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Preface
Alan Tam, a legend in the Hong Kong music scene, has had countless glories in his life, but in his old age, he was spurned by everyone, causing his reputation to plummet.
Let's take a look!
1. Alan Tam's life experience
Alan Tam grew up in a well-to-do family, and his father was a famous national football player Tan Jiangbai.
Although he was born in a sports family, he did not choose the sports industry as his father expected, but developed a strong interest in music from an early age.
Because of the good conditions of the family, in order to let Alan Tam have more knowledge and better development, his parents sent him to Singapore when he was in college, providing him with a broader world.
However, it backfired, while studying abroad, Alan Tam's body suddenly fell ill, and his physical condition deteriorated, and his parents had to take him back to Hong Kong to recuperate.
However, the long-term recuperation made him even less interested in the already boring Xi, and over time, he became more and more reluctant to return to school.
So he thought about it for a long time, and finally mustered up the courage to put forward the idea that he didn't want to study anymore to his parents, and after considering it, his parents also respected his wishes, agreed to let him stay in Hong Kong, and handled the withdrawal for him.
After returning to Hong Kong, without the pressure of studying and the loneliness of a foreign country, Alan Tam's health gradually began to improve.
As his health recovers better and better, he feels that staying at home all the time is not an option, he needs to start planning for his future, although the conditions at home are not enough for him to worry about his livelihood, but he doesn't want to live in a mess like this.
So, he began to look around for a way to make a living.
Because he has a deep love and obsession with music since he was a child, and in music, he always shows talent that others don't have, so he went to the bar to be a resident singer, which became his favorite thing at that time.
In the process, he made many friends who also liked music, and after experiencing twists and turns such as dropping out of school and illness, Alan Tam gradually saw his heart clearly.
He knew that he still couldn't let go of his favorite music, and in addition to doing music-related things, he was almost not interested in other things, which strengthened his heart to make a world out of music.
So he reunited the members of the previous band and eventually formed the Wenner Band, which really began his musical journey.
In the six years of the development of the Wenner band, they have achieved a lot, and they have also gained a large number of fans and have been recognized by many people.
His career has also ushered in a small peak.
During the event of the Wenner Band, during a singing, he met Yang Jiewei, a beauty consultant.
Yang Jiewei is engaged in the clothing and image management industry, she is the number one fan of the Wenner band, and fell in love with Alan Tam, the lead singer of the Wenna band, at first sight.
During the relationship, Alan Tam considered his identity as a singer and was worried that exposing his relationship would hinder his career development, so he decided not to make the relationship public.
Yang Jiewei and Tan talked about an underground relationship for 7 years.
In the process of falling in love, in order to support her boyfriend's career development, Yang Jiewei resolutely gave up her original job and became Alan Tam's personal assistant, turning to support him behind the scenes.
Later, considering the needs of work, Yang Jiewei also went to learn professional knowledge such as lighting and stage art Xi.
Every performance, from Tan's costume modeling, dance and stage beauty, Yang Jiewei takes care of everything in detail.
Even her boyfriend's hairstyle every time she appears is created by herself, and all aspects are arranged very thoughtfully.
From a professional point of view, she provided a lot of advice and help to her boyfriend.
With such virtuous help, Alan Tam's music career is getting better and better, with a steady stream of announcements and a larger fan team.
On this basis, the relationship between the two sides has also developed further.
After 7 years of long-distance love, in 1979, Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei got married in Las Vegas, and Yang Jiewei finally had a name at this moment.
Because the husband repeatedly insisted that he did not want to disclose the news that he was married, the wedding at that time was also very simple. Only the parents and relatives of both parties were invited, and the confidentiality work was very well done.
After marriage, Alan Tam still asked Yang Jiewei not to disclose his wife's identity to the public, and at the same time, the two agreed that they would not have children after marriage and live a dink life.
In the face of such harsh requirements, Yang Jiewei still had no complaints and willingly supported her husband.
2. Marriage change
However, what is the reason why such a woman who is obscure and willing to give behind her husband's back, but in the end, she is hurt by the person she loves the most?
In the ten years of their hidden marriage, in order to fulfill the promise made by the two of them, Yang Jiewei experienced 5 abortions in 10 years, and the miscarriages made Yang Jiewei's heart ache.
As a married woman and a wife, she doesn't want to have a happy family of three go home, and she doesn't want to have a love crystallization that belongs to the two of them.
However, in order to fully support her husband's career and for the other half's music dream, Yang Jiewei resolutely decided to dink.
She had many abortions, and even made her lose the ability to conceive and become an incomplete woman.
"The Great Bill Gates" says: "When you fall in love with someone, you have to consider whether you are willing to give up your true self for him and be willing to live your life willingly."
Maybe Yang Jiewei is so willing, she loves his husband deeply, and is willing to sacrifice everything to fulfill him, she said that Dink doesn't matter, as long as two people love each other enough, it's enough.
However, later, when Yang Jiewei learned that her husband, who had always insisted on Dink all his life, had given birth to a child with another woman, she was almost overwhelmed.
She never thought that her sincerity would be trampled under her husband's feet like this.
She tried her best and desperately kept her promises, but in the eyes of the other party, it seemed worthless.
In 1993, Yang Jiewei's father passed away.
When the obituary was published, Yang's mother insisted that the name of her son-in-law, Alan Tam, be written.
With the release of major newspapers and media, the hidden marriage relationship between Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei was made public in front of everyone.
However, in the face of Yang Jiewei's affection from beginning to end, Alan Tam met his so-called "confidante" as early as 1991. This woman is Zhu Yongting, who is about 20 years younger than him.
Alan Tam saw Alan Chu, who was only 21 years old at the time, young and beautiful Alan Tam, and Alan Chu was his avid fan, so the two quickly became warm.
So, Alan Chu launched a crazy pursuit of Alan Tam, who claimed to be single outside.
Faced with such a youthful girl, Alan Tam has long forgotten the fact that he is married.
not only fell in love with both of them with Zhu Yongting, but even changed their insistence on Dink's statement, and turned around and had a child with Zhu Yongting.
Around 2004, the paparazzi photographed many times, Alan Tam and Alan Chu often went in and out together, and at the same time, they always had a little boy by their side, and public opinion was in an uproar for a while.
In just a few years, he has been revealed to be married and cheating in marriage one after another, and now he has been photographed with a son, which undoubtedly pushed Alan Tam to the forefront.
In the face of public condemnation, he said: He was not for personal desires, but in accordance with his parents' wishes in order to inherit the lineage, and he had to hover between two women.
However, the public did not buy his statement at all.
accused him of being a scumbag, and many loyal fans also lost their fans, saying that they would never listen to this scumbag's songs again in the future.
As a wife, Yang Jiewei was very sad at first after learning that her husband was cheating and had an illegitimate child, but then she chose to remain silent.
Because she thought that she could no longer have children, she wanted to wronged herself to fulfill her husband through a tacit attitude, and for her, she might be able to make her husband turn back.
But her repeated forbearance did not save her husband's sincerity, and Alan Tam even took her "assistant" Alice Chu with her when she attended the event later.
All the practices made Yang Jiewei decide not to endure anymore.
At the beginning of the marriage, her husband handed over 1 billion assets to her, all of which were returned in full, and chose to see through the red dust and become a nun.
After this news was exposed by the media, Alan Tam said angrily: "There are no nuns in my family!"
However, the public still knows that the difference is only whether or not they have shaved their hair.
3. Alan Tam's son
Now, Alan Tam's son Tan Xiaofeng is also 26 years old.
Graduated from Oxford University, he inherited his father's good genes in terms of appearance and talent.
After completing his studies, he did not enter the showbiz like his father, but worked as an engineer in a large foreign company, and his career also improved slightly.
Alan Tam said in an interview that his son is very good, has his own ideas, and will not interfere too much in the child's life.
epilogue
The 73-year-old Alan Tam has had a glorious life and has brought us many classic works.
In his later years, he was criticized and spitted by netizens, and it was really not worth it to think about.
Anyway, in the end, I still hope that Principal Tan and his family will always be happy.
I also hope that Yang Jiewei can calm the pain in her heart and live a truly happy life in the future.