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debuted at the age of 14, became popular at the age of 18, sat firmly in TVB Hua Dan for many years, and was on an equal footing with Zhou Haimei and Zhu Yin, while her career was successful, the 40-year-old Chen Songling also married true love, and was spoiled by her little husband's family.
Chen Songling's life is really enviable, but many people don't know that behind her glamorous and glamorous is a time bomb that can ruin all the beauty of the rest of her life at any time.
That is, she can't have children, and she can't continue the incense for her only son Zhang Duo.
In order to get married smoothly, they didn't tell their mother-in-law, but the mother-in-law's biggest wish was precisely to be able to hold her grandson as soon as possible, and the paper couldn't hold the fire, and sooner or later the mother-in-law would know about it.
It is said that "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest", although her husband Zhang Duo does not dislike Chen Songling, and vows that he will love her for the rest of his life, but in the face of his mother who regards her grandson as her life, and in the face of time, can Zhang Duo really maintain Chen Songling all the time?
Now that 12 years have passed, what kind of life is Chen Songling living now, and how is her marriage to Zhang Duo now?
Inability to have children
In 2006, before the TV series "Blood is Not Cold" was broadcast, the relationship between Chen Songling and Zhang Duo, who was 8 years younger than her, was in an uproar, and many people thought that the two would not last long.
Because they not only have a large age gap, but also a little bit of value difference.
Chen Songling is a famous female artist of film and television songs in Hong Kong, China, the youth memory of a generation, who has created various classic film and television dramas and albums, and her worth can be compared with Zhang Duo's young actors.
But unexpectedly, the relationship between the two has not only been very good, but they even met their parents at the end.
Chen Songling is a rare "clean" actress in the entertainment industry, with a pair of big round eyes, a very good-looking smile, and the whole person is also approachable, and she is the ideal daughter-in-law of many mothers-in-law.
So when the mother-in-law saw that her son really brought Chen Songling home, not to mention how happy she was.
Not long after, Chen Songling "married" Zhang Duo and began to focus on the family.
At that time, the two were very affectionate every time they appeared on the scene, and everyone's opinion of the two of them changed from not optimistic at the beginning, to blessings, and then to urging the two to have children quickly.
However, every time she was asked if she had a plan to create a man, Chen Songling would be silent and her eyes would be avoided, and her husband Zhang Duo came out to explain that neither of them wanted children and insisted on Dink.
But the mother-in-law was not happy when she heard this, because their Zhang family has been passed down from generation to generation, and they are waiting for their daughter-in-law to give her a grandson, so that she can enjoy the joy of family.
The mother-in-law thought that the two didn't want children because they were afraid of affecting their lives, so the mother-in-law persuaded the two that she would take the child after it was born, and she wouldn't let the two worry about it at all.
She also said that she and her husband still have money in savings, which is completely enough to support their children.
But when it came to giving birth to a child, Chen Songling flickered, every time her son Zhang Duo stood up and spoke, and over time, her mother-in-law felt that something was wrong.
Chen Songling, who knew that she couldn't hide it, told the truth that she couldn't have children.
The mother-in-law didn't understand at first, and thought it was because Chen Songling was too old to give birth, so she persuaded the two to do IVF, only to know that Chen Songling, who looked very healthy, did not have a uterus.
Origin misery
Although Chen Songling looks like a daughter, in fact, her life experience is very miserable.
Her parents were originally in business, and when she was a child, she also had no worries about food and clothing, but her parents suddenly went bankrupt, and Chen Songling's family had to move from a large villa of several hundred square meters to a rental house of more than ten square meters.
This kind of life hit my mother the hardest, because she used to be a young lady of Qianjin, and later her living conditions were also very good, she was Xi to a rich life, how could she stand the hard life of not even being able to buy new clothes.
So Chen Songling's mother tried to make money, not only letting her husband go out to work every day, but also extending her hand to her daughter Chen Songling.
Chen Songling is not only good-looking, but also very good at singing, so her mother intended to train her, just to make her an actress so that she could make money.
In 1985, her mother signed up for the "Ye Qianwen Singing Contest" held by TVB for the 14-year-old Chen Songling, and Chen Songling directly won the championship with a song "Zero Hour and Ten Hours".
For a while, Chen Songling became a sweetheart, and many companies came to her, including not only record companies, but also film and television companies.
In this way, 16-year-old Chen Songling starred in the movie "Ghost Horse Campus", which directly blossomed in the film and television music scene, and his popularity soared.
Chen's mother saw that the investment over the years had finally paid off, so she directly asked Chen Songling to drop out of school and concentrate on entering the film and television industry, but Chen Songling was unwilling.
Because she doesn't like the profit-hungry showbiz at all, she wants to study and go to school more, and her dream is to be a doctor and teacher, she doesn't want to be a star at all, this time she won't be at the mercy of her mother anyway.
But Chen's mother finally planted a cash cow, so naturally she wouldn't just stop like this, seeing that Chen Songling was unwilling, she directly picked up a wooden stick and hit Chen Songling.
"If you don't want to today, I'll kill you!"
Seeing that her biological mother was doing this to her for money, Chen Songling was disheartened, and finally escaped from the house and ran to her godmother's house.
The godmother was very good to herself, and when she saw that she was injured, she directly reported to the police, wanting to seek justice for Chen Songling, but Chen Songling still couldn't bear her mother being punished so she didn't pursue it.
Since then, she has been living in her godmother's house, and Chen Songling has also started to pick up film and television dramas in order to repay her godmother, but she will focus on her studies.
Later, she became popular all over Hong Kong because of her participation in the female number one "golden voice" Zhou Xuan in "Tianya Singer", although she was only 18 years old at that time, she was able to show Zhou Xuan's ups and downs for decades, which shows how good her acting skills are.
However, Chen Songling's personality is still not suitable for the entertainment industry, she wanted to sing well and produce high-quality works, but her record company mainly made money and squeezed her hard.
Because Chen Songling never gave in, she was finally hidden by the company for a year.
At this time, her good friend Ah Bao, the daughter of her godmother's family, happened to set up a brokerage company, and she comforted Chen Songling, since she was unhappy with others, then follow her.
Ah Bao asked Chen Songling to sing and act well, and left other things to her to handle.
Ah Bao's words gave Chen Songling hope again, and later she reappeared in the showbiz with Ah Bao.
After that, Chen Songling was not only accepted as an apprentice by musician Liu Jiachang, and released many classic songs, but also acted with Zheng Shaoqiu and other big names, and soon returned to the top.
However, Chen Songling would not have thought that the best friend who saved her from fire and water now would push her into the bottomless abyss in the future.
Fall trough
At the beginning, Chen Songling really did a good job of filming and singing, and everything else was taken care of by Po, which made Chen Songling, who didn't like to socialize, feel relieved, and her development was getting better and better.
Her first concert, "Love to a Thousand Years Concert" was directly absent, comparable to Jacky Cheung, and she later partnered with Jacky Cheung in the musical "Snow Wolf Lake", which was in the limelight for a while.
And between 1997 and 2002, she has also been on the list of Singapore's most popular actresses, directly breaking the record of the first Hong Kong actress in Singapore's history, and her worth has also risen, and she has also made a lot of money.
It was at this time that she and Ah Bao had a disagreement, and Ah Bao became more and more in control of her career and forced her to do a lot of things, so the two had a quarrel.
But Chen Songling didn't expect that after the two quarreled, Ah Bao would directly sweep her out of the house and directly cut off her financial resources.
At that time, Chen Songling was penniless and could only stay at a friend's house, because she found that her house, car, and everything were written with Bao's name, and she couldn't even sue her.
At this time, Chen Songling knew that Ah Bao had always regarded her as a tool to make money, and all her efforts were making wedding dresses for others.
Even Ah Bao also released a rumor that she and her assistant were gay, just a rumor ruined Chen Songling's star career after sitting firmly in TVB for many years.
Originally, this incident had hit Chen Songling hard, but at this time she received the news of her father's death.
Although her mother treats her badly, her father still loves her, but now the only person who loves her is gone.
Chen Songling suffered a huge physical and mental trauma, and she couldn't recover for a while, and was finally admitted to the hospital, but her suffering was not over - she was found to have an ovarian tumor again.
Although the surgery was successful, her uterus was removed and she could no longer have children.
At that time, Chen Songling felt that the sky had fallen, he was betrayed, he had nothing, his relatives died, and he was deprived of the right to be a mother.
At that time, she also thought about suicide, but in the end she survived strongly, but she also knew that she was destined to be alone in the future, after all, who would marry a woman who could not have children?
Who knew that she met Zhang Duo at this time, a man who knew that she couldn't have children, not only did he not dislike her, but he also always thought about her.
However, being with Zhang Duo is wishful thinking, she doesn't owe him, but it's different for her mother-in-law.
The status quo today
"I think I took her away from being a grandmother, and I couldn't get over it. ”
In the end, Chen Songling confessed to her mother-in-law that she was unable to have children and expressed her guilt, but even after hearing Chen Songling's tragic experience, her mother-in-law still couldn't accept the fact that she had no grandchildren.
Since then, the mother-in-law who originally loved Chen Songling as her own daughter has changed, and she is looking for trouble with Chen Songling everywhere, Chen Songling prepares Mother's Day gifts for her, and such a kind behavior cannot be exchanged for a word of joy from her mother-in-law.
Later, Chen Songling carefully suggested that she could adopt a child, but her mother-in-law replied: "That's not my own, it's too cruel to me to call someone else's grandson grandson."
So Chen Songling's life was like walking on thin ice after that, but fortunately, her husband Zhang Duo has always defended his wife, and he thinks it's not Chen Songling's fault.
He told his mother: "You have to put yourself in Songsong's shoes, in fact, Songsong's journey has not been easy, so let's stop inflicting suffering on her." ”
Although the mother also persuaded her son to find another woman to have a child, the son still insisted on being with Chen Songling, seeing that he could not influence his son's thoughts, and the mother could only give up helplessly in the end.
Although Chen Songling has not been affirmed by her mother-in-law now, she and her husband have insisted on their marriage for more than ten years.
It can be seen that the two are still very affectionate, and Chen Songling is in a good state now, presumably her life is not sad.
postscript
"Continuing incense" occupies a great position in traditional Chinese culture, but only four words have created many women's tragic life experiences.
"Hens don't lay eggs" and "Boys can't give birth", just a few words sentence a woman to a lifetime of sin, obviously they have done nothing wrong, obviously they are so good, obviously they have the freedom not to have children.
Nowadays, in this modern country that advocates freedom and civilization, I hope that we have not only liberated women's little feet on the surface.
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