Xu Qin's mother said that Song Yan's parents are not good things, their son can be a good person, you are not suitable, absolutely cannot be together.
It turned out that she was right, she had a factual basis, she didn't just look down on Song Yan's family situation, the reason was more complicated than she thought before.
Song Yan has no parents, where are his parents?
Mom left with a rich man, did not ask for him, Dad drank heavily after being fired, and froze to death on a winter night in front of the house.
Song Yan's father is a construction worker who is facing layoff, and in order to compensate everyone, he becomes the leader, and the company that caused them to lose their job is the Meng family's company.
In the eyes of the Meng family, Song Yan's father is a poor man who is unreasonable and gets into the eyes of money, and the final result is that no one else is laid off, only Song Yan's father offended the Meng family, was fired, and was betrayed by the friends he wanted to help.
After being fired, Song Yan's father was depressed, drunk and worried, and his mother, who yearned for a rich life, also left them at this time, and the double blow of work and life crushed Song Yan's father, and after getting drunk, he ended his life like this.
From this point of view, Song Yan and the Meng family have a feud, Xu Qin is the adopted daughter of the Qiu family, it is indeed difficult for them to be together, unless Xu Qin leaves the Meng family and gives up everything now, but Xu Qin can't do it.
Xu Qin now thinks that Song Yan is the station chief of the fire station, has a good career, is a hero, and his parents will have different evaluations of him, this is that she does not know the relationship between the Song family and the Meng family, and does not understand why the adoptive mother is so disgusted with Song Yan, which is the root that cannot be changed.
I don't know if when I meet a mother like the Meng family, do those children really grow up well? It's hard to say, maybe survival of the fittest, growing up in such a family atmosphere, will also adapt to such an atmosphere, be assimilated and domesticated, and will not feel bitter, after all, Meng Yanchen and Xu Qin still look very good.
As for Song Yan, his academic performance is not very good, he chose to join the army as a soldier, from special forces to firefighters, he loves the profession he has chosen, and such a profession also makes him an excellent young man, which is the best reconciliation between the individual and destiny.
Song Yan lost his parents, but he has kind uncles and aunts, and he can still feel the warmth of the family and the temperature of the family, which is a kind of luck.
In essence, Xu Qin and Song Yan are both orphans, and there is actually a strong empathy between them.
On the spiritual level, they all have trauma, but Song Yan's environment healed him, and Xu Qin's environment made her lose the ability to heal, so she longed to be irradiated by Song Yan, warm, and felt that she could still live well, and she needed Song Yan more.
Many netizens are knocking Meng Yanchen and Xu Qin, feeling that from the perspective of personality, this is more sadistic, to a certain extent weakened Song Yan's sense of existence, in fact, this drama understands sadomasochism, these two people want to come together, it is indeed difficult, because they are already very mature, and it is not easy to make a choice.
If Xu Qin wasn't so good-looking, would her personality really make Song Yan go all the way to her? I don't think she's very attractive on a spiritual level.