How does love happen?
From meeting each other, from the beginning to the future...... After the stages of encounter, love, lovesickness, and staying together, in the end, it is the most beautiful appearance of love.
The six stages of love in ancient poems, which stage are you in?
- Meet, love at first sight
Li Jian said: Just because I was in the crowd, I took a look at it more, and I never forgot your face.
The first time we met, I was attracted to you, just like "The Book of Songs: There is a Lesbian Car":
There is a lesbian car, Yan Ru Shunhua.
Will soar, Pei Yu Qiongju.
Bimei Meng Jiang, Xun Mei and Both.
There are female peers, Yan Ru Shunying.
Will soar, Peiyu will general.
Bimei Meng Jiang, Deyin does not forget.
Your face is like a flower, your body is like jade, and your demeanor is elegant and generous. Beautiful girl, meeting you will never be forgotten by me.
Meeting is the beginning of beautiful love, and that casual glimpse has opened a beautiful story.
- Love, sweet and sweet
After a beautiful encounter, it is time to enter the love stage, and the two people stay a little longer to see if they are suitable for each other, so the date begins.
How do two interesting men and women date? There is one of the best examples in the Book of Songs:
The Book of Poetry: The Quiet Girl
The quiet girl is in the corner of the city.
Love but not see, scratching his head and hesitating.
Quiet girl, let me care.
Tong Guan Youwei said that she was beautiful.
Self-shepherding, beautiful and different.
The bandit girl is beautiful, and the beauty is beautiful.
The woman made an appointment to meet the man at the corner of the city, but after the man arrived, he couldn't find the woman, so he scratched his ears and cheeks in a hurry. It turned out that the woman was hiding and joking with the man?
When dating in love, it is the most relaxed time for two people, and they show each other their happiest side, which is the most cute.
- Acacia, two places acacia
The ancients said that nine times out of ten, things are unsatisfactory in the world.
People who love each other, what they are most afraid of is separation, and the lovesickness between the two places is the most cone-hearted.
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Song Dynasty: Li Qingzhao
The red lotus fragrance remnants of the jade in autumn. Lightly untie Luo Shang and go on the Lanzhou alone.
Who in the clouds sent the brocade book? When the word goose returns, the moon is full in the west building.
The flowers float and the water flows freely. One lovesickness, two sorrows.
There is no way to eliminate this situation, so I frowned, but I was in my heart.
Soon after Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng got married, Zhao Mingcheng went out to travel, and Li Qingzhao, who was alone at home, missed him.
Flowers float freely, and water drifts freely. A kind of parting lovesickness, you and me, affect the sorrow of two places. Ah, what can't be discharged is - this lovesickness, this sorrow, has just disappeared from the slightly frowning eyebrows, and it is faintly entangled in the heart.
The lovesickness between lovers, like the spring grass on the plain, is endless.
- Newlywed: shy and sweet
As the saying goes: the four joys of life, after the rain, when you meet your old acquaintances, when you spend candles in the cave room, when the gold list is inscribed.
The wedding night is the most shy and sweet, just like this pair written by Zhu Qingyu:
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洞房昨夜停红烛，待晓堂前拜舅姑。
Makeup asked her husband in a low voice, and the thrush was not deep or shallow.
After the woman finished grooming, she asked her husband in a low voice, do you see that my eyebrows are painted the same as the current fashion?
The newlywed wife bowed her head, wanting to see how much tenderness.
Xu Zhimo said: The most is the gentleness of the bowed head, like a water lotus flower that is not shy.
- Stay together, ordinary life
Sanmao said: Love, if it is not implemented into the real life of dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping, it is not easy to last forever.
From passionate love to ordinary life, the two can spend time together.
The Book of Poetry: The female said that the rooster crowed
The woman said that the rooster crowed, and the priest said that it was ambiguous. Zixing looks at the night, and the stars are rotten. Will soar, and the geese will fly.
Yi Yan added, and Zi Yizhi. It is advisable to drink alcohol and grow old with children. Qin Se is in the palace, and it is good to be quiet.
Knowing the son of the son, he will give it away. Knowing the son's obedience, miscellaneous admiration to ask. Knowing the good of the son, he admires it in return.
This is the ordinary life of a pair of Orions. The man gets up early to hunt and brings back the game, and the woman cooks a delicious meal, and the two drink and sing together.
In fact, in this life, all I want is two people in a house, three meals and four seasons.
- Breakup: Things are not people
There is beautiful love in the world, and there are sad breakups.
When two people have walked for a while and find that they are not suitable for each other, a breakup becomes inevitable.
There are also some women who have been abandoned, and the saddest thing is "Hooligans":
Hooligans (excerpt)
The fall of the mulberry is yellow. Self-inferior, three-year-old food poverty. Qi water soup soup, gradually car drapery. The woman is not happy, and the gentleman is not happy. Scholars are also reckless, two or three of their virtues.
At the age of three, she was a woman and worked hard in the house. Sleep at night, and have a bright future. As for the violence. The brother didn't know, and he laughed. Quietly think about it, bow down and mourn yourself.
And you grow old, and you always make me resentful. Qi has a shore, and Xi has a pan. The banquet of the total horn, smiling and smiling. Swear by it, don't think about it. But if you don't think about it, it's already gone!
The husband and wife parted ways, reminiscing about the past like a dream.
No one's life is smooth sailing, no one's feelings are consistent from the beginning to the present, what we do is to cherish it when we have it; Don't be sorry when you lose it.
People live a lifetime, there are many things worth loving, don't be discouraged because one is not satisfied.
Love is the most gorgeous chapter in life, it brings people pleasant feelings, the happiness of being loved, and sometimes pain.
On the road of love, no matter what stage you are in, Shijun wants to tell you that when love comes, enjoy being loved; If love disappears, shake your head and leave calmly.
A mature person can enjoy beautiful love, but also calmly face the pain brought by love.
Source: WeChat public account "Classical Literature and Poetry"
Editor: Jing Chen
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