The name Sha Yi reminds countless people of the wise and brave, chic and dignified "thief saint" Bai Zhantang in "Wulin Gaiden".
He became famous with this drama, but this has also become a kind of shackle on his acting path.
Sha Yi longs to change the labeled image, but the audience can't completely get out of the memories of "Bai Zhantang".
After repeated thinking, Sha Yi finally understood that there was no need to force it, and calmly accepted the role of "Bai Zhantang", which was the luckiest gift in his life.
Hu Ke is not an actor, she was originally engaged in hosting. has performed supporting roles in several TV series, but she has won wide attention.
has outstanding acting talents, and Hu Ke's performances can always accurately capture the hearts of the audience. She is cheerful and optimistic, but her heart is unexpectedly sensitive and fragile.
These different aspects of her personality inject rich connotations into her performance.
In 2009, Sha Yi and Hu Ke met on the show. The two hit it off at first sight and instantly opened their hearts to each other.
After the recording of the show, Sha Yi was pleasantly surprised to find that Hu Ke's ideals and pursuits were so consistent with him, and the two could chat passionately about trivial matters in life.
Three months later, the two met again and co-starred in a TV series.
During the month-long shoot, they had more time to Xi learn each other's personalities and ways of behaving.
Sha Yi was deeply attracted by Hu Ke's optimistic and cheerful personality, and Hu Ke also liked Sha Yi's humorous conversation.
After more than a year of getting along, the two became more and more sure that the degree of compatibility in their hearts was so high that they were surprisingly high.
In 2011, Sha Yihu Ke finally entered the palace of marriage. The sweetness of the beginning of the wedding is quickly diluted by reality.
It turned out that Hu Ke had been taking care of housework at home, and Sha Yi's lazy and casual life was also exposed.
Sha Yi was tired from working outside all day, and when he came home, he stuffed his dirty clothes to Hu Ke, and he rested comfortably on the sofa.
Hu Ke complained about this, but Sha Yi didn't take it to heart.
Their first child was born soon after.
Hu Ke began to have the idea of returning to the entertainment industry, but Sha Yi firmly opposed it, on the grounds that taking care of the children required too much energy and Hu Ke would be exhausted.
Estrangement and arguments began to arise between the two.
There are indeed some problems in Sha Yi and Hu Ke's married life, which has been magnified, and Sha Yi has been labeled as "machismo" on the Internet.
The originally seemingly happy marriage was also questioned, and some rumors even accused Sha Yi of "cheating", and the relationship between the two once cracked.
There are too many hearsay and subjective assumptions in these judgments, and they are not objective enough.
In fact, in these ordinary daily lives, Sha Yi and Hu Ke are supporting each other in their own ways.
For example, when Hu Ke needs to go out to film and work, Sha Yi will take the initiative to reduce his work and stay at home to take care of the children;
And when Sha Yi is tired or frustrated at work, Hu Ke will also silently give support and encouragement.
But these small details of mutual care have been forgotten, and only the superficial problems have been seen.
As time passed, the two gradually realized that maintaining a relationship was more difficult than they imagined.
In marriage, it is impossible to ask each other to be the perfect partner, and it is difficult to force a person to change their life Xi for many years.
As a result, Hu Ke chose to accept Sha Yi in reality, rather than forcing change;
At the same time, under the influence of Hu Ke, Sha Yi slowly learned to empathize, and became more understanding and considerate of Hu Ke's thoughts.
There will not be a perfect lover in marriage, and it will not happen overnight to change a person's life Xi that has been formed for many years.
Hu Ke chose to accept Sha Yi as he is, rather than forcing him to change, and Sha Yi also slowly learned to be considerate under Hu Ke's infection.
In the days and nights of getting along, the estrangement between the two slowly dissolved. Sha Yi will coax his wife in seconds when Hu Ke is crying, and Hu Ke will happily accept Sha Yi's teasing.
As they came and went, their lively and cheerful personalities gradually complemented each other.
There will be difficulties on the road to marriage, but the farther and farther they go, they finally know how to cherish this relationship.
Hu Ke said: "He gave me strength, and his sun shone into my heart. And Sha Yi also found the joy of life in Hu Ke.
He is still the careless Sha Yi, a bad man, but fortunately, everything is developing in a good direction.
Because love itself is a kind of warmth, which can resolve the ups and downs in life and illuminate every ordinary but real day.
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