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My marriage to Phoenix can be said to have been unhappy from the beginning. We've been married for 10 years, but we've never had a good relationship. Phoenix has a strong personality and likes to socialize outside, often ignoring my feelings and those of my children. Although I have achieved some success in my career, I have been living in her shadow.
On the day when my son Xiaolong was about to go to elementary school, Phoenix suddenly filed for divorce from me.
"I'm really fed up with this life. Phoenix said expressionlessly, "I don't feel it anymore, so let's divorce." ”
I was shocked and outraged. "How can you do this to our marriage, to our family, don't you want to think about Xiaolong's feelings?"
"Xiaolong is still young, he will Xi it. Phoenix said confidently.
We had a big fight like that. She was sure she was going to get a divorce, and I was furious. The marriage of this decade fell apart at this moment.
"Auntie, Phoenix said she was going to divorce me. "As soon as I saw White Jasmine, I couldn't help but have red circles in my eyes.
Bai Jasmine didn't frown: "She can leave if she wants, what does it have to do with me." ”
"How can you say that?" I was a little excited, "After so many years, you treat her as your own daughter, and we have always lived with you." It's about the whole family. ”
"I let you live here for the sake of Xiaolong's face. Bai Jasmine was expressionless, "Your relationship with Phoenix has nothing to do with me." If she thinks that married life is not good, she can leave. ”
I was very sad to hear these words, and my heart was broken when my mother was so cold at this critical moment.
"Are you just watching us divorce?" My eyes widened, "You insisted that we get married in the first place, and now that it's like this, do you want to pretend to be a bystander?"
"I was here for your good. White Jasmine said with a calm face, "I don't care." You choose for yourself and solve it yourself. ”
With that, she got up and left, leaving me alone in despair. I can't believe it, is this my closest mother?
The days that followed were very painful. The phoenix moved out of the house, and I lived alone with the little dragon. I begged Jasmine to change her mind, but she still looked indifferent.
On this day, I went to work as usual, but there was a big problem on the customer's side, and a lot of things were pressing on me. I was exhausted and had a splitting headache.
"Manager Li, I don't think this plan is feasible, so I have to re-evaluate it. My employee Xiao Wang told me.
"Okay, then you can re-study it. I rubbed my temples and replied.
"Are you okay? I don't think you've been in the right shape lately. Xiao Wang asked with concern.
I barely managed to squeeze out a smile: "I'm fine, it's just that I have some personal problems." ”
At this moment, I suddenly received a call from Phoenix, saying that she had asked for the advice of a lawyer and was preparing to go through the divorce procedures next week, so that I could be mentally prepared.
I'm going crazy. When I got home, I pulled myself together and made a good dinner for Xiaolong, but I couldn't eat anything myself.
I blew up in an instant. It turned out that when we were preparing for the divorce, she already had a new love!
I called Phoenix and questioned her, and she made no denying that the man was her new boyfriend. "It has nothing to do with you anymore, I don't need to report to you in my private life. She said confidently.
As soon as I heard the word "scandal", my head "buzzed", as if I had been struck by lightning.
"What scandal? What did my mother do?" I nervously asked the man who claimed to be a journalist.
"It's Ms. White Jasmine's charity fraud scandal, and we have conclusive evidence. The man said justifiably, "She lied about the amount of her charitable donation, and we need your comment." ”
I couldn't believe my ears. White Jasmine has always been quite prestigious in high society, and often donates to various charities, so there is a suspicion of fraud?
"It can't be. I said firmly, "My mother wouldn't do such a thing." ”
"Facts are facts, and we have bank statements to prove it. The man was unyielding, "Please give your opinion on this matter." ”
I was so angry that I hung up. This is absolutely slandering my mother!
However, it soon went viral. There are reports that Bai Jasmine has directly named Bai Jasmine for misrepresenting the amount of charitable donations in a number of cases, and there is conclusive evidence that Bai Jasmine has lied about at least one million charitable donations.
My heart is like a knife. Mother's reputation for always being high was ruined in an instant. What's even more terrifying is that this scandal has involved many shady deeds in high society, dragging white jasmine deeper into the whirlpool. Soon, more misrepresentations were being made to make it seem more serious.
I immediately called White Jasmine and hoped she would explain it clearly. But her phone kept being off. I drove to her villa only to be told that she had been gone for a few days.
"Madame left with her luggage a few days ago, saying that she was going on vacation abroad. The butler replied with his head down.
Before I could ask in detail, I received a call from Phoenix, who actually offered to remarry and asked me to give her a chance.
"I figured it out, it's better to be with you. Phoenix's tone was more weak than ever.
I couldn't believe my ears. "You want to come back because your new love has abandoned you, why should I trust you anymore?" I coldly rejected her.
Hanging up, I sat alone in the car for a long time. I felt like my life was completely shattered, and my family and loved ones were avoiding me. I lived for decades and ended up with nothing.
Just when I was desperate, a month later, I suddenly received a letter from White Jasmine, with only one address on it and one line of words: "I'm fine, I'm going to live a new life." ”
"Mom!" I excitedly stepped forward and hugged her.
She waved her hand and motioned for me not to touch her. "I'm fine, I've got a new life. She said.
Only then did I notice that there were all kinds of vegetables growing in the yard, and chickens and ducks surrounded her. This is very different from her previous image of being on top.
"How did you come here?" I asked, stunned.
A relieved smile appeared on Bai Jasmine's face: "I'm tired, I want to regain the true nature of life." ”
It dawned on me that White Jasmine had voluntarily left the city life and came to the countryside to live a simple life.
We talked for a long time. She confessed to me the truth about the false declaration of charitable donations, and also expressed her boredom with the gorgeous life and her inner reflection.
I hugged my long-lost mother with great excitement, and I was speechless for a while.
White Jasmine patted me on the back gently, just like she did when she lulled me to sleep when I was a child. "Alright, son, mom is here. ”
"Mom, I really miss you. "I finally couldn't hold back my tears. At this moment, my fragile heart poured out, and nearly half a year of pain and despair turned into tears.
Bai Jasmine nodded with red eyes: "Mom misses you too, I'm really sorry, you are so miserable, but I am not by your side." ”
"You don't need to blame yourself," I said, wiping away my tears, "I understand you're in a difficult situation, too. Right now, it's important that you're well. ”
"Son, tell mom, how are you doing during this time?" White Jasmine looked at me with concern.
I told her about the difficulties and pressures in my career, as well as the pain of divorce.
"It was as if I was living in a nightmare, and everyone was away from me. I couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong. "At this point, my eyes were red again.
Bai Jasmine sighed softly: "The road of life cannot be 100% satisfactory, all we can do is to adjust our mentality." You are still young and have to learn to draw strength from setbacks. ”
I nodded, wiping away my tears: "You're right, I can't just break down like this. The little dragon still needs me. I have to pull myself together. ”
"Yes, you have to hold on. Life is still long, opportunities are everywhere, the key depends on how you grasp it. White Jasmine encouraged.
After talking to my mother, I felt a glimmer of hope. I decided to stay here for a few days and spend time with White Jasmine.
So I started to help White Jasmine with housework, chopping wood and carrying water. The long-lost labor makes me feel .
One day I was digging in the yard, and Bai Jasmine suddenly came over and said, "I've worked hard, son, let's take a break, Mom will peel an apple for you." ”
"Well, I'm hungry. "I gladly accepted.
And just like that, I had a few days of calm and fulfillment. I trimmed the vegetable garden for White Jasmine and taught her how to use a smartphone to make her life easier.
Finally, one day, I said to Jasmine Bai, "Mom, it's time for me to go." Xiaolong is still waiting for me at home, and I have to go back to take care of him. You're fine living alone, right?"
Bai Jasmine smiled and nodded: "You can go with confidence, everything is fine with Mom." Life here is simple, but it's also quite fulfilling. You have to take care of yourself and the little dragon. ”
"Definitely. "I solemnly agreed.
Before leaving, Bai Jasmine told me: "Son, you are still young and have a long life. Don't be overwhelmed by momentary setbacks. Keep hope and believe in the future. ”
I nodded reluctantly and hugged her tightly.
When I returned to the city, I first went to visit Xiaolong at school. He happily reported to me on his school performance. I am determined to make sure that my son grows up healthy and happy.
For my career, I have re-examined my positioning and adjusted the way I work. Gradually, the pressure of work has eased a bit.
As for the relationship, I can't rush to find a new love just yet, and the wounds in my heart need time to heal. But I'll open up and meet more people.
With my mother's encouragement, I rekindled my love for life and was no longer pessimistic and depressed. I cherish what I have now.
At first, I thought there was no hope in life, but now I understand that hope is everywhere and the key is how we look at it. I cry when I encounter setbacks, but I straighten my back.
Because I know that the sun on the horizon will continue to rise. I believe in the future.
After returning to the familiar city life, I often miss my mother's teachings and the simple country courtyard. It allowed me to find peace of mind.
So on weekends, I would drive the dragon to the countryside and breathe in the natural air. Little Dragons also love these wild adventures.
"I'll be going to see grandma again soon, and dad will take you there on the weekend. I said softly.
I'm also getting back to work. After much deliberation, I adjusted the way I worked, and I was no longer tired of unnecessary tasks. Clients have come to understand my choice.
"Manager Li, your new plan is very substantial and feasible!" Xiao Wang is full of praise for my new work.
"Thanks for the compliment, I've been thinking about it a lot lately. I smiled.
"You've changed a lot. "Xiao Wang keenly saw the change in me.
I nodded: "I've found a new balance." ”
In this way, inspired by my mother, I slowly adjusted my work and lifestyle, and regained my stability and contentment.
One day, Phoenix called out of the blue, saying that she had broken up and her life was a mess, and she hoped to come back and start over with me.
I calmly said to her, "I'm sorry, but I can't take it." I wish you all the best in your new life. Then he decisively hung up the phone.
Hanging up, I let out a deep breath. It turns out that I can face all this calmly.
I am no longer trapped by the pain of the past, because I know that new possibilities are always ahead.
I put my heart and soul into my work and taking care of the little dragon. I try to create a warm and beautiful environment for him to grow up.
I started to learn Xi cooking, and I worked hard to prepare nutritious and delicious meals for Xiaolong every day, so that he could grow up healthy and happy.
On weekends, I would take him to the countryside to paint and sketch together. It was our happiest time.
Sometimes I would also take him to visit White Jasmine. Xiaolong is very fond of this granny who goes with the flow.
"Grandma, can you teach me to recognize vegetables?" The little dragon blinked his big sparkling eyes and pleaded.
"Okay, grandma will teach you. White Jasmine readily agreed.
Looking at the way they chased after me, I felt inexplicably relieved and satisfied.
In this tranquil countryside, I realized the simplicity and beauty that life should have. All of this is something I have overlooked.
"Son, be content and cherish what you have. White Jasmine said.
I nodded, filled with gratitude. I understand that in the ups and downs of life, gratitude can lead us to the light.
After returning to the city, I continued to work and accompany Xiaolong in his daily life. Even though life is no longer colorful, I feel more fulfilled than I have ever felt before.
I began to introspect and reflect on myself, trying to cultivate a broad and tolerant heart. Perhaps, my life journey will be long, long, but with my mother's inspiration and the dragon by my side, I am invincible.
When I look back on my life, I no longer sigh for the regrets of the past. Because I know that the future is always worth looking forward to. We are all changing, and the journey of life is far from over.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Xiaolong is already ten years old. He became cheerful and lively, and got excellent grades. Every time I see his progress, I am very pleased.
I also gradually Xi the rhythm of living alone. I give my best at work and learn to give myself time to relax when I'm busy.
On weekdays, I actively participate in various exhibitions and sales of calligraphy and paintings, and meet some friends who have the same hobbies. I occasionally think about the past, but I've seen it very clearly.
My friends often say that I am becoming more and more sunny, and this compliment makes me feel sincerely happy.
"Manager Li, you've been in good spirits lately!" Xiao Wang met me in the company and took the initiative to say hello.
"Haha, thank you. I have recently practiced Xi and my body and mind are much better. I laughed.
"Keep it up, you're in good shape right now. Xiao Wang gave a thumbs up.
I nodded, and the thought of myself being able to make such a change was filled with gratitude.
One day, Xiaolong came home from school and told me that the school had organized a spring outing and asked him to call his parents as volunteers with the team.
"Dad, can you come? Song Song's father is here too!" Xiaolong looked at me expectantly.
"Okay, Daddy will come. I said yes without hesitation.
So on the day of the spring outing organized by the school, I deliberately adjusted my work and showed up at the meeting place on time.
"Hello Uncle Li!" Xiaolong's classmates all greeted me. I also smiled and said hello to each child.
"Dad, shall we go climb that mountain?" The little dragon took my hand, his eyes full of excitement.
"Okay, let's go together!" I rubbed his little head.
So I climbed to the top of the mountain with Xiaolong and other children, admiring the green of spring along the way. The little dragon was as happy as a little sparrow, chattering non-stop. At this moment, I felt a long-lost happiness.
After that, I will regularly take time to participate in Xiaolong's campus activities to give him the fullest company. I don't want my work to interfere with my chances of spending time with my children.
I will also take him back to the countryside to visit White Jasmine. Life there was a new experience for him.
"Grandma, I made a meat bun from the dish I picked today!" Xiaolong excitedly showed off his achievements to White Jasmine.
"That's amazing! Grandma will definitely eat a few more. White Jasmine smiled and bent her eyes.
Looking at the mother and son talking and laughing, I can't help but sigh that life should be so simple and fulfilling.
Now I am no longer bound by the past, and I am no longer worried about the future. I learned to live in the moment and enjoy every moment of life.
I am grateful to everyone who comes up in my life. They are the ones who have made the difference I am today.
The road of life is still long, and the scenery on the road is constantly changing. I used to be lost and miserable, but I was never so hopeful.
I finally understood that happiness is actually very simple, it is hidden in the bits and pieces around us. The important thing is to have a heart of gratitude and to discover the good.
At this moment, I am full of strength and courage. Because I know that in the future, I will never walk alone.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, Xiaolong has entered junior high school. For me, the life of a single father for more than a decade has not been easy, but also very fulfilling.
The little dragon becomes more independent and cheerful. He not only has excellent grades, but also has outstanding strengths in all aspects, and is recognized as a star student by teachers and classmates. Watching him grow day by day, I am sincerely relieved and proud.
"Dad, I've been admitted to the middle school for music majors!" One day, Xiaolong excitedly shared the good news with me.
"Great! Daddy knows you can do it!" I gave him a big hug.
At work, I gradually got promoted and finally became a department manager. The team members have a lot of respect for my leadership style.
"Manager Li's way of doing things is really aggressive!" Manager Li has strong work ability and cares about employees, which is great!"
Every time I hear such a comment, I smile quietly. I know that this is an outward manifestation of a change in my heart.
On weekdays, I spend time with Xiaolong. We do chores together, we play sports together. I find that being close to my children is the best part of my life.
On weekends we would also go back to the countryside to visit Jasmine. Xiaolong has had a close relationship with this simple grandmother since he was a child.
"Long Long has been admitted to the music specialty, so you have to play hard. White Jasmine reminded softly.
"I know, Grandma!" Xiaolong replied obediently.
Looking at them, I feel endless warmth. Life is happiest with the company of family members.
One day, Xiaolong told me that the school organized a spring outing for students to bring their parents.
"Dad, do you remember the time you accompanied me on a spring outing when you were in elementary school? Xiaolong's eager gaze made me unable to refuse.
So I relived the joy of accompanying my children on a spring outing. Climbing and hiking, we father and son enjoyed the beauty of nature to the fullest.
At this moment, I felt the fullness of life again. I used to be lost and miserable, but now I have found the motivation to live.
I started asking some old friends to get together and rekindle my old friendships. They all said I looked confident and energized.
"Lao Li, you have changed blood in the past ten years, and your spirit is so good!" Nori and I clinked glasses and laughed.
"Haha, thank you all for your encouragement!" I laughed too.
Life is constantly changing, and I am changing. I am no longer the confused and painful self I used to be.
With the company of my mother and children, and the encouragement of my friends, I found a new version of myself.
I finally understood that the meaning of life needs to be discovered and defined by ourselves. There will be ups and downs on the way, but the end will definitely be reached.
There is still a long way to go, and I will continue to take it one step at a time.
Because I know that the most beautiful view is still ahead.
As Xiaolong grew up, his passion for music grew. I fully support him in pursuing his music dreams and often accompany him to various competitions.
"Longlong, you're amazing!" I gave him a tight hug.
"Thank you, Dad!" Xiaolong said happily, "I can win the award this time thanks to your company and support!"
I know that every progress and growth of children comes from inner passion and perseverance. As a father, I just need to be there and encourage me all the time.
When Xiaolong graduated from junior high school, Bai Jasmine's physical condition began to weaken. I took the little dragon back to the countryside to visit more often.
"Grandma, I have been admitted to a key high school in the city, and I will definitely study hard Xi. Xiaolong said as he held the old hand of White Jasmine.
"Good boy, keep up the good work. White Jasmine looked at him warmly.
I knew that my mother was old and frail, so I stayed by her side to take care of her as much as possible.
At work, I gradually pushed the affairs to my subordinates, and took a back seat to provide guidance. You only have one life, and I don't want to repeat the lifeless busyness of the past.
That year, White Jasmine passed away. Her loss was heartbreaking to me, but I also understood that it was a certain number of life cycles.
"Mom, you can leave in peace. I will take good care of the children and live happily. I held her sallow hand and burst into tears.
I took Xiaolong to settle the future. According to White Jasmine's last wishes, she was cremated and sprinkled in her favorite mountain stream.
"Grandma, don't worry, I will definitely live a good life and give full play to my musical talents. Xiaolong choked up.
I patted him gently on the shoulder, my heart filled with sorrow. We will all miss this dear mother so much.
After that, I chose to retire. Quitting your job as a manager and starting to enjoy your own leisure time.
I regained my interest in sketching when I was younger, and embarked on a journey to visit the famous mountains and rivers of my homeland. It was an unforgettable journey.
Sometimes Xiaolong will also join me after graduating from the conservatory. Our father and son have traveled together to expand our horizons and enrich our lives.
"Dad, traveling with you is the happiest thing I can do!" Xiaolong's eyes were full of happiness.
I also deeply realized that spending time with my family is the most precious experience in life. All fame and fortune and pursuits are not as meaningful as the company of relatives.
I am glad to watch Xiaolong grow into a rookie in the music industry, full of energy in the field he loves.
And I also feel the charm of life in sketching and traveling, and find my own fun.
Life is too short, and I no longer pursue an external sense of honor. Inner satisfaction is the destination of my life in this life.
Looking back on the past, I no longer sigh for the sadness of the past. Because the most precious things in life have always been with me.
The most beautiful gift in this world is companionship and giving. I am ready to embrace every wonderful moment with a grateful and tolerant heart.
The future is still long, there is still a long way to go, and I will continue to move forward step by step.