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Xiaofang and I have been good friends since childhood, our family lives very close, and we often go to and from school together. Xiaofang is one year older than me, has a warm-hearted personality, and always takes good care of my sister, who is one year younger than her. Even though she sometimes talks a little too much, and sometimes she talks endlessly, I know it's all because she cares about me. The two of us often make an appointment to go shopping together, go to Kara, and tell each other about any troubles. I remember one time I cried the night before the final exam because I was under too much pressure to study Xi, Xiaofang hurriedly ran over to comfort me, and helped me Xi until midnight, what a good girlfriend.
Soon after marriage, I got pregnant. In the first three months of pregnancy, I vomited violently, my whole face turned yellow and white, and I lost a lot of weight, Xiao Wang was busy with work and couldn't get out, I was too hard, so I called Xiaofang for help, hoping that she could come to help me share some housework. I still remember Xiaofang's happy tone on the phone: "Miao Miao, you finally need me! Don't worry, I will definitely take good care of you and the baby, I'll come over now!"
Xiaofang worked all morning to tidy up my house. Seeing that I was a little tired, she quickly asked me to take a nap and then made a few of my favorite dishes by herself. When I woke up, I smelled the smell of the food, and my heart warmed. Since Xiaofang came to take care of me, my appetite has improved a lot, and I am no longer as dizzy as before. I woke up every day with a hot meal, and the house was kept tidy. I thanked Xiaofang from time to time, but she always smiled and said, "We are good sisters, this is how it should be, don't be polite to me!"
I finally survived the uncomfortable three months, and my abdomen gradually bulged. Xiao Fang smiled at my big belly and said, "Miao Miao, you will definitely give birth to a lovely baby! I was also amused by her: "Then I will thank you even more then!"
"Xiaofang, I'm sorry I bothered you last night. You've had a hard nighter like this, so get some sleep this morning. "I'm a little embarrassed.
"Don't say that Miao Miao, this is what I should do, you and the baby are the most important people to me. I didn't feel tired at all and was happy to be able to help!" Xiao Fang said with a smile.
I was so moved by her words that my eyes turned red. Maybe it was just a childbirth, and my mood was not very stable, so I hugged Xiaofang with tears streaming down my face. "Xiaofang, I really don't know what I would do without you, you are my best friend!"
Xiaofang was also a little excited, she touched my hair and said, "Miao Miao, don't worry if I'm here, I will always take care of your mother and son." ”
Over time, Fang became an indispensable part of my family. She put all her time and energy into helping me and even took a long leave of absence for her own work. Xiao Wang and I are very grateful to her, and it is really much easier to have her in life. I also became more and more dependent on her, and immediately approached Xiaofang if I had any needs, and gradually regarded her as a family member.
In this way, Xiaofang lived in my house for more than two or three months. She took great care of me and my baby, and I was a little flattered. For example, when I was confined, my legs were swollen severely, and Xiaofang took the initiative to help me massage my legs. At first, I was embarrassed. Xiao Fang insisted that this was a normal need, and forced her leg over me and pressed it down. I felt that her method was a bit ambiguous, not quite like an ordinary friend would do, but I didn't take this little thing to heart.
Another time, I was feeding my baby and the baby vomited all over my milk and I was in a hurry. Xiaofang carried me to the bathroom and said, "I'll wash it for you." Strange as I was, she grabbed the shower and drenched my shirt, then took off my clothes to wipe me off. I was a little wary and said, "I don't need you to wash it for me, I'll do it myself." Xiao Fang insisted: "Don't move, I'll come, soon." I felt uncomfortable for some reason.
This subtle distance felt more and more obvious, and I began to care about some of Xiaofang's overly intimate behavior, even though she seemed normal on the surface. For example, Xiaofang will take the initiative to come in and clean up the bathroom when I take a shower, and sometimes help me wipe my back; When eating, she always scooped the best part for me first; She always rubbed into my bed to talk when I went to bed, even though I had closed my eyes and pretended to be asleep.
I think it may be that I am too careful, Xiaofang just treats me as a very good girlfriend. So I didn't take it to heart, and life went on as usual. However, just the other day, a small incident happened that I couldn't ignore.
In order to confirm my guess, I tentatively said to Xiao Fang: "Xiao Fang, I think you have been so good to me for so long, it has exceeded the responsibility of a friend, and you should also take care of yourself." Why don't you go home for a few days, here are me and Xiao Wang. ”
Xiao Fang's face changed obviously, she quickly hugged my arm and said, "Don't, Miao Miao, I don't feel hard at all, it's my honor to help you! ”
I looked at her crying, and I couldn't bear to ask any more, so I just smiled and quipped: "Okay, okay, I won't really drive you away, even if I care about you, you should rest and rest." Xiao Fang breathed a sigh of relief, but there seemed to be indescribable complex emotions in her eyes.
I started to get a headache about it. Xiaofang's feelings for me have gone beyond being friends, but I can't give her the response she wants. This is no longer the mode of getting along between friends, if it continues like this, Xiaofang will only fall deeper and deeper, and I will also face great mental pressure.
Xiao Fang's expression immediately fell, and she looked at me with teary eyes: "Miao Miao, how can you say that! I have paid so much, how can you say that we are just friends!"
I nodded, and my eyes were red: "Xiaofang, you have always been my best friend." Even if we have a home in the future, we can still keep in touch often. Don't overthink it and get some rest. ”
Xiao Fang smiled reluctantly and turned back to her room. I sat where I was, unable to calm down for a long time. Xiao Fang, who has always been cheerful and lively, has hidden her emotions for so many years, and I can't find any words to describe my self-blame and distress.
In the following days, Xiaofang was obviously in a depressed mood. She no longer smiled, and her words were much less, and the whole person seemed absent-minded. She spends most of her time taking care of the baby, as if she wants to find solace in this job.
I grabbed Xiaofang's hand and asked her, "Xiaofang, what are you doing?
I stared into her eyes and instinctively felt that she was lying. I said forcefully: "Xiaofang, to be honest! This is obviously not like a good thing, what do you want to do to the baby? If he has three strengths and two weaknesses, I will never let you go!"
After hearing this, I was angry and anxious, and slapped over: "Xiaofang, you are too selfish! I actually hurt the baby for your own purposes, I really misjudged you!"
I took a deep breath, barely suppressed the anger in my heart, and said in a cold voice: "Okay Xiaofang, you go, pack up your things and leave here today, and don't appear in front of me and the baby again in the future!"
Seeing my resolute attitude, Xiaofang knew that she would not escape, so she could only wipe her tears and silently pack her luggage. I stood aside with my baby in my arms, distraught. I can't believe that my most trusted friend has come to this point.
One day, Xiao Wang told me that he met Xiao Fang on the street. He said that Xiaofang seemed to have regained her old smile and talked about her new boyfriend, and she seemed to be in good shape. After listening to this, although I still can't let go, I also feel that Xiaofang can finally start a new life, and I feel better.
In the journey of life, it is inevitable to encounter some misunderstandings and haze. The key is to be rational and tolerant. I think time will eventually heal the knots between us. Xiaofang and I will definitely be true friends again in the end.
In this way, Xiaofang and I cut off contact with each other. As the days went on, my life got back on track, and I spent the rest of my time taking care of my family wholeheartedly, except for the occasional thought of Xiaofang. It wasn't until a month later that she received a message from Xiaofang one night, saying that she wanted to see me and that she wanted to tell me in person. I hesitated, but decided to see her one last time so that both of us could be completely settled. I looked at her serious eyes and nodded slightly: "Xiaofang, thank you for understanding." In fact, I am also responsible for the things you did, and I didn't realize that your thoughts were going to your extremes earlier. We all have to end this friendship and start over. Don't worry, I won't talk about this past again, and I hope you live well. Xiao Fang took my hand with red eyes: "Miao Miao, thank you for forgiving me generously." I figured out a lot during this time, in fact, my feelings for you are abnormal, and you can't give me the response I want. I shouldn't force your company in the wrong way, it will only hurt everyone. From now on, I will face up to my own problems, and then find a suitable person to live my own life. I will always remember that you gave me the most precious friendship. "Xiaofang, I'm glad you thought about it like this. I believe that you will find your own happiness. We can't go back to the way things were, but we can still connect once in a while and live our lives. "I also had red eyes, sad and emotional. In this way, Xiaofang and I said our final goodbyes. I watched her leave, and my heart was mixed. At this moment, I suddenly missed the time when we used to talk about everything. There was no going back, but I knew that that pure friendship would remain in my heart forever. After another half a year, Xiao Wang said that he had often seen Xiao Fang sitting alone on a park bench that we frequented recently. I knew she wasn't completely at it, so I plucked up the courage to send her a message and ask her out to talk. After meeting, Xiaofang still looked preoccupied. I looked into her eyes seriously: "Xiaofang, I can see that you still haven't come out." In fact, I will be your best sister no matter what, and you don't have to have a psychological burden. We can have nothing to talk to and regain our friendship. I couldn't hold back my tears and nodded. In this way, the two of us hugged each other and cried for a long time, as if to vent the pain of this year. I know that the misunderstandings of the past will eventually be diluted by time, and the pure friendship will be slowly regained in the future.
After that, I would contact Xiaofang from time to time to talk about the current situation in life, and gradually get acquainted again. She didn't think anything about me anymore, and the relationship between the two finally returned to the state of normal old friends.
After two years like this, Xiaofang found a suitable partner and was ready to get married. She excitedly called me to tell me the good news and invited me to definitely go to her wedding. I was happy for her and agreed.
On the day of the wedding, I came to the scene in a beautiful dress, and Xiaofang came up to hug me excitedly when she saw me: "Miao Miao, you are here! I am so glad that you can participate in the most important moment of my life." I am also sincerely glad for her: "Xiaofang, congratulations on finding your own happiness, I believe that the new life must be very beautiful." ”
During the wedding, looking at the happy smile on Xiaofang's face, I couldn't help but think back to our little bits. We've had so many ups and downs, from talking about everything in our youth, to having relationships broken down due to misunderstandings, to rediscovering friendships. I'm really happy for her, and I'm glad that our friendship is finally back on track.
After the banquet, Xiao Fang found me with a little excited: "Miao Miao, thank you for coming to my wedding, this is very important to me." Actually, I was the one who hurt you selfishly and almost did something irreparable, I'm really sorry! Fortunately, we have come back to this day, and I will cherish our friendship forever to be able to share the best moments of my life together. ”
I also felt a little emotional, held her hand and said, "Xiaofang, we are all at fault, but fortunately, we woke up in time and cherished the people in front of us." Now that you've found happiness, I'm really happy. No matter what happens in the future, we will be the best friends we trust. ”
In this way, Xiaofang and I resumed our sisterly conversation and interaction. She also often brings her husband to my house as a guest, and we eat and chat together, and the atmosphere is very warm. I can feel that after all those experiences, we cherish our friendship even more.