaxed him to sleep in the afternoon, and I rested in the house. I get along well with Xiaobao these days, I treat him as my own child and take care of him meticulously. Xiaobao is also getting more and more clingy to me, and I am very happy.
In the evening, my daughter-in-law cooked a few nutritious and delicious dishes, and I also helped set the dishes and chopsticks. "Mom, sit and rest, I'll do it. The daughter-in-law said.
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"I'm okay, you've worked hard all day, I'll help you set the table. I said to my daughter-in-law with a smile.
The daughter-in-law also smiled and didn't insist anymore. I set the dishes and chopsticks while teasing Xiaobao. Xiaobao sat on the small chair next to him, clapping his little hands and laughing.
"Good baby, I'll eat in a while. I said to Xiaobao.
"Mom, I'm back. At this point, Amin went home.
"Welcome home, wash your hands and eat. I said to Amin.
During dinner, Amin talked to me about his work at the company. As I listened to my son, I was very relieved and happy that his career was progressing.
"My son is so capable, everyone in the company praises you. I laughed.
"Thanks to you and my dad for educating me from a young age. Amin said.
I touched Amin's head and said, "Son, Mommy is so proud of you. ”
After dinner, the family sat in front of the TV and watched the show. Po climbed on my lap and I teased him. He babbled and made me laugh.
"Mom, you've had a hard day, rest early. Amin said to me.
"Okay, you and your daughter-in-law should also rest early. I said.
"I'm happy to help you with this, don't worry. I laughed.
In this way, I had a great time at my son's house. With Xiaobao by my side every day, I feel extremely relieved and happy. I treat Xiaobao as my own child and take care of him with all my heart. Ah Ming and his daughter-in-law are also very filial to me, and we get along very well. I felt that my life had a new meaning.
In this way, the days at the son's house were peaceful and happy. It's been three months since I've been here.
One day at noon, I was chopping vegetables in the kitchen when my phone rang suddenly. I picked it up, and it was Ah Fen, a neighbor from my hometown, on the other end of the phone.
"Ah Zhen, come back quickly, your wife suddenly fainted at noon and has been sent to the hospital. Ah Fen said anxiously.
My hands shook and my phone fell to the ground. When my daughter-in-law heard the commotion, she quickly ran over and asked me what was wrong. I trembled and told her about the situation.
"Mom, don't worry, I'll call Ah Ming back right away, and we'll take you to the hospital. The daughter-in-law also became nervous.
Holding back my tears, I asked Ah Fen to tell me more. Hung up the phone, my heart was in turmoil, my wife had never been seriously ill for so many years, and now something happened, I was very worried.
Ah Ming rushed home, saw that I was not in the right mood, and asked anxiously, "Mom, what's wrong?"
I choked up and said, "Your dad suddenly fainted at noon and is now in the hospital." ”
"What!" Ah Ming was also shocked and hurriedly comforted me: "Mom, let's go to the hospital now, don't worry." ”
So Amin drove me and my daughter-in-law to the hospital. Along the way, I was so distraught that I kept thinking about my wife and silently praying that he would be safe.
When we got to the hospital, we rushed to the emergency room. I saw that my wife had already connected various instruments, and the doctors and nurses were busy. I was very distressed when I saw my wife's bloodless face.
"Doctor, how is my wife?" I asked anxiously.
The doctor frowned and said, "The old man's condition is not very good, he needs to do further examination, you wait outside first." ”
I stood outside the door, watching the doctors and nurses push my wife for a check-up, and tears finally welled up in my eyes. Ah Ming and his daughter-in-law persuaded me to go home and rest, but I resolutely refused and had to stay in the hospital.
After a day and a night in the hospital, the doctor finally came out and told us that my wife's condition was very dangerous and that she might not be able to save her. When I heard this, tears welled up in my eyes, and my heart was as painful as a knife.
"Doctor, please save my wife! I pleaded.
The doctor said sadly, "We have done our best." The old man is old and too weak, and I advise you to be mentally prepared. ”
I broke down and cried, and my daughter-in-law also persuaded me with tears: "Auntie, the doctor is also doing his best, we can only accept the reality." ”
I cried so much that I couldn't breathe, and Ah Ming hugged me distressedly: "Mom, don't be too sad, it's not good for your health." Dad also wants you to stay strong. ”
I couldn't cry: "Your dad hasn't left me for so many years, I can't lose him!"
"Mom, let's go home. I'll take care of everything. Ah Ming's heart was like a knife, and he said to me with red eyes.
I nodded and followed them home. The next few days were like years, and the death of my wife was the most painful blow in my life. I finally survived my wife's funeral, and I watched him enter the funeral, tears blurred my vision.
"Take care of your health. "Neighbors and fellow villagers comforted me. I nodded, my heart dead.
After the funeral, Ah Ming said to me, "Mom, everything is arranged, you can go back to your hometown." ”
I nodded absentmindedly, said goodbye to them, and got into the car back home. When I returned to my home, where I had lived with my wife for decades, I cried bitterly. His shadow was left in every corner, reminding him of his departure.
In my hometown, I lived like a year, and I burst into tears all day long. My daughter-in-law and Armin often called me to express my condolences, but I was still depressed.
After a while, Ah Ming called and said, "Mom, are you okay?" Why don't you go back to live with us, and we will take care of you." ”
I was silent and said, "Son, mom can do it alone, I don't want to drag you down." ”
"Mom, what do you say, you are the most important person in our hearts, and you will never drag us down. Amin said anxiously.
"Yes, Auntie, with us, it's too hard for you to be alone. Come with us. "My daughter-in-law also advised me.
I still politely declined, and my heart was empty. I know they have good intentions, but I can't shake over the grief of my wife's death.
After some time, Amin called and said they were coming to see me. I knew they were worried about me, but I didn't have the spirit to greet them.
Amin shook my hand and said, "Mom, you can't be so depressed. Dad wants you to be happy too. ”
I smiled reluctantly: "Son, mom is fine, don't worry." ”
"Mom, it's too hard for you to live alone, live with us. Amin persuaded me again.
I politely declined. Seeing their sad looks, I was also very upset.
Before leaving, Amin said to me, "Mom, I know you're still mourning Daddy, but you can't just be depressed. You still have us, and you also have Xiaobao who needs your care. We are all your family. ”
When I heard this, my heart softened, and I nodded and said, "Son, mom knows." You drive carefully. ”
Sending them off, I was alone in my room and meditating. I knew my son's words were right, and I couldn't bask in grief forever. Although my wife is gone, I still have children and grandchildren who need my company.
Armin said happily, "Mom, you're right.