Author: Wen Sui's emotion
In mainland society, family relationships have always been a topic of great concern. Among them, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been discussed countless times, and there are different opinions.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is sometimes as delicate as the notes on the strings, and the slightest carelessness can lead to a series of discordant tones.
There is such a daughter-in-law, who encountered indifference and isolation from her mother-in-law after the abortion operation.
After the daughter-in-law had an abortion in the hospital, she thought that she would be cared for and cared for by her mother-in-law when she returned home.
However, what she never expected was that her mother-in-law avoided her, and even wore sunglasses 24 hours a day so as not to "scare her eyes".
This indifferent attitude made the daughter-in-law feel cold.
Since returning home from the abortion operation, the daughter-in-law found that her mother-in-law's behavior had become extremely strange.
Not only did he not help her wash her clothes, but he even hid away when she was eating.
This made the daughter-in-law wonder what she had done wrong to make her mother-in-law treat her like this.
The mother-in-law's daughter noticed the abnormality in the house and couldn't help but ask the mother-in-law: "Mom, why do you always wear sunglasses?"
The mother-in-law replied lightly: "I'm afraid of enchanting her eyes." ”
This answer made the daughter-in-law even more confused, why did the mother-in-law say this?
It turned out that the mother-in-law had always thought that her daughter-in-law's abortion was against traditional morality, so she was disgusted with her.
Even during confinement, the mother-in-law spoke coldly to her daughter-in-law and even said the same thing. This caused the daughter-in-law to suffer a great deal of spiritual damage.
This situation has caused heated discussions on the Internet, and many netizens have said: "Such a mother-in-law is really not a good type, it is better to live separately from her mother-in-law." ”
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like a war without gunpowder, and every detail may become the fuse of contradictions.
In this story, we see the contradictions and conflicts between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The feudal concepts and prejudices of her mother-in-law made her indifferent to her daughter-in-law.
And the daughter-in-law not only has to endure physical pain after undergoing an abortion operation, but also has to face the cold eyes of her mother-in-law. This kind of life made her feel extremely tired.
Some netizens suggested that it is best to live separately between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to maintain distance to reduce conflicts. However, in real life, many families do not choose such a solution for various reasons.
So, how to resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and create a harmonious family atmosphere?
First of all, the mother-in-law needs to abandon the feudal concept and respect the choice of the daughter-in-law.
Everyone has the right to decide their own life, and a mother-in-law should not ignore her daughter-in-law's feelings because of her adherence to traditional morality.
Secondly, the daughter-in-law should also understand her mother-in-law's mood and try to communicate with her mother-in-law so that she understands her position and ideas.
Finally, other members of the family also have a role to play as a mediator between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, promoting mutual understanding between the two parties.
In short, in this story, we see the seriousness of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I hope that every family can focus on harmony, respect each other, understand each other, and create a happy family atmosphere together.
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