Preamble:
The marriage problem in the entertainment industry has always attracted much attention from the outside world, especially the marriage of the celebrity couple, which has touched the hearts of countless fans.
In recent years, what has attracted attention because of some derailment incidents is the celebrity couple Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan.
As a couple who have been together for many years, their relationship has always been affirmed, but because of the exposure of the cheating incident, their marriage has been overshadowed.
After this incident, Xu Fan's statement surprised everyone and made her the focus of public opinion.
Although Feng Xiaogang was exposed to have cheated on him, Xu Fan said that he would not divorce or choose to forgive, but would choose to "know three when three", which also made many people feel a little incredible, and some people thought that she was self-hypnotizing, but she was just unwilling to face reality.
However, Xu Fan's choice has also been understood and supported by many people, after all, this is her marriage, and she has the right to make a choice for her marriage.
1. What is Xu Fan's cleverness?
In the entertainment industry, celebrity couples who divorce because of cheating abound, but it is indeed rare to be able to cheat repeatedly like Feng Xiaogang.
And after this derailment incident was exposed, the outside world's opinion of Xu Fan was also mixed, some people felt that she was self-hypnosis, and some people felt that her statement actually had her own considerations, and this practice was also protecting herself.
It is undeniable that marriage in the entertainment industry is actually very complicated, and the problem of cheating is often not only the cause of one party, but the cooperation of both parties.
The reason why Feng Xiaogang has a derailment problem is inseparable from the atmosphere in the entertainment industry, and it also has a certain relationship with Xu Fan's career, and Xu Fan's "knowing three and being three" is actually reminding Feng Xiaogang and protecting himself.
If it really comes to the step of divorce, it will undoubtedly be a huge blow to Feng Xiaogang, and it is the same for Xu Fan, after all, so many years of feelings and dedication will come to naught.
So her approach is actually very smart, and it is also an understanding of marriage and feelings, she clearly knows that forgiveness is important, but more important is how to avoid similar things from happening again, and how to maintain this marriage.
2. Xu Fan's emotional experience.
As a first-line actress in the entertainment industry, Xu Fan has had a very outstanding performance over the years and has been highly recognized.
However, in addition to her brilliance in her career, her emotional experience is actually very colorful.
On the road of affection, she has experienced a deep emotional wound, and that is because of Wang Zhiwen.
At that time, she was just an ignorant little girl, and she had great fantasies about feelings, but in the end, she was hurt a lot because of this relationship.
And just when she was heartbroken, Feng Xiaogang's appearance gave her great encouragement and support, and also rekindled her hope for love.
It's a pity that just when they fell into the teacher-student relationship, Feng Xiaogang's derailment incident plunged their relationship into a huge crisis, and Xu Fan was also hurt a lot.
However, despite this, she still did not choose to leave, until the end, Feng Xiaogang's derailment incident also made her "smart" questioned and criticized by the outside world.
3. She is smart and persistent.
No matter what the reason, the occurrence of infidelity will have irreparable damage to marriage and relationships.
And in this relationship, Xu Fan's persistence and cleverness actually have a lot to learn from Xi.
When something similar happened again, she did not choose to leave, nor did she choose to forgive, but used her own way to influence and change Feng Xiaogang.
She clearly knows that the essence of marriage is not to forgive, nor to leave, but when two people really learn each other, marriage will become indestructible.
Therefore, after Feng Xiaogang's derailment incident is exposed, she will make a statement and take action, which is also to protect herself and this marriage.
And what we call "knowing three when three" is actually a special understanding of marriage, her cleverness is not self-hypnosis, but bravely facing reality, and also managing and maintaining this relationship with her heart.
Epilogue:
Everyone will have their own scenery and stories on the road of life.
Xu Fan, as an outstanding actress, has a very rich life experience, both in her career and emotionally.
In particular, her "knowing three things and being three" is also on the road of marriage, which has given us a very deep inspiration, and also let us have a deeper understanding of marriage and feelings.
I hope that in the future, whether in her career or in life, she can have smooth sailing, and I also hope that she can use her works to bring more surprises and touches to the audience. "