Is Jin Sha "Xu Qin in the entertainment industry"? The official announced that her boyfriend was 19 years younger than her, and he chased her by cooking

I have seen more female stars who have officially announced their love, and I have also seen more female stars who talk about sister and brother love; But after the official announcement of the sister-brother relationship, the female star who was unanimously shouted by netizens to "run away", Jin Sha may be the first one.

On November 3, 42-year-old Jin Sha officially announced her 23-year-old boyfriend Sun Chengxiao on Weibo, which sparked heated discussions among netizens. Subsequently, the variety show "School Trip of Love" jointly recorded by the two was broadcast in a lively atmosphere of eating melons on the whole network, and the first episode was just finished, and there were several hot searches. And these hot searches, without exception, are all about the relationship between Jinsha and her little boyfriend.

After reading the first issue, you can understand why everyone is so unkind to see Jinsha's little boyfriend. His performance in the show is really embarrassing in every sense.

It's true that I don't want to go to work

Everyone's most consistent evaluation of Jinsha's little boyfriend is the three words "pretending to be innocent". After the show was broadcast, #金莎男友 pretending to be naïve# This hot search directly rushed to the first place on the hot search list.

When he first appeared on the show, he focused on being at a loss and ignorant. The eyes are shy, the body is stiff, the hands are tightly pinching the corners of the clothes, and the person is about to shrink behind Jinsha.

During the recording, the communication status with other guests is always the character of a shy and flustered little boy, and Jinsha and his way of getting along are always her kind encouragement and he is trembling.

Not only that, in addition to panicking, Sun Chengxiao is also trying to stand up for a fool character with heavy performance traces. The program invited emotional experts to help CPs analyze the cognitive misalignment in the relationship, and asked everyone if they felt that there was a difference between their self-perception and others.

The innocent Jinsha little boyfriend twisted his tangled brows and began to speak in confusion: "I look in the mirror and see that my face is a little pouty, and I feel a little fat." ”

is so embarrassing, such a deliberate and mentally retarded way to sell cuteness, it can make Jinsha super happy, and laugh directly until her face is discolored.

You call him stupid, he pretends to be too obvious; You say he's not stupid, acting like a fool like this, and he really doesn't seem to have any brains. So much so that some netizens ridiculed him as "Lu Xiaokui's second".

But in fact, in the show, Jin Sha talked about the first meeting between the two, and she met her current little boyfriend at a dinner saved by the editor-in-chief of the magazine. This story is very intriguing - a college student can participate in the dinner of the editor-in-chief of the magazine before graduation, and he can also meet a female star like Jin Sha, if he says that he has no emotional intelligence and no intelligence, everyone will not believe it.

Some netizens posted a comparison between the variety show photos and selfies of their little boyfriend, saying that compared with the innocent little boy who was panicked and confused in the variety show, the photo with firm and dragged eyes and expressions was the real him in private.

After all, he has not yet had a few Weibo followers, and he has already hung up his business contact information in his profile. This kind of eagerness and shrewdness is a little clumsy to eat, it really makes netizens happy, and if you get a little bonus, you really don't want to go to work all day, right!

Maybe netizens can see it through - Jin Sha just wants to marry Sun Chengxiao, and Sun Chengxiao just wants to enter the entertainment industry. Everyone has seen too many examples of female celebrities breaking down their relationships after bringing traffic to male amateurs, so I can only hope that Jinsha will not become the next one.

I can't see his love, I can only see the traces of his performance

Another point that everyone looks at Jinsha's boyfriend is that from the perspective of Jinsha's relationship with him, the relationship between the two is unbalanced. On the one hand, Jin Sha's care is warm, and on the other hand, Sun Chengxiao's giant baby mode of enjoying love, so how wrong this relationship is, and it is even ridiculed as "mother-son love".

In the preparation session of "Love's Study Trip", when the CP introduced each other, Jinsha's little boyfriend said: "Hello everyone, this is my girlfriend Jinsha, 43 years old. As soon as he finished speaking, Jin Sha immediately corrected: "It's 42 years old." He continued: "The year she became famous was the year I was born. ”

Some netizens believe that the man's way of speaking is actually emphasizing the age difference between the two parties, emphasizing that he is young and old, which is a classic PUA sentence. And except for Sun Chengxiao who glanced at her when Jin Sha emphasized her age, he didn't even give her a look the rest of the time, and Jin Sha's eyes were glued to her boyfriend's body almost the whole time, and she couldn't pull it off.

When Jin Sha told about the fateful first encounter between the two, he asked him to describe the amazing and heartwarming feeling of seeing her for the first time, and his first reaction looked like saying, "Do you want to see what the hell you are talking about?" ”

When listening to Zhu Dan talk about the meaning of marriage, his expression was also a mixture of empty and sluggish, compared with Jin Sha with a serious face next to him, he felt that he was not ready to think about marriage and enter marriage, and it was probably not even thought much about what Zhu Dan said about how to balance family, career, and children.

It is true that it is indeed a bit unreliable to judge the purity of the love between the two from some of the man's expressions and eyes, but the discomfort that the man brings to the audience is also real.

In the preview of the second issue, there is also a clip of Sun Chengxiao wearing the necklace given by her first love and making Jin Sha cry angrily.

He said that he had explained, and Xi Mengyao scolded him: "Look at how Sasha has cried!" His expression was still wooden, and he couldn't see the anxiety and love he should have when his girlfriend was sad, and his eyes were indifferent except for sluggishness, as if everything in front of him had nothing to do with him.

Although Jin Sha will praise Sun Chengxiao's performance of 5 points to 10 points, saying that he is warm and considerate, and he never repeats cooking three meals a day for 53 days in a row, I don't know how much water is mixed in the exaggerated statement, and I don't know how much unilateral love is mixed in.

But love or not love is never a matter of words. Just like what is written in "The Little Prince", what is really important cannot be seen with the eyes, but can only be felt with the heart. More than 100 meals are not evidence of love, but the respect, trust, care and support embodied in life and getting along with each other is love, it is love to include the other person in your well-thought-out future plan, and it is love to take the initiative to empathize and actively solve problems when facing them.

And these things that can be confirmed as "love", at least in the first episode of the show, are not visible in Sun Chengxiao's body.

Jinsha's performance is like a handbook of typical behaviors of the love brain

If the unanimous evaluation of Jinsha's little boyfriend by netizens is "too pretending", then the unanimous evaluation of everyone Jinsha himself is "love brain".

As soon as Jinsha took her little boyfriend to appear on the show, she gave people a feeling that she was not like a couple but more like a mother and son. Before getting out of the car, Sun Chengxiao innocently and innocently leaned in Jinsha's ear and asked, "What is Wang Yanlin's wife's name?" ”

Jin Sha gently taught him: "If you call Jiani, you will call Sister Nini." ” 

After the two got out of the car, when they met and greeted the other guests for the first time, Jin Sha did not forget to mention Sun Chengxiao softly: "(Zhou Yiwei, Ai Jiani, and Wang Yanlin are) your senior brother and sister." "——That is to say, the man has graduated from a bachelor's degree at the age of 23, does he still need to be carefully taught in the area of dealing with people? No matter how you look at it, there is a feeling that a mother comes out with her little son who is not very smart to socialize.

Including Zhu Dan, who lamented that Sun Chengxiao looked so small, it was also Jin Sha who was talking back for him: "He was from 2000." "Jinsha's main focus is to maintain her boyfriend, and she has done everything about her boyfriend's social affairs or problems. Maybe the audience is tired of watching, but Jinsha herself is very happy. But I still want to ask, is it really reasonable to be a couple, but they have this kind of immediate sense of parents answering for their children?

When eating, Jinsha is also meticulous and gentle like a preschool teacher and assistant. handed Sun Chengxiao a piece of paper and asked him to wipe the oil; He said that watching Zhu Dan talk was like watching TV, and such a low-witted remark caused Zhu Dan to ask him: "Didn't you study this major?" Jin Sha also hurriedly helped him play the round: "He is studying this major, but if you want to let him really skin and bad skin, you have to be very familiar with it." ”

And Sun Chengxiao herself, still sits beside Jin Sha with timid eyes and posture, and carries out the pure and stupid character to the end, relying on his girlfriend to support himself for a piece of the sky.

In the preparation session, Jin Sha was also attentive to her boyfriend, and as soon as she sat down, she immediately cared about whether he had long legs or whether he would step back the chair.

Help, he's 23 years old, not 3 years old, if a 23-year-old, able-bodied adult can't even adjust himself when the chair is uncomfortable, then what else can he do?

The boyfriend said that he was nervous in the face of the staff, and Jin Sha immediately went over to hold his hand and caress and comfort, and said with a doting tone: "A little nervous." ”

Seeing this is really a question mark. First of all, I can't understand why Sun Chengxiao, a student who graduated from the drama and acting major, has studied acting and filmed for four years, but she is nervous in front of the camera; Secondly, I can't understand why Jinsha is so keen to play a role full of maternal care, holding this little boyfriend in her hands for fear of falling and holding it in her mouth for fear of melting.

Obviously, for this little boyfriend, Jinsha has a lot of brain-replenishing pink bubbles, and also has a lot of romantic expectations. For example, she will show off that many friends envy her for finding such a handsome brother, and she will be quite happy and say: "There is no way, because good men are not circulating in the market." ”

For another example, she sweetly counted the first meeting between the two, talking about her boyfriend being so beautiful by her, and talking about him begging her for 500 years, these things she unilaterally made up and described his sincerity was displayed in front of the public by her like a few treasures, as evidence that she was firmly loved.

But what she doesn't understand is that being loved never needs to be proven, and it is never proven. Where love is, there is security. The love that needs to be mentioned, emphasized, and revealed over and over again is really solid and reliable, and can it really last for a long time?

In the first issue of "Love's Study Trip", we only saw that one was Jinsha immersed in the joy of seizing the "good man who did not enter the market", and was full of joy and wanted to enter into marriage with her little boyfriend and spend her pension on him; On the other hand, her little boyfriend is seriously suspected of pretending to be stupid and submissive in front of the public, and for this girlfriend who is 19 years older than herself, it seems that she has no respect or love.

All kinds of details made netizens who were onlookers sweat: Jin Sha woke up, this sister-brother relationship that looks beautiful is probably just an abacus that is outside the gold and jade.

epilogue

In fact, there are many cps in the circle of sister and brother love, but why is only Jinsha sung so badly? The main reason is that Sun Chengxiao's performance in variety shows is too unfavorable, and the secondary reason is that Jin Sha's love brain performance looks too unconscious. Although netizens have the element of eating melons and watching dramas, their worries about Jin Sha out of kindness are also true. Anyway, the ex-boyfriend of Internet celebrity Zhang Kaiyi, who was persuaded by the whole network last time, and the Tsinghua doctor, who is also a young man, has finally proved to be a soft rice scumbag who cheated and cheated and sold miserably.

Therefore, I hope that Jinsha can listen to it clearly, keep his eyes open, and avoid risks in time. I hope she can do what she once wrote on Weibo, and this sentence also encourages everyone: "Free singleness is always much happier than wrong love." ”