First impression: Zhou Dongqi dislikes the ugly man Lin Yongjian in every way
The moment he saw Lin Yongjian for the first time, Zhou Dongqi, who thought highly of himself, almost exclaimed. The boy in front of him, whose cheeks were hanging softly on both sides and whose nose and mouth were all squeezed in the middle of his face, could be called a model of "ugliness".
Zhou Dongqi suddenly felt a wave of disgust in his heart. She hated that iron could not be made of steel, and she felt that the aesthetics of this repertory troupe could choose such a strange-looking person as the leading actor? In her opinion, drama is first and foremost a visual art, and it needs to be flattering enough.
This boy is really far from her aesthetic standards.
Lin Yongjian also seemed to sense the contempt in her eyes, and asked her half-jokingly: "Why, you haven't seen the handsome guy me clearly?" This witty remark made Zhou Dongqi feel that he was born with incomprehensible feelings.
She couldn't bear to roll her eyes out, thinking that this man was too shameless.
Until the two began the formal rehearsal, Lin Yongjian's focused and devoted side impressed Zhou Dongqi. His rigorous and conscientious work attitude completely subverted her first impression.
Maybe looks don't represent a person's inside. Zhou Dongqi couldn't help but reflect on his superficiality just now.
But the first impression left an indelible shadow after all. Later, when Lin Yongjian took the initiative to propose to her, Zhou Dongqi was still worried about his appearance defects deep down.
She thought, "Can I really grow old with such a man?" This will also become one of the hidden dangers of the breakdown of married life in the future.
Life and death parting: The critical illness of his father prompted Lin Yongjian to propose marriage in a hurry
"Your dad is in critical condition and has entered a critical illness, come back quickly!" The hospital's phone made Lin Yongjian feel like five thunderbolts. He sat on the ground, his head in his hands, tears welling up in his eyes.
The originally energetic face lost its blood color in an instant, Lin Yongjian endured the pain, and said to Zhou Dongqi, "I'll go back immediately", and the person left in a hurry. Mixed emotions were swirling in his mind.
My father had always been a loving man, but now he was going to go before him. Lin Yongjian has a hard time accepting this fact. He also wants his father to see more about himself starting a family and living a healthy and happy life.
Reality has dealt a heavy blow, and my father's life has come to an end.
Hurried to the hospital, Lin Yongjian looked at his haggard father on the hospital bed, and his heart was like a knife. But his father was still concerned about his life's events. Lin Yongjian understood that his father was unwilling to close his eyes and not be able to see his daughter-in-law.
In the face of life and death, everything else becomes worthless. Lin Yongjian decided to be completely honest with Zhou Dongqi about his situation, even if she didn't agree, at least let his father meet him.
To his surprise, Zhou Dongqi married him without hesitation three days later.
In fact, Zhou Dongqi's heart is also very complicated. She wasn't sure if she really liked this man, but in the face of her parents' last wishes, she couldn't refuse ruthlessly.
So on the basis of fluttering love, the married life of the two began to begin.
Later, Lin Yongjian concentrated on his career and was away from home all the year round. This sloppy marriage gradually broke down under the polish of real life. The scene of life and death parting became a node for Lin Yongjian to regret, and perhaps from then on, their marriage had hidden dangers.
Marriage breakdown: Lin Yongjian is ambitious and neglects his family
Lin Yongjian is a typical person with a strong sense of dedication. His dedication to the performing arts filled the biggest part of his life. After winning the "Magnolia Award", he returned home excitedly holding the trophy, but was greeted by his wife's indifferent face.
"I'm really tired and want a divorce. This sentence was like a thunderbolt from the blue, and Lin Yongjian was stupid.
In the final analysis, the breakdown of this marriage stemmed from Lin Yongjian's excessive focus on his career and little attention to his family. He was on tour a lot, and he didn't have much time to go home.
The wife was empty and lonely at home alone, and gradually resentment and suspicion arose.
What's more, there are differences in the life concepts of the two. Zhou Dongqi wanted to improve the quality of life, but Lin Yongjian was too frugal and frugal. She has always been Xi to a privileged life, and she cannot agree with her husband's moderation, which also becomes a point of contradiction.
Lin Yongjian is a very enterprising person, which is his advantage and disadvantage. When he really achieved something, he was greeted with a cold reception at home. The failure to find a balance between career and family was an important reason for the breakdown of this marriage.
People grow through experience. After this sudden divorce crisis, Lin Yongjian realized the importance of his family to him. Since then, he has learned to make trade-offs between his acting career and family relationships, and finally embarked on the road to happiness.
Every life deserves love, which was his motto in later life.
On the verge of divorce: The two could not bear the pain of miscarriage
Soon after marriage, Zhou Dongqi was pregnant with good news. It should have been a happy thing, but after the two discussed, they made the decision to have an abortion. Because they are not ready to start a family at this juncture, they are not ready to start a family at this juncture.
It was a sunny afternoon, and Zhou Dongqi came to the hospital alone. She lay on the operating table expressionlessly, but at the moment when the doctor was about to operate, tears couldn't help but burst out of her eyes.
She has never been able to really give up her mind and say goodbye to this life that should have come to this world.
After the operation, she endured the pain of both body and mind and got on the bus home. When passing by a kindergarten, the innocent laughter of children can be heard inside.
Zhou Dongqi finally broke down and cried. She knew that she would never be able to completely forget this wrong decision in her life.
It is a pity that they did not learn anything from the lesson. Soon after, the good news that Zhou Dongqi was pregnant again seemed to be a divine joke. Because just when Lin Yongjian's career was in full swing, she suddenly miscarried during the rehearsal, which became a pimple in the hearts of the two people.
The two times the child came and went, both physically and psychologically, causing unbearable trauma for the young mother. She began to question what she had done wrong, whether God was punishing her for being too selfish, and it deepened her resentment towards her husband.
Throughout her life, she couldn't completely forget the two lives that should have been born. This has also become one of the important reasons for wanting to divorce in the future. Because every time she sees the children laughing and laughing in other people's homes, she is extremely empty and miserable.
Fortunately, God finally favored this mother who had made mistakes. Today, many years later, with a healthy and happy son, she truly feels the preciousness of life.
She was grateful from the bottom of her heart for God's favor because she gave herself a second chance to be a mother.
Learn to cherish: The birth of a son taught Lin Yongjian to value his family
"Sir, your wife has had complications during childbirth, and the baby may not ......be saved," the doctor hesitated and told the cruel truth.
Lin Yongjian's face turned pale, and he regretted that he should not have let his pregnant wife participate in so many performances.
Fortunately, they finally ushered in a miraculous little life. The birth of Lin Dajun not only saved the lives of the mother and son, but also gave this family a new lease of life that was once on the verge of breaking.
Lin Yongjian vowed to love this hard-won treasure forever.
As a friend, he patiently taught his son many life lessons. In the transfer of the program recording, Lin Dajun found that the female workers here worked harder than himself.
Lin Yongjian explained to him in detail that he should know how to be grateful and considerate of others.
In fact, Lin Yongjian is also educating himself through these things. He realized that his family and career need to be managed with care, and he can't just lose everything if he misses. He no longer allows the workaholic state and learns to enjoy every minute of family time.
Looking at the child's innocent smiling face, Lin Yongjian will recall how the two of them cried silently when his wife filed for divorce. Now, the home is full of laughter, all of which is transformed by this little life.
Lin Dajun is not only the pearl of Lin Yongjian's palm, but also the reunion point for the couple to find happiness again. Lin Yongjian learned to grasp the balance in his career and family more harmoniously, and obtained a life of both career and family.