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Zhao Liying just took a sip of water, and in the eyes of some people, she "changed her meaning";
Yang Mi just sang and danced in a sundress, in the eyes of some people, just to "please them";
Liu Yan is just in good shape, so he will be used as a "joke" by his "friends";
Two girls in Shanghai were just waiting for the bus when they were verbally harassed by three men:
"5,000 yuan, how about we be your boyfriend for half a day? Boyfriend should do what he should do, how about it?"
I don't know when a girl dresses up a little, and in some people's eyes, she will always feel that the other party is for them to see, so she is like this, and she will rely on the Internet between the two to make a big fuss.
I thought that this kind of person was just talking hi on the Internet, but I didn't expect it to really exist in real life.
The two girls were just waiting on the side of the road to take a taxi, and they were verbally harassed by three men: Give you 5,000 yuan, w until tomorrow morning.
It is impossible to imagine what kind of qualities and morals would make them ask this sentence so naturally.
It may seem to them that they just want to make friends, but when the girl involved posted the video on the Internet, it had already caused the intervention of the local police, so they were more likely to face the corresponding punishment.
So what's going on, and when will the victim guilt theory be put to rest?
Unexpectedly, in the brightly lit streets of Shanghai, how could anyone dare to be so rampant?
According to a Jimu News report, on December 10, at half past nine in the evening, a woman was waiting for the car after eating with friends, but as soon as the passing man came up and asked: Do you want to play for 5,000 yuan?
This sudden scene made the woman stunned, so she asked: What do you mean? What are you playing? But the other party's next words surprised her!
"How about me being your boyfriend for half a day?"
"Where are you going?"
"You don't have to care, from now until tomorrow morning, when you have a boyfriend for so long, your boyfriend will do what he should do, and he will also take the responsibility"
After understanding what the other party meant, the woman asked if they were from Shanghai, but the other party didn't answer, but just emphasized that one person was 5,000 yuan, and asked her how she was?
After hearing this, the girl angrily said, "Don't be embarrassed here, okay?"
After hearing the girl's words, the three men burst into laughter and left.
Seeing this, Dousha's head couldn't help but slowly pop three ???What are they laughing at?Do they really think that their behavior is very deserved?
In fact, this kind of behavior is not just a simple verbal offense, but a blatant violation of women's dignity and rights.
So the girl who happened chose to expose this incident, not only to get an apology from the other party, but also to hope that all the girls who were scolded could come forward and no longer be silent.
However, what the girl didn't expect was that when the video was exposed, she suffered a "second injury".
"If you don't play, you won't play, why bother with it", "The main reason is that the girl's answer in the video is also very frivolous, and she asks where to play"
"Listen to the tone, this woman has a little meaning, the money is not hesitant enough, you give 20,000 to try"
"This brother is not authentic and maliciously inflats the price"
Empathy is probably the biggest lie in the world, and you never know what it's like if you haven't experienced the other person's experiences and feelings.
If it were a friend, a relative, a daughter, a girlfriend or even a wife of this group of people who were insulted like this, I don't know how they would feel.
On the brightly lit streets, there can still be a set of "victim harmfulness theory" for this kind of thing, maybe it is really the Internet that saved them.
And when the incident girl saw these comments, she also clarified it as soon as possible.
The girl explained that she had actually encountered this kind of thing as early as elementary school, so she hated it very much, and she continued to talk to them because she wanted to keep the evidence, and she was in a hurry to go home on the day of the incident, so she did not call the police immediately.
In her opinion, girls are free to dress, no matter what they wear, what makeup they wear, whether they wear stockings or not, they are all her freedom.
But this should not be a reason for netizens to evaluate women, which is unfair.
After the incident fermented, the local police station has also noticed and intervened, and is now verifying the matter.
According to the original video provided by the girl, the police should be able to determine the identities of these three people soon, so what exactly did they do to suspect XSR, and what kind of punishment might they face?
According to the People's Daily, the following behaviors belong to XSR:
1. Being repeatedly stared at by the other person on sensitive parts of the body;
2. The other party sends X information;
3. Dialogue or abusive use of X content;
4. X exchange for promotions or money, etc.;
5. Committing lewd acts.
Verbal insulting of women in public is an illegal act in violation of the Public Security Administration Punishment Law, and if the verbal harassment of women is serious, it may constitute the crime of wx women.
According to Article 237 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China, a woman shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than five years or criminal detention.
There may also be people who defend them by saying "it's just a joke", there is a limit to everything, and what makes others happy is a joke, and after that, it becomes an offense, or even an SR.
Furthermore, the victim is harmed not because they wear less, let alone because they are beautiful, and any attempt to find a cause in the victim is secondary injury.
When encountering such incidents, what we bystanders can do is to support and help these people who have the courage to speak out, instead of letting their "speaking out" become a secondary injury.
Respecting the victim's feelings and not thinking that they are making a fuss or making a fuss is what we should do, rather than blaming the victim for the harm.
"You can hide in a corner and choose silence, but don't ridicule or even denigrate those who are braver than you, because the light they have won will also shine on you. If I look on coldly today, and he will come to me day by day, no one will raise my flag and shout for me. ”
So this is not just a matter of this girl alone, but all those who may encounter such incidents should be concerned.
And in real life, not only ordinary people, but even celebrities have to experience similar things.
In 2008, in order to treat her mother's rectal cancer, Liu Yan accepted the invitation of a magazine to take a set of fashion photos, but she didn't expect to be labeled as "labeled" after that.
In 2011, Liu Yan covered his body with sheets and long hair;
In 2013, in "The Four Famous Catches", Liu Yan boldly left the country again.
Ever since she became popular in this area, this kind of work has come to her door.
In 2015, Liu Yan confided in Dapeng's "Pancake Man":
"I don't remember when we first debuted, we were tired and tired every day, and we refused to let go of an opportunity, we hoped that one day we could get ahead and not be broken up by this city, and then many people really knew me, but they always said that I, Liu Yan, I don't know anything, I will only borrow my body to w"
Maybe that's the price of fame!
In addition to Liu Yan, most female celebrities will also encounter similar evaluations, when Di Lieba covers his chest every time he wears a sundress, there will be remarks similar to "I wear it all, and I am afraid of being seen".
This kind of person will never realize that dressing sexy is not contrary to preventing going naked, and after taking a group photo or going on stage, Di Lieba will always show his beauty generously.
But when you walk or bend over, why can't you cover it? In the face of a situation where you may walk away, you don't stop it, this is disrespectful and irresponsible to yourself, right?
And when Yang Mi was wearing a sundress inside and dancing with a coat outside, he would be evaluated: Yang Mi is so good, he immediately shook up when he saw the camera coming.
Is it true that when you wear a sundress, you don't even have the right to sing and dance? Even the most basic swing has to be judged?
Maybe it's because of different experiences, maybe it's because of different education, maybe it's because of different concepts, that's why some people have this kind of thought, but even so, please keep it in your heart, because whether it's staring or making this kind of speech, it's a kind of disrespect and wr for the person concerned.
Xi beautiful things are human nature, but we must pay attention to grasp the scale, if you just look at it with appreciation, then there is nothing to blame, after all, it is human nature.
But if you keep staring, commenting, and even stepping forward to talk and say something disrespectful, then you are already suspected of SR.
I hope that after this incident, it can remind everyone that no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, in the event of this kind of incident, you must keep the evidence and immediately call the police.
What do you think about this? Have you ever had a similar experience? Welcome to leave a message to discuss!