If you are bitter, tired, annoyed, or unhappy, just look at this passage.
There is a scene in the movie that particularly touched me, that is, Li Hao was admitted to college, but his father did not praise him like other parents, but was very angry with him because he did not go to college.
When I got home, I said to my father, "Dad, today's movie is really touching. My father looked at me and patted me lightly on the shoulder, "Yes, family and affection are always the most important.
This movie made me cherish my relationship with my father even more, and I hope that our relationship can be more harmonious, with fewer conflicts and misunderstandings.
My father nodded, seeming satisfied with my words. Then he was silent for a while, and then said: "However, your attitude towards learning Xi recently is still too inactive, if you continue, how can you win glory for our parents?"
The days at home went back to the previous pattern, and my father became more strict with me. He wanted me to spend more time on my Xi and would stare at me almost every day.
Every night, we would quarrel over Xi, and the atmosphere at home would become tense.
One day, my father said to me at dinner, "Starting tomorrow, I will arrange some additional tutoring classes for you, and your Xi is still too lax."
I tried to communicate with my father in the hope that he would give me more freedom and trust, but he always responded with a strict attitude, which made me feel very disappointed.
During this time, my attitude towards my father became more and more cold. There was little communication between us, and the atmosphere in the home became even more dreary, like a powder keg on the verge of fire.
If you are bitter, tired, annoyed, or unhappy, just look at this passage.
While I was immersed in the emotion of that movie, I did not expect that an even more difficult contradiction was about to emerge.
It was a weekend morning, and my father and I had planned to go hiking together in the countryside and enjoy a rare leisure time.
I heard my father answer the phone with a serious expression, and then quickly put the phone back in his pocket with a solemn face.
"What's wrong?" I asked curiously.
The father was silent for a moment, and then said bitterly, "Your mother, she is in trouble again. She said there were things to take care of outside and asked us to go hiking on our own.
The sudden loss of my mother made me feel a little irritated. My father and I were silent, feeling the helplessness and sighs in each other's hearts.
I heard my father's slightly helpless and distressed tone, and I felt guilty for a moment. I didn't show much concern or understanding for my mother's departure, and I always felt that her actions were a bit selfish.
"She herself said that there was something to deal with out there, and maybe we should understand her. Father said softly.
In the face of my father's understanding, I was a little unable to let go, and I had more contradictions and troubles about my mother's behavior.
I knew that my father was so tolerant because he loved my mother, but I couldn't do it myself.
For a while, a sense of separation arose, and my heart was full of dissatisfaction with my mother and contradictions with myself.
I began to think about the conflict between my parents and became obsessed with the confusion. The loss of my mother made me feel a kind of helplessness at both ends.
This family incident plunged me into a whirlpool of contradictions, and my inner struggles made me feel even more tired and irritable.
Perhaps, as far as the conflict between my parents is concerned, I still have more to face and think about seriously. If you are bitter, tired, annoyed, or unhappy, just look at this passage.
One day, my father and I had an argument. He disagreed with my choice of major, believing that it had no future, and hoped that I would be able to choose a major that he thought would be more suitable for me.
We had a heated argument because of this, and he thought I wasn't sensible enough, and I felt that he didn't understand me enough.
After this argument, I felt like I was starting to doubt our relationship. I found that my father's strictness was not only for my own good, but he also had his own persistence and stubbornness.
This left me feeling a little conflicted and confused. Perhaps, conflicts between families are not so easy to solve.
However, I know that family and affection are the most important thing. Maybe the contradictions between us may make us understand each other better, and in the future, I will work harder to manage our relationship, and no matter what conflicts I encounter, I will try to solve them.