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As the sun sets, the 63-year-old Fei Xiang sits lonely in front of the window of his residence, staring intently at the gradually eclipsed skyline outside the window. His hands were tightly intertwined, and between his brows there was a melancholy that could not be concealed.
The brilliant sunlight scattered softly over him, making his azure eyes shine brightly. Fei Xiang lowered his head slightly, as if he had fallen into a deep memory.
Indeed, in this long and rich course of life, Fei Xiang has experienced countless unforgettable moments. In particular, the fiery and touching first love, although the years have passed, it has always been deeply imprinted in the depths of his memory and cannot be erased.
Back in the 80s of the 20th century, Fei Xiang was in his youth at that time, handsome and chic, and could be called a popular idol in the entertainment industry at that time. Born in a mixed-race family, he grew up in a foreign country since he was a child, and has an open-minded personality.
By chance, he got acquainted with Ye Qianwen, an independent woman with a distinctive personality. The two communicate with each other in a sincere and friendly manner, and over time, special emotions sprout beyond the friendship.
Ye Qianwen has created a flawless female image in Fei Xiang's heart, she has both the elegant and demure temperament of Eastern women, and the independent and free character characteristics of Western women.
Fei Xiang's love for Ye Qianwen is sincere and deep. They fought side by side, bravely on the road of music, and the spark of love burned even more vigorously under the nourishment of art.
However, who would have expected that all these beautiful things would be ruthlessly cut off by Fei Xiang's mother.
As a traditional Chinese mother, Fei Xiang's mother is full of high expectations for her son's future, and she firmly believes that choosing a "poorly educated" woman like Ye Qianwen will become an obstacle in Fei Xiang's way forward.
Therefore, the mother resolutely opposes the emotional entanglement between her son and Ye Qianwen. She mercilessly accused Ye Qianwen on various occasions, and even declared in front of Ye Qianwen: "I only admit that Lin Qingxia is my only daughter-in-law, and any other women are not within my consideration."
When Fei Xiang faced his mother's prejudices, he once fell into extremely complex contradictions and struggles. On the one hand, he deeply loves Ye Qianwen and regards him as the treasure of his life; on the other hand, as an upright Chinese, how can he violate his mother's ardent expectations? Therefore, in order to be able to date Ye Qianwen secretly without being discovered, Fei Xiang had to resort to some unspeakable means at some times, such as lying, avoiding, and meeting in private.
However, the mother's gaze is like an eye everywhere, and the whole city seems to have become a hiding place for them.
Finally, Ye Qianwen, who could no longer bear this painful situation, firmly proposed to break up, and left Shanghai without hesitation, and turned to Hong Kong, a place full of opportunities and challenges. The blow of losing his beloved made Fei Xiang lose his way for a while, like a wandering duckweed.
Although he has also experienced several times of love after that, it seems that every time it has ended in failure, and the special position that belongs to Ye Qianwen has never been replaced.
Time flies, and now Fei Xiang has entered the year of sixties. Whenever the sun sets, he always sits quietly in front of the window, reminiscing about the past. The mother's words "I only recognize Lin Qingxia, the daughter-in-law", are still echoing in my ears, and the painful choice of the year has now become an irreparable regret.
It's just out of respect and filial piety to his mother that Fei Xiang chose to give up the last happiness in his life. Now, he would rather die alone than go against his mother's expectations.
Yip was born in the bustling city of Hong Kong, and her parents created excellent living conditions for her. However, when she was only four years old, her family decided to move to Canada in the hope of providing her with better educational resources.
In a strange foreign country, Ye Qianwen has cultivated a unique character of independence and self-pursuit since she was a child.
During those days spent in Canada, Ye Qianwen was deeply influenced by Western culture, and instead of being introverted and shy and sticking to the rules like her peers, she showed an open, confident and generous side.
When she was only six years old, she developed a strong interest in music, and the beautiful melodies seemed to have magical powers, always calming her inner restlessness. Since then, music has been an integral part of her life.
Ye Qianwen's unique and distinctive personal charm has been vividly reflected in her long years since. After entering the entertainment industry, she has never been timid and cowering, has no fear of gossip, and has always maintained her deep affection for Fei Xiang and a positive response to the rumors of their relationship.
In 1992, with the heartfelt song "Lover's Confidant", she won the Hong Kong Top Ten Golden Melody Awards, and Yip Qianwen did not shy away from expressing her unwavering support and deep gratitude to the public for her years of unwavering support and deep gratitude, directly shattering many speculations about their relationship with the outside world.
This brave and fearless, frank and straightforward style of action comes from Ye Qianwen's independent and free personality. When faced with Fei Xiang's mother's misunderstanding and prejudice against her, Ye Qianwen did not choose to bow her head and give in, but resolutely and decisively chose to end this relationship.
In the face of her mother's strong opposition, she knew that she could not change, and she was unwilling to make any concessions. So, Ye Qianwen waved goodbye to this emotional journey destined to be full of regrets, and devoted herself to the bustling Hong Kong without hesitation.
Ye Qianwen's decision undoubtedly shows her perseverance, independence and self-confidence. Her firm belief is not only reflected in her love life, but also in her career development.
Getting rid of emotional troubles, Ye Qianwen devoted herself to music creation, and finally reaped fruitful fruits on the fertile soil of Hong Kong. She won the Hong Kong Top Ten Golden Songs Award with a deeply rooted song "Lover's Confidant", and her talent was finally released on the shining stage.
There is no doubt that it is precisely because of Ye Qianwen's independent, self-confident and tenacious personality traits that she was able to survive many difficulties in difficult situations and achieve remarkable achievements in her career.
And in the face of her mother's prejudice, she did not flinch and defended her personal dignity with all her might. Regarding this, Ye Qianwen publicly expressed her opinion many years later: "Fei Xiang's mother doesn't like me, but I don't care about it.
If both parties are not satisfied, then there is no need to force themselves together, and I will definitely not sacrifice myself for anyone.
suffered a heavy blow from the departure of his beloved Ye Qianwen, which pushed Fei Xiang into a low point in his life. The haze of lovelorn bound him tightly and made it impossible for him to breathe. In order to soothe the pain of his soul, Fei Xiang resolutely decided to bid farewell to the bustling city of Shanghai and embarked on a long journey to a foreign country.
In the following years, Fei Xiang lived a life of wandering, sometimes in Europe, sometimes in the Americas, like a helpless duckweed, wandering around. At one point, he tried to flee China, away from this place of painful memories, just to escape the endless torment of a broken love.
However, no matter where he is, Ye Qianwen's shadow always lingers in his mind. For a while, he even had the idea of self-exile, trying to use the anesthesia of alcohol to forget that unforgettable memory.
Just when Fei Xiang was about to fall into decadence, fortunately, he still had a trace of sanity and stopped this behavior in time. He began to reflect deeply on what he had done and strengthened his determination to regain his confidence and face life positively.
As a result, Fei Xiang embarked on a long and arduous journey of cultivation, wandering around to explore the mysteries of wisdom behind all things in the world.
Also in the process of this ordeal of cultivation, Fei Xiang also experienced several emotional entanglements. For example, he once had an affair with the well-known host Yang Lan, and for example, he also had a brief intersection with Hu Yinmeng, the wife of singer Hu Yanbin.
However, these emotional stories ended in failure, turned into wisps of green smoke, and disappeared into the long river of years.
The reason is that Fei Xiang's deep thoughts about Ye Qianwen have never stopped. She was the first love of his life, and those good times of youth have been deeply imprinted in his heart.
Every relationship since then has been shrouded in this deep nostalgia, which makes Fei Xiang unable to devote himself wholeheartedly.
Sometimes, Fei Xiang even has a thought that borders on self-harm: maybe he is destined to die alone, because he can no longer find another Ye Qianwen. The image of the woman was too vivid, deeply engraved in his heart, and it was difficult to erase.
This may be the reason why he remains single to this day!
In the early 80s, Shanghai was like a brilliant country that was accumulating strength to build a prosperous city. In this land, a mixed-race child with the essence of Eastern and Western cultures was born, like a bright star, which instantly attracted the attention of the entire entertainment industry.
Fei Xiang, a born lucky child, was born in a family full of tradition and modernity. His appearance is handsome and dashing, and his deep blue eyes seem to hide endless mysterious charm. Growing up in a foreign country, he has an open-minded personality that contrasts sharply with his peers back home.
In 1981, Fei Xiang, who was only 20 years old, returned from overseas, and with his excellent appearance and outstanding musical talent, he quickly attracted the attention of talent scouts and stepped into the door of the entertainment industry.
Fei Xiang, who is new to the entertainment industry, although he is still unfamiliar with the domestic environment, his persistent pursuit of music allows him to quickly adapt and integrate into it. At this time, by chance, he met Ye Qianwen.
Ye Qianwen, the actress who entered the showbiz earlier than Fei Xiang, although her popularity had not yet reached its peak at that time, her unique temperament and independent spirit had long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Similar to Fei Xiang, she also grew up overseas, with an independent and open personality.
The two hit it off at first sight, and quickly developed from a teacher-student relationship to a confidant who talked about everything.
In each other's company, their relationship gradually warmed up, and gradually transformed from friendship to love. Catalyzed by music, their hearts collide with each other, and the flame of love burns in the bottom of their hearts.
As high-profile idols at the time, they did not deliberately hide this relationship, but showed it to the public with a frank attitude. Fei Xiang will not shy away from hugging and kissing Ye Qianwen in public, showing the deep emotions between them. And Ye Qianwen is the same, in the face of doubts from the media and public opinion, she has always maintained firmness and calmness.
The deep relationship between Mr. Fei Xiang and Ms. Ye Qianwen has certainly attracted the strong attention of the majority of media friends, and their sweet and happy photos have frequently appeared on the covers of various newspapers and magazines. However, one may ask, is these public pressures really important for lovers who love each other? The answer is undoubtedly no, because true love is enough for lovers to ignore all the distractions of the outside world and stick to their inner persistence.
Mr. Fei Xiang and Ms. Ye Qianwen, they once spent that good time together and intimate. In their work, they are not only partners, but also trusted confidants, and in the music industry, they support each other and move forward together. As such a professional, Ms. Yip Sin Man has always provided valuable advice and guidance to Mr. Fei Xiang, who is just starting out in the music scene, wholeheartedly accepting the teachings of his mentor and working hard to learn and accumulate a wealth of knowledge and experience.
As time goes by, work and life are gradually intertwined, and the relationship between them is also deepened in this tacit mode of getting along.
However, Mr. Fei Xiang's mother was deeply prejudiced against Ms. Yip Qianwen. She believes that Ms. Ye Qianwen lacks a good family education and does not behave properly enough to match her outstanding son. Whenever she saw an intimate photo of Mr. Fei Xiang and Ms. Ye Qianwen together, she would be furious, and her words would inevitably reveal harsh criticism.
Once, Mr. Fei Xiang invited Ms. Ye Qianwen to be a guest at home, and her mother said bluntly in front of Ms. Ye Qianwen: "I only admit that Ms. Lin Qingxia is the only daughter-in-law I recognize, and no one else will be considered." These ruthless words were like a heavy hammer, completely shattering Mr. Fei Xiang's vision of a happy marriage, and at the same time deeply stabbing Ms. Ye Qianwen's self-esteem.
Faced with his mother's resolute attitude, Mr. Fei Xiang tried to persuade her at first, hoping that her mother would change her prejudice against Ms. Ye Qianwen. However, no matter how painstakingly he explained, his mother always insisted on her position and did not give Mr. Fei Xiang any chance to defend herself.
Eventually, Mr. Fei Xiang also lost patience and began to take tough measures to deal with his mother's opposition.
In order to be able to meet his beloved Ms. Ye Qianwen, Mr. Fei Xiang had to endure all kinds of restraints and do some unspeakable things. Whenever his mother went out, he would quietly bring Ms. Ye Qianwen into the house to spend the night together.
If the mother returned suddenly, they would have to flee like frightened birds for fear of being discovered. Sometimes, Mr. Fei Xiang even needs to resort to a friend's residence to find a relatively safe place to meet Ms. Ye Qianwen.
However, the mother's control is like a snare, and the whole city seems to become an impeccable hunting ground. No matter how Fei Xiang hides it, his personal relationship with Ye Qianwen can always be leaked in the dark. As long as her mother noticed it a little, she reprimanded Fei Xiang fiercely like a storm, and even maliciously slandered Ye Qianwen's dignity, her words were vicious and terrifying!
Under the mother's pickiness, Fei Xiang and Ye Qianwen seemed to be stuck in a quagmire every time they met, and their steps were difficult. Throughout Shanghai, they could no longer find a place of tranquility.
As a result, this pair of young people in love are like lonely geese, hiding from the eyes of the world everywhere, and enduring endless rejection and ridicule.
Faced with such a predicament, Ye Qianwen finally couldn't bear it, she resolutely made the decision to break up, and then left Shanghai without hesitation and went to Hong Kong to seek new development opportunities.
After countless difficulties and obstructions from her mother, Ye Qianwen finally understood that her relationship with Fei Xiang had reached a dead end.
As an independent, confident, tenacious and unyielding woman, Ye Qianwen has never been afraid of any challenges and doubts. She has bravely faced all kinds of criticism from the outside world and has never flinched.
However, in the face of Fei Xiang's mother's resolute attitude, she knew that she could not resist, let alone compromise.
was insulted by Fei Xiang's mother again and again, and was rejected from the house, and the self-esteem in Ye Qianwen's heart was already full of holes. She began to vaguely feel that if she continued to barely maintain this love, she would betray herself and lose her last dignity.
Just when Ye Qianwen was struggling in her heart, something happened that made her completely determined. One day, Fei Xiang invited Ye Qianwen home as a guest, and Fei Xiang's mother expressed her strong hostility in front of Ye Qianwen without reservation: "I only admit that Lin Qingxia is my only daughter-in-law, and everyone else is not within my consideration." ”
Hearing this, Ye Qianwen was like being struck by lightning, and her whole body trembled. She never expected that Fei Xiang's mother's prejudice against her was so deep, almost to the point that it was irreconcilable.
At that moment, Ye Qianwen strengthened her determination, and she wanted to put an end to this relationship that was destined to be full of regrets.
Soon after, Ye Qianwen resolutely proposed to end her relationship with Fei Xiang! In the face of all Fei Xiang's affectionate calls and remorse, she waved her hand without hesitation to refuse, and she turned a deaf ear to her mother's malicious and slanderous words, and her expression was cold. Immediately afterwards, Ye Qianwen angrily left the warm and bustling Shanghai and bravely embarked on the road to Hong Kong, the Pearl of the Orient, to seek self-breakthrough and growth.
The shadow of the breakup hung over Fei Xiang's heart like a dark cloud, and he fell into a deep confusion and pain, as if he had lost the guidance of his soul, like a homeless wanderer wandering around. Although he tried to find new emotional sustenance, no matter how hard he tried, he couldn't find the special position that belonged to Ye Qianwen.
Time flies, and Fei Xiang, who has now entered the year of the sixtieth year, quietly recalls the past alone at the moment of sunset. The corners of his mouth rose slightly, and he sincerely wished that the person he once loved could have a happy and fulfilling life. At the same time, he also said with a little helplessness and self-deprecation that if it were not for meeting his mother's expectations, he might not have embarked on this lonely and long life path.
The one-of-a-kind woman had already left, and Fei Xiang would rather spend the rest of his life alone than go against his mother's ardent expectations.