Dictated/Aunt Lu
My daughter is really getting older and more disobedient, last week I called her to come back on a blind date, she didn't agree, and finally I was forced to have no choice, I even admitted that I had a boyfriend, but I was embarrassed to bring it back for me to see...
I thought, my daughter is 32 years old, I urge marriage every day, since she has a boyfriend, how can she be embarrassed to let me see it? When I asked, I found out that she had found a boyfriend who was 10 years younger than her, and she had just graduated and joined the workforce.
As soon as I heard this, I was anxious and yelled at her: "How can you learn from other people's TV dramas to engage in sister and brother love? This is the most unreliable, you have been working for many years, and the economic foundation is stable, he is a little kid who has just entered the society, is it appropriate for the two of you to be together?"
The daughter quibbled: "I don't have a boyfriend, you urge me every day, I have a boyfriend now, and you dislike him for being young." Besides, why is the sister-brother relationship unreliable, don't be so old-fashioned, okay? Now the sister and brother love is too much!"
I said: "It's very hard for your sister and brother to love you, coaxing your little boyfriend every day, people are immature in their thinking, and you have a successful career, the two of you are not synchronized, not equal." Love and marriage should still be on the same footing, you know? If you insist on dealing with someone else, we will cut off the relationship!"
As a result, the daughter actually said: "I just fell in love with him, and I didn't say that I would marry him!"
As soon as I heard this, my blood pressure immediately rose: "Don't make a fool of yourself! Girls must also be serious when they fall in love, and they can't be scumbags who play tricks on other people's children, do you know?"
"Got it, got it, Mom, why don't you give me a slap in the palm of your hand and see if this little kid can do it?" said my daughter to me with a hippie smile again.
Well, since my daughter is already in love, it's better to find someone 10 years younger than not talking about it all the time, which makes me worry and make people around her doubt her sexual orientation!
The daughter is talking, and she really came back with her little boyfriend on the weekend. I took a look, good guy, this tall man of 1.8 meters is the same as an idol drama actor, not to mention that my daughter likes it, my old aunt also likes it.
Moreover, this child has high emotional intelligence and will come to trouble, not at all like a 22-year-old stunned young man who has just entered society.
The young man brought me a beautiful gauze scarf, a thermos cup for my Lao Liu, and bought us a few boxes of nutritional products. The point is, he was not idle when he arrived, and even had to run to the kitchen to help me cook.
To be honest, I have raised my daughter for 32 years, and she has never cooked a meal for me, but I didn't expect to enjoy the blessings of this young man today. Moreover, this young man's cooking is also very delicious, and his movements are also skilled, and he often cooks at home.
During the meal, he also took the initiative to toast my old Liu and me, saying: "Uncle and aunt, thank you for cultivating such an excellent daughter, let me meet, I will cherish her even more, please rest assured." ”
While chatting, I learned that this young man had no mother when he was seven or eight years old, his mother was sick and died, and his father did not remarry, so he had been raised alone. He has been sensible since he was a child, his father is a doctor, and he is busy with work, so he often goes to and from school by himself and comes back to cook by himself.
No wonder, I said that this 22-year-old young man, how to cook so delicious, it turns out that he has so many years of cooking experience.
He also deliberately said: "Auntie, don't look at my young age, I have been taking care of myself since I was a child, and I have been able to take charge of myself very early." My dad is busy with work, and I will take care of him. And also...... I definitely don't have a mother-love plot, Wenwen and I (my daughter) really like each other, we both like to watch movies, we both like to listen to music, and we have similar family values. ”
Speaking of family view, I have a little weak heart, I have a good relationship with Lao Liu, I have only cared about you and me all these years, and I have neglected to discipline my daughter, so she has not found a partner until she is 32 years old, and I am starting to be anxious.
However, there is one thing that we all love to spend with our families, and when we have time, we will take Wenwen out to climb the mountains and bask in the sun, and we have always felt that family is very important, and we pay attention to balancing work and family.
This young man also said that he cherishes his family very much, especially after his mother passed away, his father was busy with work, and he always longed for a warm home, so he regarded his family as very important, and he would also regard Wenwen as very important.
Of course, he said that he liked the atmosphere where our family of three loved each other and communicated and joked on an equal footing, and he wanted to fit into our big family.
In addition, the young man also patted his chest and promised: "I have the first professional grades every year, I have come out for an internship last year, I work very seriously, I have the ability to support my family, and I will not let Wenwen be wronged with me!"
At this point, I am also relieved, after all, his father is a doctor, and he will earn no less. And with just one son, the family should be fine. In addition, although the young man is young, he is mature and stable, and he is self-motivated, so I am naturally satisfied.
Therefore, when my 32-year-old daughter was looking for a boyfriend who was 10 years younger, I was so angry that I wanted to break off the relationship at first, but I changed my mind when the boy came to the door.
It is indeed us who are parents, and we should change our inherent concepts, and we can't be an old antique. Sister and brother love sounds unreliable, but it also separates people, if it weren't for the boy's visit, I guess I would have broken up this little couple.
Of course, they are still in the stage of love, and I can't say what the future holds. I will also worry about my daughter, after all, she is not young, the young man is still in his early 20s, there are many unknowns, and it is not certain whether she can get married. Even if I get married, the boy will be on the rise in all aspects in the future, and my daughter is going downhill, so it's worrying to think about it...
However, it's hard to say about emotional matters, if you don't let them try, I will become an authoritarian old mother who breaks up a pair of hard-working mandarin ducks. We can't be anxious ahead of time about something that hasn't happened yet, can we?
Friends, if your daughter were in such a situation, would you try to make her have a sibling relationship?
Write at the end:
As a parent, I will definitely be worried when I encounter Aunt Lu's situation. After all, my daughter is old and can't afford it. If you can't get married, you have to delay it for a few years, and even if you get married, if the two don't synchronize in the future, it will be troublesome. It's really hard to say about this.
However, when feelings come, they can't stop it, and parents can't let it go, nor can they interfere arbitrarily, they can only take one step at a time.
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