1. Appropriate amount of red envelopes:
Xiaoxia went home for the Chinese New Year to give red envelopes to the children of relatives and friends, but the 200 yuan red envelopes she received last year were dissatisfied by her sister-in-law. This year, she adjusted her strategy and gave her nephew and niece a red envelope of 500 yuan, and her sister-in-law was smiling. For the amount of red packets, different places have different customs and Xi, and the amount does not need to be too high-profile. No matter how rich you are, you don't need to steal the limelight, obviously you don't have much money, but you have to pretend to be generous, so that you spend money and easily offend people. Therefore, we need to decide the appropriate amount of red envelopes according to local customs and Xi, which not only expresses blessings, but also does not cause unnecessary embarrassment.
2. The time for the development of red envelopes:
When children are together, if we give them different amounts of red envelopes, it is better to give them separately at different times. Although for children, the amount of money in the bag may not be obvious, but they often like to take it out and compare it to see who has the larger amount of red envelopes. If the amount of red envelopes for different children is taken out together, it is easy to cause embarrassment and comparison. Therefore, in order to avoid this embarrassing situation, we can choose to give them red envelopes at different times, which not only maintains politeness, but also avoids unnecessary embarrassment.
3. Send red envelopes in front of adults:
Giving red envelopes to children is actually a kind of interaction with the child's parents, and it is also a kind of human exchange. Therefore, when giving red envelopes to children, it is best to do so in front of adults. If we send a red envelope to the child first, and the child spends it quickly, the child's parents do not know that we have given the child a red envelope, so the favor is not delivered, and it does not seem good. Therefore, in order to respect the parents of the children and let them know our hearts, it is better to give red envelopes to the children in front of them.
Fourth, red envelopes should not be compared:
The red envelope represents the blessing and care for others, and there is no need to compare who has the more red envelope amount. In recent years, the amount of red envelopes for some children has become higher and higher, and some people have even reached an excessive level of giving red envelopes to their children in order to show their financial strength. However, this practice is not necessary, and the meaning of red envelopes is to convey blessings rather than show financial resources. If the amount of the red envelope is too much, it will cause conflicts and disputes. Therefore, when giving red envelopes, you should insist on being guided by your heart and blessings, and don't compare the amount of money excessively.
5. Convey blessings with novel red envelopes:
When preparing red packets, we can choose different forms of red packets to make traditional red packets more creative and innovative. Fresh red envelopes and brand-new banknotes will send the best wishes and hopes to children of different ages. In this way, we not only put our hearts and minds, but also conveyed the most sincere blessings, and highlighted the true meaning of sending red envelopes.
Summary:
Giving red envelopes to children during the Chinese New Year is indeed a task that tests emotional intelligence, requiring us to find a balance between etiquette and emotion. The appropriate amount of red envelopes, the time to divide the red envelopes, the distribution of red envelopes to children in front of adults, the non-comparison of red envelope amounts, and the use of novel red envelopes to convey blessings can make the Chinese New Year's red envelopes more harmonious and happy. Whether it is the person who gives the red envelope or the person who receives the red envelope, you need to find your own coordinates between tradition and reality, and express your emotions and care with sincere intentions and sincere blessings.
As my thoughts and opinions on this topic, I believe that making red packets is not only a Xi and tradition, but also a way to express my heart and care. We should take sincerity and goodwill as the starting point, take the overall situation and harmony as the keynote, and not overly compare and pursue superficial face. The value of red envelopes lies not only in the amount of money, but also in the hearts and blessings in them. During the Chinese New Year, we should pay more attention to emotional communication and sincere treatment between people, so as to promote social harmony and stability. This is also the deeper meaning of the Xi of red packets in society. Let's wrap our New Year's red envelopes together to bring warmth and happiness to our relatives and friends.