Chen Guojun was often taken to see dramas by his mother when he was a child, and since then he has been fascinated by the characters and stories on the stage. When Chen Guojun witnessed the enthusiasm of the actors of the repertory troupe to perform, a seed of becoming an actor was planted in his heart.
His interest in acting grew stronger as he grew older, and Chen Guojun was eventually admitted to Changchun Film Studio and officially became a professional actor. There are not many scenes, and there are even fewer lines, but he overcomes his immaturity and goes all out every time he appears.
When the movie "Medicine" was released, Chen Guojun, who played the second male lead "Xia Yu", became famous and gained attention and opportunities.
Since then, Chen Guojun has devoted himself to the performing arts and devoted himself to filmmaking. This love has become a beacon that guides him through the road of acting.
Chen Guojun met Zhao Yamin in the film studio, and the two had frequent contact and gradually fell in love. Zhao Yamin has a warm personality, is good at cooking, and often entertains friends around her with delicious food.
She also often invites Chen Guojun to come to dinner with her. When the two of them eat together, they are freed from work and enjoy the beauty of life.
Just when the relationship between the two was stable, they chose to enter the palace of marriage. It's a pity that the mutual support that they hoped for in the relationship did not come true, and their lives still revolved around themselves.
Chen Guojun is busy day and night for his acting career, and he has too little time to spend with his family. When Zhao Yamin took care of the children alone, the dissatisfaction in her heart also brewed.
In the end, the two divorced when their son was very young. The balance in the relationship is lost, and to a certain extent, it is irretrievable. This has also become a regret on Chen Guojun's life path.
Jun met actor Liu Xiaoqing in the crew. Liu Xiaoqing, who is stunning-looking, gives people a cold and arrogant first impression, but he is careful and considerate in private. The two fell in love for a long time at work and gradually confirmed their relationship.
Chen Guojun learned to be obedient this time, put down most of his work, and tried to squeeze out time to accompany Liu Xiaoqing. Liu Xiaoqing was also moved by his sincerity and regarded him as an important other half in his life.
Sweet bits and pieces, the two spent a short marriage.
However, the good times did not last long, and Liu Xiaoqing got very close to other actors, which planted a time bomb in the depths of the relationship. Although both parties cherish this relationship, once the misunderstanding is made, it is difficult to eliminate it.
In the end, the two chose divorce as the ending.
The emergence and breakdown of two marriages have become a lingering pain for Chen Guojun in his long years. Over the years, he has devoted himself to his work with long sleeves and good dances, but he also deeply feels that work and career cannot fully make up for the emptiness in his heart.
Until one day more than ten years later, at a party, Chen Guojun met the popular little flower Fu Liyun. Fu Liyun's heroic appearance is a soft heart, and she took the initiative to open Chen Guojun's heart.
Although the age gap between the two is as much as 16 years, there is no age difference in love. They choose to date and then get married.
This time, Chen Guojun slowed down and learned to support each other with his wife Fu Liyun. Fu Liyun has also sent warmth to him in his most difficult time for a long time, which has made the two inseparable marriage.
When Chen Guojun was filming "On the Songhua River", in the cold weather, the cotton clothes sent by Fu Liyun became the warmest existence for him.
Chen Guojun has two sons, namely Chen He, who embarked on the road of directing, and Chen Yonglin, who has a soft spot for football.
Chen He weighed heavily when he was young, and Chen Guojun took him to run many times, but it was difficult to persevere. Now an adult, Chen He inherited his father's love for film, and with Chen Guojun's encouragement and support, he went abroad to study Xi filmmaking.
Chen Guojun not only gave guidance to his son, but also gave him space to grow independently. He would visit Chen He's class when he was filming the movie "Qianlong Dao", and he also kept his distance skillfully. There is a balance of mutual respect between father and son.
Chen Yonglin did not choose the film industry, but he is interested in sports, especially football, and is good at it. Chen Guojun, as a father, also let his young son pursue his own nature.
He is well aware that the expectations imposed by parents on their children often become mental shackles. Therefore, he supported Chen Yonglin's free development.
Looking back on Chen Guojun's life, it is not difficult for us to find that his experience is full of impermanence and ups and downs.
At first, his heartfelt love for acting drove him step by step towards the road of acting. The unsatisfactory married life did not break his determination.
However, in the process of regaining confidence after frustration and finding balance and home, it is inevitable to leave regrets.
The tree of life must go through wind and rain before it can be full of fruit. Perhaps, those untasted fruits will become more important food for him on the road of life. We often gain and grow after we lose.
In his later years, Chen Guojun was no longer on the glamorous stage, but chose to return to daily life. He went to the ordinary sunrise and sunset with his wife, without the pursuit of fame and fortune, but he felt extremely happy and satisfied.
This is also the epiphany he has gained through various life experiences - true happiness is actually the simplest.