That day, Dong Yuhui choked up and said:
I haven't eaten meatball soup since......
Regarding the poor raising babies, some experts recently stood up and said:
Don't be intimidated by the temporary difficulties in front of us, we can turn to relatives for help.
Because once you miss the best childbearing age, you will regret it later.
After all, the difficulties are temporary, with the help of the strength of relatives and friends around them, everyone gathers firewood and the flame is high, and they can help a handful.
We will not comment on the correctness of the advice of the experts.
Let's listen to the story of Dong Yuhui and his "Meatball Soup" first.
Meatball soup that is hard to swallow!
It was a late autumn evening, and my mother and I went out to borrow money from the east and west. Timid, I cowardly followed behind my mother. This is already the sixth door that we have had to knock on in desperation.
Yes, after some pleasantries, the neighbors found out about our purpose and sent us away in a few words. This was also expected by my mother.
After all, everyone is not rich, they all have half-grown children to raise, children to study, and there are elderly people waiting to see a doctor and take medicine at home.
Coming out of the neighbor's house, my mother took me and walked silently for a long time before we got home, and that day, the power went out again, and the house was dark and black, and it looked unusually deserted. Mom must have been thinking all the way and is about to pay the tuition, but where does the money come from?
I'm the second oldest in the family, I have an older sister and a younger brother below me
My sister is very sensible and good at Xi.
One day when my sister came home, she carried the kettle and luggage at school on her back. When she returned home, she went directly into the house and said to her mother: I won't go to this school in the future.
Mom was suddenly furious, patted her sister's back, wiped her tears and said: Why don't you go to school?
My sister was very stubborn, and let her mother's slap hit him, she deliberately looked her eyes to the side, and she forcibly said: Anyway, I just don't go to it, the teacher treats me badly, and my classmates treat me badly, in short, I just don't read this book.
Dong Yuhui on the side looked at his sister timidly. He didn't understand why this sister, who Xi had studied well on weekdays and had always been very sensible, had become so stubborn today? He actually made his mother cry, and he didn't apologize to his mother. And he is resolute and has no intention of retreating.
Mom sighed and acquiesced to her sister's decision. It wasn't until a few years later that Yuhui learned from his mother that his sister took the initiative to quit studying, and it was my sister who deeply knew that it was not easy for her parents and the poverty of the family, so she took the initiative to give up the limited resources of the family to her younger brother.
After dropping out of school, my sister became Yuhui's "umbrella", and where my younger brother studied, my sister found a handyman near the school
One year the winter was very cold, snowy, and the roads were covered with ice ballast. That day, Yuhui read until late at night, and his stomach was already rumbling with hunger
At this time, my sister carried a bucket, a foot deep, a foot shallow, and the figure appeared in front of her. My sister's hands were already red from the cold, and she made the leftover meat filling from the wonton shop into meatballs, and a large bowl of hot meatball soup was sent to Yuhui from all over the world.
In front of a bowl of meatball soup, Dong Yuhui burst into tears again.
From then on, he was afraid to see the meatball soup, and refused to eat the meatball soup, because a steaming bowl of meatball soup could always instantly pull him back to that cold winter, the cold night, his sister's hands that were frozen red, and the eyes that looked at him with ardent expectation.
So his success came all the way by stepping on his sister's sacrifice, his gratitude, his apology to his sister, and the unique Dong Yuhui in front of tens of millions of fans today.
Dong Yuhui is successful, but you must not think that even today, in the countryside, in a corner that we don't know, there are still thousands of unknown Dong Yuhui, they are unknown......
Dong Yuhui's fire is for a reason.
Some people say that what he sells is not goods, but feelings, but the journey of countless poor people from childhood to adulthood.
After reading his story, can a poor man really ask for help from his relatives if he raises a baby? This may be the greatest irony in the world.
Let me tell you my own story.
There are two girls in my family, and their parents are working hard in spring, summer, autumn and winter on 16 acres of land in their hometown in the northeast.
That year, my sister and I were both admitted to university, it was the happiest year for my parents, and it was also the most worrying year for my parents, they were happy that there were two college students in a poor rural family, and they drew two students, where did the tuition cost of nearly 10,000 yuan come from after the start of school?
From the moment my sister received the admission letter, my parents, who were never willing to call on weekdays, began to call the seven aunts and eight mothers-in-law in the city one after another......
In any case, going around and around will still go around the money. As soon as the other party hears about borrowing money, they will immediately keep silent and find various reasons to reply.
That afternoon, Mom and Dad were like salesmen selling something, they were always pacing around the house, walking around, as if mentally making a draft in advance, and then rehearsing it several times before they finally mustered up the courage to pick up the microphone
When the phone was first connected, their voices were always very loud, and then the pitch became lower and lower when they spoke, and finally they were so humble that I needed to listen carefully to hear the two words that came out of their mouths ~ "borrow money".
And that afternoon, they must have said everything they could imagine in the year, the best things they could hear. They are not good at words, but they are forced to talk endlessly. All hat and no cattle.
Although in the end there was still no harvest.
So in desperation, the father drove the sows who were about to have piglets to the market on the second day and sold them at a very low price.
The villagers were puzzled and asked their father, why did they sell the sow at this time when they saw that the pig was about to have a return of money?
Mom and Dad smiled wryly.
If my father sold the family's sow to help me and my sister raise money for school, and you think we are already miserable, then listen to the story of another of my classmates.
This classmate is in Henan, and there are 300 households in the village where they are, and it is said that many people will have that disease.
As for which disease?
It's the one who runs to the blood bank whenever they don't have money to treat the elderly, or to send their children to school. In the end, he was infected by a bad black heart blood station
Blood is a good thing, it's a life-saving thing.
As long as a small bag of 200 ml, it can be exchanged for a month's food for the family.
It's not terrible, it's terrible. There is no cure!
It's an axe that sits around the neck and can fall at any moment.
But why is everyone flocking to it?
Because I am poor, because I can't get money, because I can't borrow money.
Because the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor have no one to ask in the downtown area
So the expert told me that the poor can go and borrow money from relatives to raise their children? So the relatives around the experts must not be poor, right?
In other words, if the expert goes to borrow money, it may be used for emergency purposes.