Dictation/Sister Zhu
My husband Chen Bin has been lying in the hospital for almost a month, he drank with his friends, and when he was over, he went home alone, and he didn't notice that he was hit by a truck.
The other driver is very responsible, compensated us 900,000 yuan, and is still responsible for Lao Chen's medical expenses. We have an only child who is in college, and when I heard that my father was hospitalized, I ran back before I even had time to ask for leave.
The child is filial, and accompanies me in front of my father's hospital bed every day, and sometimes asks me to rest, and he stays up all night to keep watch. For his son, even if his father is in a vegetative state, as long as he is alive, he has a father, so he has always said that he will save his father at all costs.
I watched my son stay up in the hospital with me every day, affecting his studies, and I couldn't bear it. Actually, I wanted to give up the treatment of Lao Chen, because this kind of treatment is meaningless at all, and the doctor has already made it clear that Lao Chen has been in a vegetative state all his life, and there is almost no possibility of waking up.
Moreover, the other driver's driver has been paying us for treatment, which has been almost a month, and it should have cost one or two hundred thousand. The driver also brought his wife to visit Lao Chen in the hospital and comforted me: "As long as there are people, there is hope." ”
However, I didn't want to continue to treat Lao Chen, because he might bring down another family. In fact, he has ruined my life and is bringing down our family, but I haven't told my son.
Yes, Lao Chen is not a good husband, when his son was young, he used business as an excuse to often be away from home for ten days and half a month, going out to fool around with other women, and several times women outside came to the house.
As for me, Lao Chen has had the habit of drinking heavily since he was young, and when he came back drunk, he would beat me very hard. Shortly after my son was born, he beat me once, and then again while breastfeeding, and I was beaten almost all the time when my son was in elementary, middle, and high school.
In order not to affect my son's studies, I swallowed my anger and forced a smile in front of my son, and several times I hung colors on my body, and my son pointed to the scar on my face and asked what was going on, and I was fooled.
It's not that I haven't thought about divorce, the main thing is that my parents have no one in my family, my parents are my only daughter, I didn't want my parents to worry about me and be angry a few years ago, my parents have passed away in the past two years, and my son has also been admitted to university, and I am already preparing for divorce.
In fact, Lao Chen and I have long since separated, and we are also discussing divorce, mainly because he does not agree to divorce. He didn't mention how he fooled around outside, how he beat me when he came home, he just wanted me to serve him like a free babysitter, take care of his parents for him, and maintain his good image in front of his son.
Although he is an alcoholic, he is very smart, he will never beat me in front of his son, and even play a good husband in front of his son, and show affection to me in front of his son, if it weren't for the fear of affecting his son's view of marriage, watching his disgusting performance, I would have been unable to act for a long time!
Before his accident, I had already consulted with a lawyer and was ready to sue for divorce. When he found out, he slapped me and said that I don't want to take away the house, the savings and my son. Actually, I don't care about property at all, and my son has also been beaten, and I believe that we are divorced now, and my son can understand.
But I didn't expect that before we got married, such a thing happened to him.
I want to extubate, except to be disappointed in him, I don't want to continue to be dragged down by him and ruin the rest of my life. There is another reason, I don't want my son to ruin his studies and delay his future because of a father like him.
My in-laws are also in their 70s, and I can continue to take care of them out of morality. With one more vegetative husband, I don't have the confidence to take care of three people. Of course, there is also the innocent driver, because Lao Chen was drunk and suddenly came out, the driver was also quite unlucky.
I knew that if I told my son about this directly, he would not accept it. I don't know what to do to make my son make the most rational choice between family affection and reality?
Write at the end:
Sister Zhu's difficulties are indeed very sympathetic. Originally, she was going to divorce her husband who had been abusing her for a long time, but as a result, her husband had a car accident while drinking and became a vegetative person, and she was forced to take care of her husband and continue to help him serve his parents.
Sister Zhu's son didn't know about her husband's bad deeds, of course, he might also know about it, but he didn't tell his mother. But, no matter what, it was his father, and he definitely wanted to do his best to save him.
On the one hand, there is a practical problem, and on the other hand, there is a son's family affection, and Sister Zhu is indeed in a dilemma. If she confesses to her son and analyzes the current situation, will his son understand her choice?
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