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Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

author:Ye Tiansui
Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

Author: Du Yin Shan

Publisher: Jiangsu Phoenix Literature and Art Publishing House / Jiangsu Literature and Art Publishing House

There are 221 words of the old man's words in the book, with his ancient text and original text above, and its translation below, annotations and the author's own views and opinions from Mr. Du Yinshan, which can allow us to find some solutions and understand the truth of the old man's words

Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

Reading and making friends

Values friends and books

When you travel with friends, you must pay attention to their benefits in order to benefit

As for the words of the sages, it is necessary for me to do the same as usual, so that I can be considered to be reading

Translations

When we communicate with friends, we must learn their merits by heart, so that we can be regarded as reaping benefits; when we read the works of the ancient sages, we must practice them according to the words in the books, and only then can we truly understand the books of the sages.

Do unto others as you would have them do to you

In interpersonal communication, you should consider problems from the perspective of others, and you need to work hard to read. This sentence is also from Confucius's way of anger,

Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

A great way to deal with children and villains

Teach children to be strict, strict enough to calm irritability;

Treat the villain with respect, and respect can turn evil hearts

Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

When dealing with children, there is always a person who plays a stern role, and when dealing with a villain, only one word is respect, which can resolve the villain's hostility on the one hand, and on the other hand, it can also keep him at a distance from himself

Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

Keep your duty and determine right and wrong

Those who are good at making a living should let the elders and young be diligent in their work inside and outside the home, and do not have to enrich their families; those who are good at doing things should not approve the constitution and do not have to benefit themselves

Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

Translations

A person who is good at making ends meet only let everyone in the family abide by his duties, fulfill his or her responsibilities, and concentrate on the main business of the family, and do not have to be rich;

Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

Many of the words in the book are simple and easy to understand truths that have been passed down from ancient and modern times, and these words are from the educational character, thinking, moral cultivation, and dealing with people, dealing with friends, etc., covering all aspects of life and work.

Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

And these old people's words will also give us more cultivation, morality, ambition, and ideals, which are just like the words that are spoken now. Back to the original, it had been teleported away by these sages long ago

Listen more to the old man's words and be more sophisticated in dealing with the world, "The Fireside Night Talk is All Old Man's Words"

Not only do we have to understand their words, but we can also understand what they really mean. And the author's explanations make it easier for us to act on these words. Good things have to be learned Xi Remember a little bit every day, and the mindset will naturally change. Each discourse has an analysis, so that we can read freely and learn more Xi stimulate our own personal growth