I remember when I was sixteen years old, my closest cousin left us. He is the pride of his family, with a sunny and cheerful personality and a helpful personality.
For him, we were almost all caught in self-blame and suffering, my parents were devastated, and I was under great pressure because I couldn't accept his departure.
This traumatic experience was deeply imprinted in my heart and changed my attitude towards life. I have learned to cherish the people in front of me more, and to pay more attention to and care for family and friendship.
I am more determined in my choice and pay more attention to my family and marital happiness.
One weekend afternoon, I met up with my friends to go shopping and relax. Suddenly, my phone rang and it was a new guy on the phone inviting me out to meet.
In the café, I saw a mild-mannered gentleman sitting there, with a kind smile, good manners, and good conversation, which made me feel a little good about him.
We talked very happily, talked about a lot of interesting things on a blind date, and in the face of him, I didn't have any worries about blind dates in the past, and I also let go of my usual insistence.
At dinner, he took the initiative to talk about his work and life, he is a successful entrepreneur, his family conditions are superior, and he is the eldest son in the family, he has a sense of responsibility, and he also takes great care of his family, and I feel a kind of warmth and peace of mind with him.
However, things didn't go as smoothly as I expected. At one of my family gatherings, I stumbled upon a piece of news that shocked me.
My cousin has always been obsessed with him, and he seems to have feelings for my cousin that he will never forget. I didn't know what to do with this sudden situation.
When I was thinking about how to deal with this contradiction, I also began to question my own blind date criteria and choices.
I slowly became a little hesitant to know if I should continue the relationship. At the same time, I also had doubts about my own requirements and whether I had been insisting on them being too demanding.
I started to talk to friends and family about my doubts and confusion, and they also gave me a lot of advice and comfort.
However, this experience also made me think more deeply about my own requirements and attitude towards relationships.
This sudden contradictory incident gave me a new understanding of my own requirements and attitude towards relationships.
This blind date experience has given me a new understanding and thinking about relationships, and I believe that I will find someone more suitable for me in the future.
This blind date between me and him made me re-examine my choices. Although he impressed me both physically and professionally, his sense of responsibility and emotional maturity did not seem to match my expectations.
When I got home, I saw my mother worrying about some trivial matters at home. She and her father have always been so quietly giving and dedicating, and I always seem to be unable to give them more support and companionship.
I began to miss my family life when I was a child, and I missed the memories of my youth, when the family was together, and I felt the sincere family affection and warmth.
This blind date made me feel the warmth and importance of family again. I decided to spend more time with my family and care more about my parents and siblings in addition to my professional life, because they are my real support and starting point.
I no longer pursue external conditions, but want someone who understands me and accompanies me. In the next blind date, I will insist on my requirements more firmly, because I believe that there is always someone who understands me waiting for me.
I can only silently accept the differences between us, but it makes me wonder if we really fit in.
My parents are supportive, and in their opinion, the relationship needs to be tolerated and understood by both parties. They advised me to look away and not give up on the relationship because of a temporary conflict.
By chance, I met a new colleague at work. He is young and promising, passionate about his work, and at the same time knows how to care and care for others.
Every time I communicate with him, I can feel his sincere care and respect for me. I began to compare the two men, and in my mind, it seemed to be a process of comparison and choice.
At the same time, the issue of blind dates has also become a topic of conversation in the family. My mother kept pushing me to think carefully about my future and make the most of the opportunities that lay ahead.
At home, this incident also became the fuse of the quarrel between my parents, and I suddenly discovered that there were also conflicts in the family that I had experienced emotionally before.
By chance, I met a new colleague at work. He is young and promising, passionate about his work, and at the same time knows how to care and care for others.
Every time I communicate with him, I can feel his sincere care and respect for me. I began to compare the two men, and in my mind, it seemed to be a process of comparison and choice.
At the same time, the issue of blind dates has also become a topic of conversation in the family. My mother kept pushing me to think carefully about my future and make the most of the opportunities that lay ahead.
At home, this incident also became the fuse of the quarrel between my parents, and I suddenly discovered that there were also conflicts in the family that I had experienced emotionally before.
Soon, I had less and less contact with the blind date, and eventually it gradually broke off. Despite some disappointments, I stopped paying attention to it and continued with my work and life.
At the charity event, I met a humorous and gentle boy who is a doctor and loves public welfare.
However, just as I was getting closer and closer to my doctor friend, I received a sudden message from home.
This news brought me back to the year I was sixteen, and I once again felt deeply the fragility and impermanence of life.
At the funeral, I saw my parents, their faces full of grief and exhaustion. I know that deep down they must be grieving the loss of their cousin.
When I got home, I sat down with my parents and talked about the grief. There was still a deep sadness in my parents' eyes, and I was so sad.
Now, I cherish my family even more and realize that every minute and second of my life is so precious.
I hope that I can spend time with my parents and spend this sad time with them. That's my biggest wish right now.