#头条创作挑战赛#
Money is a topic that can never be avoided in a lifetime.
Every penny we earn is the realization of our knowledge of the world.
In the same way, behind the money spent, there are also hidden invisible emotions and concepts.
Money is like a mirror, reflecting all the traces of life.
Those poor women have some bad Xi.
These Xi may seem inconspicuous, but they can inadvertently influence our behavior and determine the height of our wealth.
Have you ever encountered this situation?
If you feel that the work is too hard, hurry up and buy something to relieve the pressure;
The project has got the results, and you must treat yourself by eating Hesse;
If you are in a bad mood, you will not hesitate to place an order.
Women generally like to solve problems in life by buying, buying, buying, but they don't know that this not only does not help, but brings more trouble.
Minimalist lifestyle blogger @ringlingxi used to be like that.
She is very keen on shopping, turns on her computer whenever she has time, thinks about what to add, and has no resistance to discounted items.
Looking at the beautiful pictures on the Internet, I often sigh: "Ah, I want this so much, and I want that too!"
Before she knew it, the small room at home was stuffed with messy things by her.
But every time the season changes, she doesn't know what to wear. I want to give up, but I don't know where to start.
In order to entertain guests, she has prepared a full set of tea sets, various tea leaves, cushions and bedding...... It turned out that these were imaginary needs that were not needed at all.
When she bought it, she felt that it was not expensive anyway, and it was better to stock it up. But this mentality made her not only waste money, but also lose herself.
She admits: "One of the main reasons why I can't save money is that I spend all my money on shopping. ”
After learning from the pain, she stipulated that she could only buy things that she liked. As the frequency of shopping decreases, you have a large amount of savings before you know it, and you have a sense of control over your life.
One dollar a day, a thousand dollars a thousand days. No matter how inconspicuous the small amount of money in life is, it can accumulate over a long period of time, and it is also a considerable expense.
In these uncertain times, there is no guarantee that incomes will continue to rise. Every money we save is a foundation for our future selves.
Having an umbrella and stocking up on food for hunger is the only way to prevent problems before they happen.
People who have no savings are completely two different states of life.
Those who are shy in their pockets panic when they encounter accidents, and are pushed forward by life;
Those who have surplus food in their hands are at ease in the face of accidents and have a certain right to choose.
Good saving Xi and consumption outlook are a person's greatest confidence.
It may not make us rich quickly, but it can make us live with peace of mind and certainty in an uncertain life.
The founder of Mom is not annoying @王不不不 shared a story.
She has a student who is a very good yoga instructor with a good reputation in the industry, but the income is very low.
Every time he talked about money, this student was always a little embarrassed.
Wang Bufu suggested that she make yoga classes online, but she was worried after hearing this, worried that doing so would weaken the professional nature of yoga.
In her subconscious, if she advertises and sells for money, yoga will completely change her taste.
For this reason, she would rather give up some commercialization opportunities and be willing to be a "talented poor person".
Later, with Wang Buan's encouragement, she finally took the first step, only to find that talking about money is not cheesy, and it will not hurt feelings.
Many women around her have the same inner obstacles as her, and when they talk about money, they take care of him left and right, and they miss opportunities.
In the book "Rich People Think Differently", there is a sentence that made me feel enlightened:
"The rich are happy to promote themselves and their values, and the poor see sales pitches and propaganda as bad things. ”
The reason why many people are getting poorer and poorer is because there are countless negative thoughts about making money lurking in their minds, and when they think of money, they will associate words such as fear, scarcity, jealousy, and greed.
They take it for granted that money is the root of all evil, that the rich are not right-hearted, and that when they have money, they become bad......
When a person despises wealth in his heart, wealth naturally shuns it.
Even if you are lucky enough to make money by luck, you will eventually lose it by strength.
Talking about money frankly and making money generously is a wise and decent approach.
Concealing and twisting and pinching will bury a lot of hidden dangers and breed unwarranted troubles in the future.
Try to learn to set a price for your time from today instead of giving up on fear because of fear.
Asia Wealth Mentor Ken Honda said:
Confident people are self-confident not because they are rich, on the contrary, because they are rich because they are self-confident first.
Compared with men, women are mostly less confident and Xi to underestimating themselves. Over time, the income gap between the two sides has become wider and wider.
In almost every OECD country, the proportion of women with higher education is about 10 percentage points higher than that of men, but the median income is 10%~20% lower than that of men.
Sandberg, the highest-paid female executive in the United States, shared a story.
On one occasion, she invited 15 executives from Silicon Valley to discuss issues over breakfast.
After grabbing the plate and loading the food, the men naturally sat down at the largest conference table, while the women invariably sat in the inconspicuous corner of the room.
Sandberg waved for them to sit down, but they hesitated and stayed put.
Choosing a seat may seem like a trivial matter, but Sandberg sees the subtleties and finds that women tend to assist rather than lead in the workplace.
They don't want to attract attention, they don't dare to make their voices heard, and they see themselves as dispensable.
Because of this inner fear and lack of self-confidence, it is difficult for them to reach a higher position, and naturally they cannot earn the desired income.
Sandberg sincerely suggests:
"Don't doubt yourself, sit at the table in a meeting and let others see you and your thoughts, so that you have more opportunities to be found and valued. ”
Only in this way can we get rid of the cycle of being busy.
Desire, always ahead of success.
Sometimes, it's not the size of our ability that holds us back, it's our own limiting thinking.
When a woman is used to being poor, she will run away again and again, blocking her wealth from the door.
Ask yourself: What is your view of money, does it help you become richer, or does it hinder you?
Face these problems head-on, slowly adjust the wrong concept into a positive attitude, and life will quietly change.
Making money is not an innate talent, but a skill that needs to be learned Xi.
As it is written in "Live Your Life on Your Own Terms":
If you don't bother with this, you have to think about that.
People who are too lazy to bother their brains to fulfill their wishes end up having to bother with facing reality.
In fact, living a poor life is the most brain-consuming.
The seeds of the past brew the results of the present;
Today's choices point to tomorrow's situation.
All we can do is to work the cause and follow the results.
I hope that after reading this article, you and I will neither indulge in buying, buying, buying, nor do you regard money as a flood of beasts.
When you see the right opportunity, you must have the courage to take a step forward and shine your own light.
May we all get along better with money so that we can have a rich and joyful life.