Who is in charge of a family mainly depends on whose income is higher.
In the nineteenth century, Marx concluded in Capital that the economic base determines the superstructure.
Social reality is like this, and so is a family, who has the right to speak mainly depends on who earns more money.
The stupid cousin in the south talks about her husband at every turn, and she can't figure out the east, west, north and south, mainly not because the stupid cousin in the south has a monthly income of more than 10,000 yuan, and her husband's monthly income is only 3,000 yuan, which is a big gap.
Men earn little money, so they have no confidence to speak, and they dare not be tough.
I have a classmate who works in a public institution. I found a wife who does business, and my wife is a good hand at doing business.
The wife of a classmate started selling clothes as a teenager and later opened a large shopping mall on her own.
In the 90s, when my classmate's salary was 200 yuan a month, his wife could earn tens of thousands of yuan a year. In order to make it convenient for my classmates to go to work, his wife bought a private car for my classmates, although it was not a luxury car, but the secretary of the township party committee at that time also took a Santana.
Later, with the help of his wife, the classmate was transferred back to the bureau and became the section chief. But the section chief was too busy to either hold meetings or work overtime, and his wife disliked him for being too busy with work and couldn't take care of his family, so he resigned from the post of section chief and went to an administrative class.
Under this high-pressure family planning policy, most people only gave birth to one child, my classmate gave birth to three children, a boy and two girls, do you say that the classmate's wife is powerful?
After entering 2010, the store at the student's home became a big shopping mall, and the classmate's work was also a side job.
But the family bought a Mercedes-Benz, a BMW, the villa that the son bought when he got married, and bought a BMW for the son.
The girl got married and accompanied a house and a BMW.
My classmate drove his wife at home, and she asked him to go east. He would never dare to go west, his wife asked him to pick up the dog, and he would never dare to beat the chicken.
It is said that classmates are also a talent, civil servant status, salary is guaranteed, but at home absolutely listen to the wife.
At first, my classmates Xi were not used to it, and sometimes they had an argument with their wives, but with the expansion of family property, there were a few villas and several luxury cars.
After a long time, the classmates Xi got used to it, and the classmates said, what are you talking about, you really don't have the vision to make money as her, the facts are there, what else do you say?