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In the last century, the Hong Kong music scene was a golden age, and it was also a period of war, especially the "Tan Zhang Competition" made the fans' blood boil.
In the end, the two superstars announced their retirement from the music scene one after another, drawing a stop to this legend.
The story doesn't end there.
In the blink of an eye in 2006, three years after Leslie Cheung's death, the Hong Kong entertainment industry was once again shocked by a "depth charge" - Alan Tam disclosed his family secrets.
In the sad moment of his father's death, he chose to confess an unknown life to the radio: "monogamy".
This news was like a bolt from the blue, causing the public's favorability of Alan Tam to drop instantly, and the radiant idol image on the stage instantly dimmed.
In the face of the flood of accusations from the outside world, Alan Tam did not evade, let alone imitate Jackie Chan's "mortal theory", but admitted bluntly: "Tan Xiaofeng is my son, Yang Jiewei is my legal wife, and Zhu Yongting is my confidante."
These words sound frank, but in fact they make many people feel cold.
Ironically, Alan Tam has been claiming earlier that he and Yang Jiewei have decided not to have children and enjoy the world of two.
But all this, after meeting Zhu Yongting, who was only 19 years old, the promise seemed to be a thing of the past.
The complex emotional entanglement of the three people lasted for many years, and in the end, Yang Jiewei was overwhelmed and chose to become a monk, which made people sigh.
This incident can't help but make people think: When successful people abandon their wives and pursue so-called "new loves," is there still real love in the world? As the old saying goes, "the predecessors planted trees, and the descendants enjoyed the shade", but why is it often the original partner who sacrifices for the happiness of others?
As the years go by, so many years have passed, what is the current situation of the original wife who once made countless people feel pity? Has she found her own peace and tranquility? The story behind this is still thought-provoking.
The bitterness and betrayal behind the giving
Some people say that once a woman falls in love with a man, she begins to become stupid and pin her whole body and mind on this man.
Alan Tam, who was in her 20s, was just a little-known singer in the entertainment industry at that time, but Yang Jiewei was completely different, she was a beauty consultant for a cosmetics company, with professional beauty knowledge and superb skills.
It is said that the two of them met in a nightclub, and although the occasion of the acquaintance was not very decent, this did not stop the young man from having a good impression of each other.
One is a rising star in the entertainment industry, and the other is a powerful behind-the-scenes worker, and the two naturally have a lot of common topics to communicate with.
Alan Tam deeply admired Yang Jiewei's talent, and Yang Jiewei did not dislike this poor boy who had not yet started his career at that time, had average economic conditions, and had a complicated family situation.
As time went on, the two developed feelings for each other, and the outside world did not catch any rumors of their love.
In order to fully support Alan Tam's career, Yang Jiewei resolutely resigned from her job and assisted him wholeheartedly since then.
Alan Ts's dress, styling costumes, and even stage image and appearance costumes are all taken care of by Yang Jiewei.
She has a unique insight into stage aesthetics, and has also taught herself skills such as choreography, stage choreography, and lighting scheduling, and has gradually become an art planner who is proficient in the whole process of performances.
Under the careful care of Yang Jiewei, Alan Tam's career has been smooth and prosperous.
Regarding Yang Jiewei's identity, the public always thinks that she is just an assistant by Alan Tam's side, and there is not too much suspicion about her true identity.
In this way, Yang Jiewei silently paid behind Alan Tam's back, without complaint or regret.
It wasn't until 1993 that Yang Jiewei's father died of illness, and her mother required that the obituary must write that her son-in-law was Alan Tam, and the relationship between the two was completely exposed.
But at this time, the scandal between Alan Tam and Alan Chu has been spreading, although the outside world calls them confidants, but Yang Jiewei knows what is going on.
For Alan Tam, Yang Jiewei endured it for two years, and it was not until her father died that her mother helped her disclose the truth.
It turned out that as early as 1981, 31-year-old Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei secretly registered their marriage in Las Vegas, USA.
They also agreed to "Dink" for a lifetime, in order not to let Alan Tam have worries, Yang Jiewei had many abortions, resulting in physical damage and finally being unable to have children.
Yang Jiewei is well aware of the harm of abortion to the body, but because of her busy work, she can't regulate it well every time.
To this end, she set up a tablet for those children who were not born at Chi Lin Pure Garden, and the tablet reads "Public".
Despite paying such a heavy price, Yang Jiewei has never regretted that her life is only for Alan Tam, hidden marriage, abortion, and even giving up the right to be a mother, all of which are manifestations of love in her opinion.
As for why the marriage has not been made public for many years, the reason is self-evident.
At that time, Alan Tam was in the rising stage of his career, and once the news of his marriage was exposed, it was likely to affect his development prospects.
When their marriage was made public, many people accused Alan Tam of being distracted.
People don't know what a huge price Yang Jiewei has paid for Alan Tam's hidden marriage over the years.
Not only did she quit her job and run Alan Tam's career well, but she was also coaxed by Alan Tam to join the "Dink" clan and was forced to have abortions many times.
Yang Jiewei thought that such a selfless dedication could be exchanged for Alan Tam's moving and response, but in the end she lost to Alan Chu, who was still in college.
An extraordinary path from fan to lover
When Alan Tam was 41 years old, a special fate quietly unfolded between him and a young and beautiful female fan, Alan Chu.
At a fan meeting, Alice Chu's admiration for Alan Tam was overflowing, and this warm admiration soon moved Alan Tam's heart, and then developed a secret ambiguous relationship.
At first, the contact between the two was limited to a warm exchange on the phone, but as time went on, the emotions quickly warmed up and they crossed the line and came together.
What's more complicated is that Zhu Yongting was unexpectedly pregnant, and in the face of this life choice, the two decided to welcome the arrival of a new life after discussion.
For Alan Tam, this is undoubtedly a huge violation of the Dink consensus reached with the original partner Yang Jiewei in the early years.
Surprisingly, Yang Jiewei is unaware of this, and Alan Tam seems to have forgotten his wife Yang Jiewei, who has silently supported him for many years and is willing to hide behind the scenes.
This hidden relationship was hidden by Alan Tam for five years, and even at the beginning of his acquaintance with Alan Chu, he did not reveal the fact that he was married.
Their relationship, including the news of their marriage, was kept secret for 12 years, until Alan Tam was 43 years old, when Yang Jiewei's father died, and he signed his obituary as "son-in-law Alan Tam", which made the public aware of his married status.
At this time, he and Zhu Yongting had been secretly dating for more than two years.
In 1996, Alan Tam gave birth to a son, and when the child was full moon, Alan Chu proposed that Alan Tam go out together to enjoy the joy of a family of three.
Although Alan Tam wore sunglasses and tried to keep a low profile, the scene was captured by a keen reporter and quickly exposed.
Faced with a situation that was about to get out of control, Alan Tam had to confess everything to Yang Jiewei.
In order to seek understanding, he promised not to let Zhu Yongting officially enter the family, and handed over the family finances to Yang Jiewei, and at the same time, the Tan family also expressed their support for Yang Jiewei.
This series of events not only tested the complexity of human nature, but also made Alan Tam's private life a hot topic of public discussion.
From forbearance to letting go, the battle for 100 million yuan of family property
In this intricate emotional entanglement, Yang Jiewei chose to bear it silently, but this seemed to give Alan Tam greater "courage", he openly took Alice Zhu's mother and son back to their home, started the life mode of "two daughters and one husband", and enjoyed the incredible "double happiness" in the eyes of others.
The good times didn't last long, at Alan Tam's father's funeral, Alan Tam appeared in the obituary and ceremony as a daughter-in-law, which was undoubtedly a huge blow to Yang Jiewei's emotions and broke her heart.
At first, Alan Tam's parents did not recognize the existence of Alan Chu, and resolutely opposed their son marrying a new love or even divorce and remarrying.
But with the passage of time, the growth of his grandson has become a warm sun that melts the iceberg, he not only inherited the advantages of the family, but also under the careful teaching of Zhu Yongting, he is outstanding in academics, lively and healthy.
Gradually, the old couple involuntarily accepted this fact, after all, blood is thicker than water, and family affection is difficult to part.
As his grandson grew up, Alan Tam proposed to distribute property, and the economic foundation that Yang Jiewei worked so hard to protect faced the fate of being divided, and the distribution of 500 million assets involved became the last straw that broke the camel's back.
Over the years, although Yang Jiewei has not participated in direct work, she has accumulated a huge wealth for the Tan family with her keen investment vision, but now this effort seems to be in vain, the relationship between the two parties has completely broken down, Alan Tam has recovered the property in her name, and Yang Jiewei is disheartened.
At Alan Tam's 61st birthday banquet, Alan Tam was officially introduced to relatives and friends, and her status was confirmed.
In the end, after giving up her family property worth 1 billion, Yang Jiewei chose the path of becoming a monk, in order to seek inner peace and detachment, and completely bid farewell to the troubles of the world.
Yang Jiewei was affectionate and wrong, and she died alone
For Yang Jiewei, she loved Alan Tam deeply, but finally ended up alone and lonely in the tragic end.
As for Alan Tam, although he has a trace of guilt for Yang Jiewei in his heart, he still has his lover Zhu Yongting and illegitimate children by his side, and he has a good life.
Compared with the need to maneuver between two rooms in the past, Yang Jiewei's withdrawal has now made Alan Tam live a more relaxed and happy life.
Although Alan Tam's approach to this relationship has caused a lot of controversy, we also have to admit that his dazzling star halo seems to cover up these flaws.
Even if the world learned about the fact that he had "two rooms", their love for him did not diminish.
Some people think that Yang Jiewei is too stupid to believe Alan Tam's request not to have children.
After all, as the only son in the family, Alan Tam shoulders the responsibility of inheriting the lineage, how can he really be willing to be a "Dink".
Some people also pointed out that choosing to be a Dink family is extremely risky for women, and without children as a bond, how can they firmly tie a man's heart?
Regardless of what the outside world says, these are just external factors.
Especially in the world of love, women must not only learn to love themselves, but also recognize a cruel truth: there is no eternal love in the world, and there is no absolute good and bad person, the key is whether everyone can control their own destiny.
After all, you never know when a sweet candy in love will turn into a deadly poison.