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Fei Xiang's mother Bi Lina: broke up her son's many marriages, affecting her son's life at the age of 63 and still unmarried

author:Lol lol 谈古今

Fei Xiang's parents met and got married, but divorced due to personality incompatibility

At that time, Fei Weide was just an international student who had just come to China, and he was full of infinite yearning and curiosity about this oriental country. Once, he was wandering the street with his camera and accidentally caught a glimpse of a girl in a dress and slippers walking into the post office, and the sun was shining on her, like an angel in Fei Weide's eyes.

He couldn't help but press the shutter, but the girl was disgusted.

Fei Xiang's mother Bi Lina: broke up her son's many marriages, affecting her son's life at the age of 63 and still unmarried

This girl is the later Bilina. Two strangers who met for the first time started a friendship because of a pen pal letter. For three years, they wrote letters almost every day to share their life experiences with each other.

Gradually, the two hearts were also tied together. Finally, one day, Fei Weide plucked up the courage to ask Bilina out for dinner, but was rejected again and again. However, he didn't give up and finally got Bilina to nod and agree to meet him.

The relationship between the two also warmed up and came together naturally.

After marriage, they gave birth to their son Fei Xiang. As soon as the husband and wife lived a happy life, Bi Lina deliberately learned to make dumplings in order to meet her husband's wishes.

Fei Xiang's mother Bi Lina: broke up her son's many marriages, affecting her son's life at the age of 63 and still unmarried

Once, Xiao Fei Xiang also made dumplings with his parents, and the scene was warm and harmonious. However, the good times did not last long, and the two always quarreled often because of their incompatible personalities. In the end, the outcome of the divorce seems to be reasonable.

Bi Lina intervened many times to break up Fei Xiang's relationship

Fei Xiang's parents divorced when he was a child, and he lived with his mother, and he more or less lacked fatherly love in his heart. When he went to college, he longed for the love and recognition of others. During his study in the United States, Fei Xiang fell in love again and again, and his girlfriends were all broken up by his mother Bilina without exception.

I remember that once, a beautiful blonde girl Kara appeared next to Fei Xiang, and the two ate together every day, often in and out of pairs. But just when their relationship was at its best, Kara suddenly disappeared.

Fei Xiang called, but the other party broke up on the grounds that "we are not suitable". It turned out that Bilina, who was elegant and generous in Kara's opinion, had a cold face as soon as she appeared, and her attitude was extremely bad.

Fei Xiang's mother Bi Lina: broke up her son's many marriages, affecting her son's life at the age of 63 and still unmarried

Something like this has happened more than once. After Fei Xiang returned to China to develop his career as a singer, he met the popular actress Ye Qianwen, and the two also had a relationship. However, in the face of the reporter's camera, Bi Lina's attitude was still unfriendly, and even directly expressed her opposition to this relationship, for fear that her son would be entangled in scandals and his career would be affected.

Fei Xiang and Ye Qianwen had no choice but to break up, and he himself realized that his mother's actions might just be to protect himself. In fact, in Bi Lina's heart, her son is the whole world to her. Her only relative is all her concern. Because of this, she will be desperate to protect her son, for fear that he will be wronged.

However, this hard work has also made Fei Xiang, who is still single at the age of 63, and his emotional road is destined to be bumpy.

Fei Xiang's father was seriously ill and passed away, and he visited his father for the last time

After Fei Weide returned to the United States to develop, he only maintained a small amount of contact with Fei Xiang's mother and son. Until one day, a phone call suddenly let the son know that his father was sick and hospitalized.

Fei Xiang's mother Bi Lina: broke up her son's many marriages, affecting her son's life at the age of 63 and still unmarried

When Fei Xiang rushed to the hospital, he couldn't help but reddened his eyes when he saw his father's emaciated figure and white hair. He remembered the bits and pieces of living with his parents when he was a child, and lamented that his father was finally old.

Fei Weide, who was sick in bed, seemed to have a premonition that time was running out, so he called his son to his side and kept talking to him. In just a few days, father and son have exchanged more content than in the past 30 years.

Fei Xiang also learned from his father about the hardships of living alone in a foreign country, and he couldn't help but feel guilty and sad. In this way, Fei Weide spent the last days of his life by the company of his son.

In order to let her mother Bi Lina get out of the grief of her father's death, Fei Xiang took her out to travel and relax. The rest of the family will have to support each other to get through this difficult time. Seeing that his mother still maintained an elegant and dignified posture, Fei Xiang couldn't help but think of her young and beautiful appearance.

Fei Xiang's mother Bi Lina: broke up her son's many marriages, affecting her son's life at the age of 63 and still unmarried

He realized that the elders around him were already in their twilight years, and he had to learn to take responsibility for taking care of them.

63-year-old Fei Xiang has not married yet, and Bi Lina has no choice but to look forward to him

Fei Xiang is 63 years old and is already in his prime, but he lives in his mother Bi Lina's house all the year round due to the blank of his private life. In contrast, Bilina's inner anxiety is far greater than that of her son herself.

She hopes that Fei Xiang will find his other half as soon as possible and start his own family, so as not to drag his children and daughters through his old age. Therefore, she always can't help but bring up the matter in front of relatives and friends, hoping that they can match.

I remember one time, Bi Lina's old classmate brought her granddaughter to her house as a guest. After Fei Xiang hugged the little girl to make her happy, he smiled and said to his mother, "Mom, this is your granddaughter."

Fei Xiang's mother Bi Lina: broke up her son's many marriages, affecting her son's life at the age of 63 and still unmarried

For a moment, Bilina was surprised and disappointed. Her eyes couldn't help but redden, and then she realized that her son had not brought her real grandchildren so far.

However, the root of the problem may simply lie in the fact that fate has not yet arrived. Fei Xiang himself is not in a hurry about marriage, he thinks that the right person will naturally meet him, and he doesn't have to be reluctant.

Besides, a person's life can be at ease, and he can go wherever he wants. It's not that he doesn't understand his mother's expectations, it's just about marriage, and he still has to listen to his inner voice.

Fei Xiang, who is getting older now, has fine lines climbing on the corners of his eyes, but he is still graceful. After experiencing all kinds of tastes, he has also precipitated a lot in his heart. Whether or not he meets a life partner in the future, this is no longer a confinement for him.

Fei Xiang's mother Bi Lina: broke up her son's many marriages, affecting her son's life at the age of 63 and still unmarried

Living in the present and enjoying the present is also a happy choice.

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