Ren Suxi is drunk and crying, exposing the truth about the relationship between adult children and their parents

The only domestic drama that is being chased recently is "Hometown, Don't Come to Harm" produced by Goose Factory.

Similar to the Taiwanese drama "Lifetime" introduced a few days ago, it is also a homecoming theme, but it has a completely different taste.

One is Taipei with a soft and waxy tone, and the other is Chengdu with spicy and fragrant fragrance.

After many years away from their hometown, the four sisters were reunited in the city of abundance.

Directed by Peng Chen and Wang Guang, starring Ren Suxi, Li Xueqin, Shi Ce, and Wang Zixuan.

This drama belongs to the slow-burning type, the beginning is a bit flat, the more you watch it, the more durable it becomes, and the kind of homely drama with a long aftertaste.

True, natural, down-to-earth, eloquent, and gradually getting better, just like the "Four King Kongs of Tianfu", the wine of friendship, through the fermentation of the years, it has become more and more mellow and fragrant.

Ren Suxi is the biggest highlight, this acting skills, one second into the play.

Zhang Pei, who she plays, is a Chengdu girl who drifts north.

I am an insurance broker, and I don't pursue top-notch, but I do a good job.

Ranked sixth in the company and put together a down payment for a small house in the capital.

Although Zhang Pei has been able to take charge of herself in the big city, in the eyes of her parents, she has always been a child, and she sends her some delicious food from time to time.

The big plums sent last time were already spoiled in the refrigerator, and this time Zhang Pei's mother had to make a cold rabbit and send it to her.

Zhang Pei asked his mother not to send it, but his mother wanted to send it, this suffocating maternal love! Zhang Pei didn't move, just said that you can send it if you love it.

changed hands and sent a circle of friends:

"A harmonious family relationship requires a distance, and the most suitable distance in my heart is probably the distance from Beijing to Chengdu. ”

Parents were deliberately blocked.

This scene, this small action, déjà vu, how familiar, I believe many young friends have had similar small operations.

The group wants to open a branch in Chengdu, and the leader plans to send Zhang Pei over, Zhang Pei is a native of Chengdu, and he used to be the person in charge and the general manager of the branch.

But Zhang Pei plans to put down roots in Beijing, has just bought a house and paid a down payment, and has no plans to return to his hometown.

The leader's words are also reasonable, Zhang Pei is single and unmarried, and he has nothing to worry about, even if he buys a house, it is not a home. Seize this opportunity, expand your career, and go to the next level.

Having said that, Zhang Pei didn't think about going back to Chengdu, when something suddenly happened that made her change her mind.

A good friend of Zhang Pei, who is also an independent woman, lives alone, died of a heart attack in his own home, the previous joke was a prophecy, the elderly parents came to Beijing to deal with the funeral, and the white-haired people sent the black-haired people, how a sad word was the scene.

The death of her friend had a great impact on Zhang Pei, who had always been strong, and she began to re-examine her situation.

In the end, Zhang Pei decided to follow the advice of his leadership and return to work in Chengdu, but retained his personnel relations in Beijing.

I didn't tell my parents the news in advance, and I quietly returned to my hometown, but my parents were not there, and it turned out that the old couple went to Pixian County to play mahjong.

Zhang Pei, who met with his former friends and drank a few more glasses, came home drunk, saw the broken sofa at home, and his parents used bald toothbrush heads, remembering that he bought an electric toothbrush for his parents for his filial piety, but forgot to change the toothbrush head.

I saw my mother's account book again, and I was careful about firewood, rice, oil and salt, but I planned to sell the house in Chengdu to change to a small house and repay the mortgage for Peipei 1.5 million.

Zhang Pei felt a sour feeling in his heart, crying so much that he took advantage of this alcohol strength to express her guilt to his parents, and the words that he couldn't say on weekdays broke through the defense line because of drunkenness, and blurted out.

Zhang Pei cried as she spoke, and even said that her mother was crying, and her father also wiped her tears on the side.

Thinking of the early death of his friend, Zhang Pei said that he would live to be 100 years old in order to reassure his parents.

This scene is really funny and crying.

After this crying scene, will Zhang Pei and her parents be able to eliminate the estrangement and love each other from now on?

Not really.

How simple is real life?

The next day, this adult-style parent-child conflict, everything returned to its original state.

Zhang Pei went to the toilet, and her mother pushed the door and came in, despite Zhang Pei's protests.

Zhang Pei's resume was soon hung on the marriage wall, and of course it was her mother's masterpiece.

The express delivery sent to her home was also opened by her mother without permission, and she helped her throw the express packing box.

The daily life of being closely watched by his parents and having no privacy in those youthful years was staged again when Zhang Pei was thirty-three years old and returned to his hometown after working hard for many years.

The appropriate distance required for a harmonious family relationship in Zhang Pei's mouth was broken in this way, and it returned to zero distance overnight.

However, the table full of delicious breakfasts prepared by my mother early in the morning, I slept until dawn, and my mother woke up when I woke up, and the warmth of my parents by my side was appropriate, and at the same time I returned to Zhang Pei's life.

The relationship between adult children and their parents is actually very delicate, and there are many differences in concepts between the two generations, too close, contradictions are reborn, too far away, and they cannot be taken care of.

After Zhang Pei returned to her hometown, she devoted herself to work, while her mother was worried about her marriage and thought that she should do something at what age. Zhang Pei is in her thirties and is still single, and her mother said that she can't help but suspect that something is wrong with Zhang Pei's education.

Zhang Pei is in the insurance industry, and insurance broker is a highly recognized profession in a metropolis like Beijing, but in the environment of Chengdu, many people not only do not understand this profession, but also have prejudices. For example, Zhang Pei's father doesn't understand his daughter very much: What do you want, isn't it just to sell insurance?

In the past, Zhang Peiyuan was in Beijing, and this kind of incomprehension, separated by the distance between Beijing and Chengdu, was suspended between Zhang Pei and his parents, but now the physical distance has suddenly shortened, and it has become an inevitable conflict in the real situation.

But it is precisely because of the sudden shortening of the distance that the parents have the opportunity to witness Zhang Pei's state at work, and see the sincere gratitude of the people Zhang Pei helps, that they have a better understanding of their daughter's career and ideals.

Zhang Pei's return to her hometown and the shortening of the distance between each other gave her more possibilities for communication and understanding with her parents.

Zhang Pei has both the grievances and resistance of his parents interfering in the process of growing up, and the guilt of not taking good care of his parents for many years.

Parents not only have the stubbornness of not respecting their children enough and imposing their own values on their children, but also have the intention of being a parent who lives frugally and saves money to help their children.

Chinese family relationships, especially the relationship between parents and children, are relatively subtle in emotional expression, and true affection is difficult to say directly, but blame, complain, and nagging words come as soon as they open their mouths.

Although the mouth is hard, there is a strong family affection in the heart, not a lot at all, but there is a lack of some kind of benign communication.

Zhang Pei usually dislikes her parents' excessive interference in her, but in her heart, she is still grateful to her parents for their dedication to her and apologizes for her inconsiderateness. A drunken cry made her break the face that she couldn't erase under normal circumstances, and expressed her true heart for her parents.

Later, Zhang Pei's parents were able to realize their mistakes against Zhang Pei and sincerely apologize to their daughter, which is beyond the level of many Chinese parents.

Gou Dandan, played by Shi Ce, is a glamorous female anchor.

With a bumper harvest in love and career, she is the pride of her parents and the capital to show off in front of others.

She has always reported good news to her parents but not bad news, but when she suddenly suffered betrayal and death from her husband, she lost her superior position overnight, and when she can no longer return to her hometown, how will she return to this hometown? How will she face her parents who have high hopes for her?

Dong Jiaxi, played by Wang Zixuan, is a daughter cultivated by a typical single-parent family. Her mother, Mr. Ding, disciplined her very strictly, and even her major in college was changed to accounting by Mr. Ding.

She loves literature and art, so she can only secretly go behind her mother's back, and change her favorite drama and literature major to graduate school, and only dare to tell the truth to her mother when she is about to graduate from the big play.

But as soon as her journey to pursue her dream in the theater circle began, she was hit by reality, doing odd jobs in a small theater, and finally encountered an opportunity, but her trusted colleagues plagiarized her ideas.

Upon learning the news that Mr. Ding was suffering from cancer, Dong Jiaxi had to give up his job in Beijing and return to Chengdu to take care of his mother. On the one hand, she wants to defend her hobbies and dreams, on the other hand, she wants to be filial to her mother and earn money to buy medicine for her mother.

Wu Yun, played by Li Xueqin, came to her second hometown Chengdu from the northeast and was admitted to the clerk position of the street office, working in the grassroots post safely.

Wu Yun is a public exam, and she is doing a job that is very in line with the values of the older generation, and she is also the most harmonious one among the four heroines who have no contradictions and conflicts with their families.

In addition to showing the family relationship between the four girls and their parents, "Hometown, Don't Come to Harm" focuses more on the friendship between them that has lasted for decades, and at the same time gradually spreads out four love lines.

Zhang Pei's classmates are interspersed with some very realistic episodes, the reunion of classmates after many years, the bitterness and helplessness of middle-aged people, the changes and impermanence of life, the bonds between family members, and the sincere friendship between friends, which are very natural and real and touching.

This drama is a bit flat at first glance, but as more plots and details unfold, the characters in it become more and more familiar and affectionate, until they seem to become your friends, and you will also vaguely see the shadows of friends and relatives around you from them.

All in all, this is a drama that is eloquent and more intimate and comfortable, and it is recommended four stars.