Written by/Nagger No. 1
In 2003, when Lin Yongjian's father was terminally ill, Zhou Dongqi chose to marry him without hesitation.
It can be said that it was Zhou Dongqi who helped Lin Yongjian's father and son but regretted his life.
After marriage, Lin Yongjian became a good man and did not live up to Zhou Dongqi.
And Zhou Dongqi has also become the woman behind Lin Yongjian, and the husband and wife are accompanied by affection, which is enviable.
Now it seems that the most correct decision in Zhou Dongqi's life may be to marry Lin Yongjian without reservation.
One
In 1971, Zhou Dongqi was born in Qiqihar to a military family, and his family was relatively wealthy.
Zhou Dongqi has been pampered by his parents since he was a child, and he has also been given a lot of expectations.
Zhou Dongqi has always been very sensible and obedient, never let his parents worry, and his academic performance has always been very good.
After growing up, Zhou Dongqi was admitted to the Chinese People's Liberation Army Art Academy and began to walk towards the road of art.
Zhou Dongqi's acting road has been very smooth, and he has not suffered too much, and after graduation, he entered the Kong Zheng Repertory Theater as an actor.
With her beautiful appearance, she began to participate in the movie "The Day I Left Lei Feng" in 1995 and officially broke into the entertainment industry.
Since then, Zhou Dongqi has successively participated in film and television dramas such as "Criminal Police Zhang Yugui", "Conscience of Heaven and Earth", "Anti-Smuggling Case Team" and so on.
Zhou Dongqi began to gain a firm foothold in the entertainment industry, and her career began to move forward steadily.
In 2002, Zhou Dongqi participated in the TV series "Ten Years of Marriage", and she also met Lin Yongjian that year.
Lin Yongjian is 2 years older than Zhou Dongqi and was born in an ordinary family in Qingdao,
After graduating from high school, Lin Yongjian became a worker, but he always had a dream of being an actor in his heart.
Until 1986, with the encouragement of his sister, Lin Yongjian was admitted to the Qingdao Repertory Theater and began to change the trajectory of his life.
Although Lin Yongjian is not good-looking, he is very talented, can act and write scripts, and is very popular with the leaders of the troupe.
In 1989, Lin Yongjian entered the Guangzhou Military Region Soldier Repertory Troupe as an actor, during which time he was depressed.
Unlike Zhou Dongqi, who had a drama filming just after his debut, Lin Yongjian ran a dragon trap in the repertory troupe for 8 years.
It wasn't until 1997 that Lin Yongjian finally waited for an opportunity.
When he was performing on stage, he was invited by director Li Shuxiang to participate in the TV series "Peacetime", playing a small Guangdong boss.
With this role, Lin Yongjian was nominated for the "Feitian Award" for Best Supporting Actor in one fell swoop, and began to officially break into the entertainment industry.
Although he has participated in film and television dramas, Lin Yongjian's acting career is still not satisfactory, but he is not willing to easily compromise and admit defeat.
In 2000, Lin Yongjian, who had transferred from the army, went to Beijing alone to become a northern drifter.
During this period, Lin Yongjian has been submitting resumes to various crews, but has been rejected.
Later, with the help of Wu Jun, Lin Yongjian participated in "Merry Talent Ji Xiaolan", playing "He Jizi".
Immediately afterwards, Lin Yongjian played the role of Lu Zhuo in "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan 2".
At that time, Lin Yongjian saw the hope of continuing to be an actor, and in order to improve his acting skills, he applied for the Chinese opera training class.
In 2002, Lin Yongjian entered the Kong Zheng Repertory Troupe and met Zhou Dongqi here, and the two formed a fate.
Unlike Lin Yongjian, who has small eyes and is not handsome, Zhou Dongqi is a famous beauty in the drama troupe, and the other beauty is Yan Ni.
Although Zhou Dongqi and Lin Yongjian belong to the same unit, the two did not have any intersection at first.
The first time they met was because the two were going to rehearse a show together, and Lin Yongjian's humor left a deep impression on Zhou Dongqi.
When Lin Yongjian saw Zhou Dongqi for the first time, he joked: "Hello, my name is Lin Yongjian, I have never seen someone as handsome as me, have you?" ”
Zhou Dongqi was directly amused by Lin Yongjian's words, and the two gradually became very good friends.
After that, Zhou Dongqi took Yan Ni to often party and eat with Lin Yongjian, and the three had a very good relationship.
Once, Yan Ni looked at Zhou Dongqi and Lin Yongjian, and joked casually: "You are both single, just make do with it."
Unexpectedly, Yan Ni's joke actually made the two silently start paying attention to each other in their hearts.
Two
Because Lin Yongjian has lived in Guangzhou for many years, he has the habit of going out for a late-night snack.
Therefore, after Lin Yongjian got acquainted with Zhou Dongqi and Yan Ni, he often asked them out for a late-night snack.
Yan Ni was reluctant to go out because she was afraid of fat, and every time Zhou Dongqi accompanied him out for a late-night snack.
Moreover, Lin Yongjian is particularly generous to his friends, and he takes the initiative to pay for every late-night snack, but he is particularly critical of himself.
Over time, the relationship between the two became more and more intimate, but they did not directly develop a relationship with each other.
Even, Zhou Dongqi also introduced Lin Yongjian to his good friend, but the friend did not agree.
The friend said to Zhou Dongqi: "Sister, I can listen to you about anything, but this matter can't be done." The man was so ugly that he couldn't live with him. ”
What Zhou Dongqi didn't expect was that Lin Yongjian, who was not favored by his friends, would come together with him.
One day in 2003, Lin Yongjian suddenly learned the news that his father was ill, and his condition was already in an advanced stage, and time was running out.
His father's biggest wish in life was to see Lin Yongjian get married and start a family, so Lin Yongjian decided to fulfill his father's wish.
On the occasion of his death, his father said to Lin Yongjian: "Yongjian, I know my body, time is running out, but I also have one more wish, I want to watch you start a family, otherwise, I am not at ease." ”
Lin Yongjian thought quickly in his mind, and finally thought of the most suitable candidate, that is, Zhou Dongqi.
So, Lin Yongjian hurriedly returned to Beijing and asked Zhou Dongqi to go out for a late-night snack.
Eating and eating, Lin Yongjian has always been preoccupied, and was discovered by the careful Zhou Dongqi and asked him what happened.
Therefore, Lin Yongjian directly confessed to Zhou Dongqi: "We both live in a single dormitory, we are both old and not small, so let's make do with it." ”
Zhou Dongqi was a little surprised after listening to Lin Yongjian's words, and finally learned about his father's illness.
So, Zhou Dongqi asked Lin Yongjian: "Are you serious?" ”
Lin Yongjian said very seriously and sincerely: "I am serious, if I can, I will definitely be good to you." ”
After Zhou Dongqi finished speaking, he directly agreed to Lin Yongjian, and decided to go to get the certificate the next day, and then go to visit Lin Yongjian's father together.
On January 8, 2003, after the two obtained their marriage certificate, Lin Yongjian decided to hold a wedding in his father's ward, and Zhou Dongqi agreed.
So, the two held a special and simple wedding in Lin Yongjian's father's ward, and Zhou Dongqi called "Dad" affectionately, and the scene was simple and touching.
Shortly after getting married, Lin Yongjian's father died of illness, which also became an eternal pain in his heart.
But it is gratifying that at least his father did not leave with regrets and saw the moment when Lin Yongjian and Zhou Dongqi got married.
After dealing with his father's aftermath, Lin Yong only had 30,000 yuan on his fitness, and said to Zhou Dongqi guiltily:
"Thank you, in the future, you have the final say at home, I will be good to you, this is all my family possessions, I will work hard to let you live a good life."
And Zhou Dongqi responded: "It's okay, you just work hard, we spend less if we have less money, and we don't spend it if we don't have money." ”
Zhou Dongqi's reasonableness also moved Lin Yongjian very much, and he vowed in his heart to be good to Zhou Dongqi for the rest of his life.
Three
Because the two got married in a hurry, they were married first and then in love, and they experienced a period of running-in with each other.
Lin Yongjian is very generous to his friends, but he is a very economical person in life and has always been meticulous.
Zhou Dongqi and Lin Yongjian have also had conflicts and quarrels because of their different consumption concepts, and even divorced several times.
Once, Zhou Dongqi spent 500 yuan to buy Lin Yongjian a pair of shoes, Lin Yongjian was very angry, and the two had a big fight.
However, after the two calmed down, they found that they still loved each other deeply, and gradually became much more mature and stable.
Later, Lin Yongjian worked hard to film, and gradually counterattacked to become a good actor familiar to the audience, and his career was thriving.
Although his acting career is getting better and better, Lin Yongjian is still very diligent and simple in life.
"Since I was a child, I have been accustomed to a hard life, and I can't live a big life."
Although Lin Yongjian is thrifty in life, he is very generous to his relatives and friends, and he is also very filial to his parents-in-law.
"I take care of my parents-in-law as if they were biological parents."
Zhou Dongqi's younger brother is going to study abroad, and Zhou Dongqi is worried that his parents live in his hometown in Shenyang, worried that they will not take care of them.
So Lin Yongjian took the initiative to say to Zhou Dongqi: "Bring your parents to live in Beijing." ”
However, at that time, the couple had no place to live, and Lin Yongjian had no money at that time, but he still managed to buy a second-hand house for his parents-in-law to live in.
On normal days, Lin Yongjian will often visit his parents-in-law and take care of them considerately.
Lin Yongjian said to his parents-in-law: "You can enjoy happiness with peace of mind, my biggest regret is that I failed to honor my father, I want to make up for this regret on you and honor you well." ”
Although their marriage is relatively happy and stable, they have irreparable regrets.
Not long after getting married, Zhou Dongqi became pregnant, but at that time, because the family only had 30,000 yuan, it cost 10,000 yuan to have a child.
Therefore, because of economic conditions, the two did not have this child.
After a few years, Lin Yongjian became famous, the family's financial conditions also improved, and the two began to decide to have children again.
After that, Zhou Dongqi became pregnant, and the two looked forward to the arrival of the child together.
But what the two didn't expect was that when the two rehearsed the Spring Festival Gala sketch "Collision" in 2008, Zhou Dongqi suddenly miscarried.
At that time, it was only 5 days before the program was broadcast, and this incident hit the two of them greatly, but they still endured their grief and performed on stage.
During the New Year, the two held a headache and cried, which can be described as painful.
That year, Zhou Dongqi was 37 years old.
After experiencing the pain of losing their child, Zhou Dongqi and Lin Yongjian began to long for a child of their own.
Until 2010, Zhou Dongqi became pregnant again, this time the couple was excited but extra cautious.
Friends knew that Zhou Dongqi had suffered a lot in order to have a child, so they came to visit her and bless her.
On the day of delivery, many friends gathered in the hospital waiting and joked:
"You can't let Lin Yongjian be the first to see, it is said that whoever is the first to see who is like whom."
In 2010, Zhou Dongqi finally gave birth to a healthy son, named Lin Dajun, and the two finally fulfilled a wish.
Since then, the life of the family of three has become happy and happy.
That year, Zhou Dongqi was 39 years old.
After having a son, Zhou Dongqi began to feel at ease at home with his husband and son, reducing the time for filming.
In order to help Zhou Dongqi reduce the burden, Lin Yongjian took his mother to Beijing to help take care of the child.
Lin Yongjian's mother has inconvenient legs and feet, and her health is not good, so most of the time Zhou Dongqi is taking care of her children and mother-in-law.
Comparing his heart to his heart, Zhou Dongqi is also very filial to his mother-in-law, treating her as her own mother, and the family lives a good life in harmony.
With the passage of time, his son Lin Dajun also gradually grew up, and he was a very sensible and obedient good child.
Now, the two have been married for 20 years, have never had any scandals, shared happiness and hardships with each other, and now they have finally come to the end.
And Zhou Dongqi, who chose to marry Lin Yongjian without hesitation, finally got his wish and gained happiness and gambled on love.