Those who have a heart are tired; Those who have no heart, it doesn't matter.
Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, it is yourself who thinks too much and is tired, people live for a lifetime, don't embarrass yourself.
Pour out the garbage in your heart, erase the upset past from your memory, and look down on everything, how simple and how to live.
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A middle-aged man was tired of life, and in order to be relieved, he went to seek advice from a Zen master.
The Zen master didn't say anything, just asked him to carry the basket on his back and put the stones along the way into the basket.
The middle-aged man complied. After walking for a while, the stones in the basket became more and more loaded, and his shoulders became heavier and heavier.
He couldn't bear it, so he had to put the basket down.
The Zen master asked him how he felt, and he replied, "Very tired, very heavy." ”
The Zen master then taught him:
When people come to this world, the baskets they carry on their backs are empty at first, but as the number of people they meet and the things they experience gradually increase, all the engraved imprints, like those small stones, pile by pile, piece by piece, are left in their hearts.
Everyone's ability to bear is limited, and when you worry too much and worry too much, you will be overwhelmed.
Life is really difficult, if you have to carry the weight forward, it is destined to not reach the distance in your heart, it is better to let go, let go, travel lightly, and go all the way forward.
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A suffering person approached the Zen master and told him what to do if he couldn't let go of the people and things of the past.
The Zen master asked him to hold a cup, and then poured boiling water into the cup, until the moment the boiling water overflowed, the sufferer couldn't help but let go of his hand.
Painful enough, naturally able to let go.
There is a saying in "There is only one you between me and the world": The most difficult thing in life is not to have, but to let go.
The past you can't let go of is the source of your unhappiness in life.
Life is often not perfect, and people with a transparent heart know how to let go of obsessions and accept the imperfections brought by life.
Letting go is a state of mind, but also a wisdom, everything in the world is a trivial matter except for life and death.
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曼德拉曾被关押27 years,受尽abuse。
When he became president, he invited three guards who had abused him to the scene.
When Mandela stood up and respectfully saluted the guards, everyone present and the whole world fell silent.
He said:
By the time I stepped out of my cell and through the prison gates that led to freedom, I knew that if I didn't leave my grief and resentment behind, I was still in prison.
If you kick someone with your foot, you are doomed to not be able to take off and find your own world with all your heart.
No matter how big it is, tomorrow will become a story; Indulging in it will only help.
Zhou Guoping said:
"If it's painful, just because you care, the more you care, the more painful it becomes. As long as you don't care, you can't hurt a single hair. ”
If you look down on everything, you will find that the tears you have shed and the injuries you have suffered will make you stronger and stronger.
There are flowers and thorns in life, and everyone is crawling and rolling. Take off the burden of your heart and smile at the hardships of life.
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An old man who sold porcelain bowls was walking on the road with a flat pole, and suddenly a porcelain bowl fell to the ground and shattered, but the old man continued to walk forward without looking back.
When passers-by saw this, they were surprised and asked, "Why don't you look at your bowl when it is broken?" The old man replied, "No matter how much I look back, the bowl is broken." ”
Most people spend their lives suffering from what they have lost and cannot forget for a long time.
But what is lost must learn to accept, learn to let go, only staring at regrets often can not get a better future.
is like what is said in the movie "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon":
"When you clench your hands, there's nothing in them; When you open your hands, the world is in your hands. ”
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Bell has been called "the most optimistic man".
One day there was a flash flood and the water overflowed the village. Bell sat on the roof of his house and sang happily.
The neighbor rowed to his house and cried out, "Bell, your ducks have been swept away!" "It's okay, they all swim."
"Your wheat is gone." "It's okay, it's a year of poor harvest anyway."
"Oops, the water has reached the windows of your house!" "Great, I'm getting ready to scrub the windows, it's a lot easier!"
No matter how good things are, there will be a day to lose, no matter how deep the memory is, there will be a day to forget, no matter how beautiful the dream is, there will be a day to wake up, and what should be given up will never be kept, and what should be cherished will never be let go.
The days are your own, and whether you are happy or not is your own life.
May we abandon our sorrows, look forward to tomorrow, embark on the journey of the future step by step, and love life wholeheartedly.
If you are not happy, if you are not happy, then let it go, the traces of growth have given us a lot of insights and inspiration, don't let your heart be too tired.
Too much blueprint can be tiring, so why not unload it and take it easy!
Too many emotions can make people hurt, so why not let go and be romantic for just a moment!
Too many tears can make people miserable, so why not wipe them off and smile and wish you well!
People, please pour out the garbage in your heart.
Source: WeChat public account "drunk beauty song words"
Editor: Jing Chen
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