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During the Qingming Festival, it rained a lot, and I came to my father's grave alone. In the corner of the cemetery, I saw my mother.
I haven't seen her for 10 years, and she seems to be a lot older. The mother was dressed in simple black, and her thin body shivered slightly in the wind. At this moment, I plucked up the courage to walk towards her.
"Mom. I whispered.
The mother turned her head in surprise and saw that it was me, and her eyes immediately showed a look of joy: "Son, it's you!"
I nodded, "Well, Mom, I'm coming to visit Dad." ”
"Great, you're finally back to see him. My mother excitedly took my hand, tears rolling in her eyes, "Over the years, my mother has had a hard time, and you don't come home to see me." Son, mom is old, come to the house, let's have a good reunion between mother and son. ”
I was stunned, and my heart was mixed. Mom's hand was so cold and thin, holding it in the palm of my hand, like a dead leaf. I know that since my father died, it must have been difficult for her to live alone. But the things of the past, those pains, really made me unable to get out of the knot.
"Son!" My mother looked at me pleadingly, "Son, Mom knows that she is wrong, all these years, Mom has lived like a prison, and guilt and remorse have tormented Mom, just think Mom has been punished enough." You are your mother's flesh and blood, please give your mother a chance to make amends, let your mother come to you and live with you, you should be for your old father, just agree to your mother's last wish. ”
I looked at my mother's tearful, pleading face, and my heart was like a knife. I really wanted to forgive her, but every time the thought came up, images of the past came to mind, reminding me of the indelible hurt and betrayal.
"Mom, I can't. I took a deep breath and shook my head resolutely, "Please understand my difficulties. I'll cover your living expenses, but I'm afraid it's hard for us to go back to the way things were. It's good for all of us. I'll go first, take care. ”
With that, I quickly turned away, unable to bear to look at my mother's painful face again. I know my decision hurts her, but that's my bottom line.
A month later, I came home from work and was confronted by my mother sitting on the doorstep.
"Mom, why are you here?" I was amazed.
My mother raised her head and looked at me with teary eyes: "Son, my mother sold the old house and brought all the things, and I will move in with you from today onwards, you must not drive my mother away!"
"I'm just going to force you!" The mother cried and said, "This is Mom's last wish, if you don't agree, Mom will go on a hunger strike at your doorstep!"
My brain almost exploded. I held back my emotions and said to my mother, "Mom, I'll say it one last time, you can't force me like this. If you insist on staying in my house, then I will have to leave my own home. ”
I sighed and said to my mother, "Okay, just a month, let me see if you really want to make amends." ”
My mother was so happy that she thanked me with her hands together and said that this month would allow me to see the changes in her sincerity.
About two weeks later, one day I suddenly fell ill with a high fever. I was lying in bed, dizzy. My mother was so worried that she came over to take my temperature, brought me hot water and medicine, and stayed by my bedside all night to watch over me. Her hand gently wiped the sweat from my forehead, just as she had cared for me many years ago when I was sick.
My heart was touched by this warm motherly love. Maybe, I should really give her a chance and give our relationship a chance to start over.
In this way, under the careful care of my mother for a month, I began to truly open my heart and gradually accept her existence. She changed a lot and became a considerate and gentle mother.
One night, the two of us sat down at the dinner table to eat. My mother suddenly put down the dishes and chopsticks and looked at me with red eyes.
"Son, mom apologizes to you again for what you did all those years ago. At that time, Mom was crazy and hurt you by doing things she shouldn't have done. You have 100% right not to forgive Mom. Mother said apologetically.
I also reddened my eyes and nodded: "Mom, the past is in the past." I know you sincerely regret it now. I have decided to forgive you and give our feelings a chance to start over. ”
Since that day, my relationship with my mother has been getting better and better. She became more tolerant and tolerant, and I learned to be understanding and forgiving. Being with my mother every day is a kind of happiness.
In this way, in the warmth, more than a year has passed. My mother was completely integrated into my life and became my closest family member. However, the good times did not last long, and just half a year ago, my mother passed away due to illness, which made me sad.
We held a funeral for my mother today, and the condolences from family and friends were solemn and sad. The moment I scattered my mother's ashes, tears blurred my eyes. The good times of more than a year linger in my heart.
Looking at my mother's posthumous photo, I can't help but think of the bits and pieces of how we rebuilt our mother-son relationship. I owe her gratitude for her efforts and changes that allowed us to have a period of mutual understanding. It's short, but it's so precious.
Life is too short, we need to know how to forgive and be grateful. I would like to say to all people that you should be tolerant of your loved ones. Cherish every day you spend with them. Because parting always comes inadvertently.
I will always miss the love and memories that my mother gave me. This time, I didn't push her away when she needed me the most. This is my comfort, but also my cherishing and respectful of her. May her rest in peace in the Spirit of Heaven, and I will always remember her.
The death of my mother had a big impact on me. After she left, I lived alone, feeling lonely and empty like never before.
Sometimes when I think of her, I cry involuntarily. I began to reflect on what would have happened if I hadn't been so stubborn, if I had forgiven her for her mistakes earlier? And now, regret and regret are the lingering pain in my heart.
I began to sort out what my mother had left me. Flipping through her photo album and seeing the photo of her with her father when she was young, I couldn't help but touch my memories. I gently stroked page by page, as if caressing the bits and pieces of her life. These photographs document her entire life, and now, everything is a thing of the past.
I still have the clothes my mother wore on the day she died, and I still have her breath on them. I can't help but pick it up and sniff it deeply, looking for traces of her presence. I carefully collected her relics one by one, reluctant to discard any of them, as if I was grasping her life away from me.
In the dead of night, I would sit in front of my mother's picture and talk to her about my thoughts. I would tell her about my work and about my life alone. I will repent again and again, asking her in the Heavenly Spirit to forgive me for my wrong decisions back then. How I wish she was still around, even if only in a dream.
I've come to appreciate every moment I spend with my family and friends even more. Because I know that separation is always too sudden and impermanent. I don't want any more regrets to happen. I want to be more tolerant and forgiving, and learn to forgive the mistakes of others instead of holding grudges.
I often think that birth, old age, sickness and death are the only way to go in life. But accidents always happen inadvertently and catch people off guard. What I can do is to leave no regrets and cherish the people in front of me. Just as the mother did in the last stages of her life, she gave up resentment in exchange for forgiveness, cherishment, and gratitude.
Will my mother be able to see me in the heavenly spirits? Will she be glad for me? I think she will be gratified because the beautiful memories of our relationship have been rebuilt with great painstaking efforts, and this is the gift she wants most as a mother.
Mom, don't worry, I will live a good life and live up to your expectations. I will spend every meaningful day and night of my life's journey with gratitude. This time, I will keep in mind your teachings and love. Thank you for coming into my life, for giving me joy, for giving me forgiveness, for giving me growth. I love you, Mom, in this life.
As the days passed, it had been two years since my mother left me. As time passed, the pain in my heart gradually faded. However, the inspiration and insights she gave me will always remain in my heart.
I began to Xi the life of a person and face every day alone. Although I feel lonely from time to time, I muster up strength when I think of my mother's desire for me to live well. I want to remember her teachings and live the way she wants to see.
At work, I worked harder and finally got promoted to become a department manager. Whenever I faced setbacks, I would be reminded of my mother's words urging me to be strong and patient, which gave me the courage to keep going. I also learned to be empathetic, to be more considerate of others, and to be a reasonable leader.
In life, I got to know an empathetic girl. Gradually, we came together and started a family. Every time I see her busy for me, I think of my mother. I vow to cherish this time and never repeat the mistakes of the past. I also learned how Xi communicate with their significant other and repair relationships.
I began to follow my mother's example and spend more time with my family. I regularly go home every week to visit my father and communicate with him calmly. I also care more about my friends and offer to help. When I don't understand, I try to put myself in the other person's shoes instead of breaking up the relationship easily.
On the day of my mother's death, I would bring my family to the grave to lay tears and flowers. Looking at her tombstone, I can't help but imagine her expression of relief and joy if she were still there. It made me feel relieved and fulfilled as if she was watching me right there.
In the blink of an eye, my mother has been away from me for ten years. Ten years is not a short time, but for me, her teachings to me will always be etched in my heart. When I encounter every important moment in my life, her figure always comes to my mind, reminding me to be a better person.
Perhaps, I will never see my mother again in my life. But I felt like she was there for me all the time. Her love and perception will always guide the direction of my life. They became my motivation and a reason for my forgiveness and gratitude.
Mom, I will always keep your teachings in mind and live a simple and meaningful life. This time, I didn't disappoint you and didn't break our feelings between us. Thank you for everything you have done for me and these precious memories I will cherish forever. May you see me today in the Spirit of Heaven, and you will be gratified and proud, my dear Mother.
In the blink of an eye, my mother has been away from me for another twenty years.
My life has changed a lot in the past 20 years. I have grown from a young man to a middle-aged man. I have experienced success in my career, but also the ups and downs of life. When I look back, I am even more grateful to my mother for enlightening and influencing me.
Now I'm a father. Watching my children grow up, I always feel the difficulty of being a parent. On the road of parenting, I encountered all kinds of difficulties and setbacks, all of which reminded me of the bits and pieces of my mother raising me. I often asked myself how anxious and sad my mother must have been when she encountered my rebellion. Now I am finally able to understand her and admire her for not giving up and continuing to love me.
When I go through a low point in my life, I also think of my mother's encouragement and trust in me, which became the source of motivation for me to get back up. I understood what kind of responsibilities and obligations I had as a son. I want to keep all the warm memories she gave me and pass them on.
I often tell my children to cherish the time they spend with their families because there is no warning of separation. I would tell them to be more tolerant and understanding when dealing with their loved ones. Don't repeat the mistakes I made back then and leave irreparable regrets. I want to educate my children with my own experience, and all this comes from my longing and admiration for my mother.
Life is a long road, and I know that I will continue to grow and experience more ups and downs in the future. But with the memory of my mother in my heart, I was able to keep moving forward. I look forward to the day when my life journey is complete, I can go to her side and say to her personally: "Mom, you see, I have lived up to your expectations, and I have lived as a son that you are proud of." ”
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, my mother has been gone for 30 years.
Thirty years have changed a lot, and I have changed from a young man to an old man. I retired at home, sitting around with my daughter-in-law and children, and telling the story of my mother and me.
I told me about my mother's hard work in giving birth to me and raising me, saying that she taught me how to do housework and patiently answered my questions. I still remember every bowl of hot white porridge she served, every goodnight kiss before bed. These small moments became some of the best memories of my childhood.
I also told about the rift that we had later, saying that I was young and frivolous and ignorant, and could not understand my mother's good intentions. The pain of separation kept me from thinking about tea and dinner, and I couldn't sleep at night. I miss her pampering and regret that I shouldn't have broken her heart. I can do it all over again in heaven and let me be her good son again.
I talked about my mother coming to me before she died, and we rebuilt our bond. I confessed that she did not take care of me all the way, and she only comforted me gently, saying that it was her greatest wish in life to recognize me.
I talk about the poor years after her death, and I experienced a metamorphosis in the pain of losing my mother's love. I began to understand her intentions back then, and I integrated this kindness and forgiveness into my own life. I tried to live as she wanted her to be, to pass on her love.
My children were deeply moved and expressed their desire to learn from their grandmother about Xi's broad maternal love. They said that when I grew up, I would be filial to me and not cause me any trouble. Looking at the clear and innocent faces of my grandchildren, I know that my mother will also feel relieved in the heavenly spirit.
"Son, you're here. I saw my mother standing in the golden light and smiling and waving to me.
"Mom!" I couldn't help but shout and ran towards her.
I knelt at my mother's feet, tears welling up in my eyes. I repented of my life's mistakes and said that I shouldn't have broken her heart. My mother stroked my head and said I was good enough.
I begged her to take me away, I missed her and wanted to stay with her forever. My mother shook her head and said that it was not time yet, and asked me to insist on walking for another while.
I woke up and looked out the window at the rising sun. I am determined to continue on this journey and spend my lifetime repaying the love of all people and passing on the kindness of my mother.
Because, that's what she's always meant to live in.
On the 100th anniversary of my mother's birth, I came to her grave alone and knelt down in front of her tombstone and kowtowed.
Although my mother passed away decades ago, her spirit lives on in my heart. The years I spent with her were the most precious treasure of my entire life.
I remember when I was a kid, my mother would always wake up early to prepare breakfast for the family and wake me up to get ready for school. When she came home from school, she was always greeted with a smile at the door. My mother was always so gentle and considerate, and she never blamed me even when I was willful.
I remember teaching me how to read and ride a bicycle, catching cicadas and playing in the mud with me in the summer, and knitting sweaters for me in the winter so that my teeth didn't shiver from the cold. Whenever I was sick, she always stayed in front of my bed day and night, changed my wet towel to wipe my body, fed me medicine, and was reluctant to close her eyelids.
I still remember when I was in middle school, my mother got up early and worked odd jobs just so that I could go to a good school. Every time I saw her blood-soaked hands, I felt extremely distressed. When I got my college acceptance letter, my mother burst into tears and worked day and night to inform all her relatives of the news.
As I recalled this scene, tears flowed down my face. I don't know much time, and I'm going to go to my mother's side. Before bidding farewell to her, I would like to thank her once again and express my endless thoughts and love.
Mother, my dear mother, you have given me all your love. You have shown me what unconditional care and dedication are. You have taught me kindness and you have taught me to be grateful. You are the greatest benefactor of my life. I will always remember you and love you forever.
I'm sure you're looking at me from heaven right now. Rest assured that your son will live well and will not let you down. I will carry forward your love and let more people feel the greatness of mother's love. I love you, Mother, in this life and in this life.