In this busy and complex world, everyone is playing out the story of their own life. Sometimes it's full of endless laughter and joy, but sometimes it's tears and helplessness. Today, our eyes are focused on this ordinary family, the story of the old man who is "reluctant to go home" and his son Liu Xiaoer.
On November 27, the elderly man who was "reluctant to go home" was announced by the doctor that pancreatic cancer could not be cured, and he was asked to go home to recuperate. His condition was so serious that the doctors shook their heads helplessly, but Liu Xiaoer faced this cruel fact, but he told his father unabashedly.
But the old man, who was "reluctant to go home", refused to give up and insisted that he must be treated in the hospital. Son Liu Xiaoer told the old man: "The doctor said that he would be discharged from the hospital tomorrow", the cancer doctor said that there was no cure, and the old man's face changed instantly after hearing this.
His son's choice made us outsiders feel a kind of helplessness that is difficult to express. "Where can I go when I am discharged from the hospital?" in the old man's eyes, revealing a feeling of disbelief. "Is that all?" the old man asked his son again in disbelief, but he did not reply.
Immediately afterwards, the old man, who was "reluctant to go home", said in an incredulous and very firm tone: "Don't talk, I'll wait for the doctor to come and drive me away." The old man's helplessness and desire to survive were expressed in this simple sentence, and countless netizens pricked their hearts with this sentence, and the old man said this sentence, which instantly made people cry.
As Liu Xiaoer said, his father, like most rural fathers, was simple and honest all his life, and spent his whole life on frugality.
This old man used to be a little musical genius, and when he was six years old, he dared to shine on the stage. His hard work in the recording studio is for his dreams, in order to pursue perfection, and he often stays up all night. But when he was challenging life, his courage and his desire to survive pierced the hearts of netizens like needles.
The old man was afraid, he was afraid that when he went home, he would face death, just like the old man said, the doctor asked him to go home, but what to do when he was discharged? He faced the pain day and night, and he couldn't sleep at night. It is also what the doctor and his son can do, and the only way to do it is to wait for the old man to come home and prescribe more painkillers to the old man......
looked at the helpless eyes of the old man, and the helplessness of life and death. Some netizens said under the comments: "Looking at the proud and helpless eyes, do you think it is appropriate for you as a son to say such things?
Someone else said: "You told the truth, did you see your father's frightened and helpless eyes?" The comment area is full of accusations against the old man's son, everyone is scolding his son, and he really shouldn't use such direct words to pass on the condition to the old man. Others said that his son said this because his emotional intelligence was too low.
Others deliberately tried to hide their illness, but this old man's son could say it all unabashedly. After all, these words are too cruel for anyone. Every time the old man's son said such things, he could see the helplessness and helplessness in the old man's eyes.
Some netizens said in the comment area: "This son can't use white lies to deceive the old man and give him hope for life." There is hope for the future, so that the old man is in a better mood in the last days, why hit him so much. "Actually, you can take the elderly to a small hospital for painkiller injections, and you can go home and take some medicine.
The old man lives in the hospital, maybe he has a sense of security, and with spiritual sustenance, he will not have no hope for his future life, and his eyes will be bleak.
Looking at the video of the old man's son Liu Xiaoer, it is not difficult to find that Liu Xiaoer speaks very straight and has no emotional intelligence, but his love for the old man is hidden in the depths. Liu Xiaoer would buy his favorite "brine tofu brain" for his father in the city, and he would also persuade his father to have surgery.
As the old man's condition has been developing, his stubborn eyes have also undergone great changes, his body has become constantly trembling, unable to eat, and constantly vomiting blood, etc., these physical conditions have made the old man slowly accept the fact that he has cancer.
In the last period before the old man left, they also regretted that they had done a puncture for their old father, who was not in good health, and continued to have a fever after the puncture. can also make them lucky, that is, Liu Xiaoer made his old father popular by shooting short videos.
During my father's treatment, many caring people sent donations. But in the end, they didn't keep the old man who wasn't.
Although Liu Xiaoer spoke very directly, he also felt his father's worries. So he decided to respect his old father's wishes and take him to try Chinese medicine for healing, hoping that Chinese medicine would bring miracles. Perhaps in Liu Xiaoer's heart, the old father is not only the spiritual pillar of their family, but also a very important and indispensable existence in Liu Xiaoer's life.
Liu Xiaoer took his old father to live in the hospital in the county, which can not only save part of the medical expenses, but also be closer to home.
Many people can't help but sigh that although the old man longs for the continuation of life, he is also worried that his son has spent all the savings he has saved in recent decades because of his illness. The old man was worried that his son's money would not be enough to spend, so he gave all his money to his son.
It shows a father's love for his son. In this story, Liu Xiaoer's infinite efforts and helplessness are fully displayed, as well as the helplessness and unwillingness of the old father's heart, how much he wants to continue his life.
The most reassuring place for this old man is the corner of the hospital. It is there that the old man's heart can feel peace. You see, there is a place in this world that is more like home than home.
With the passage of time, the old man's body deteriorated day by day. The old man's feet are already swollen and unable to walk, Liu Xiaoer's heart has long understood that this day will come, and the hearts of netizens are also very clear, but there are still some very cruel realities and truths.
On December 13, at the moment before the old man died, Liu Xiaoer shaved his old father and cut his nails, which were recorded in this scene. Soon after, at 19:50 that day, the old man left us.
Perhaps, that is the last sense of ritual in the old man's life, the son's most simple farewell to his father, and his love for his father. The old man just wants to live, and he has indeed done his best to be a son, maybe he is not the best, but he is definitely not bad.
There is an end in each of our lives, sooner or later, but in this process, what is needed is love and companionship. Life is just this once, and we should cherish it.