In 2024, more and more elderly people will become popular with such ideas, and their thinking will progress, and even many young people will not be able to keep up. The idea does exist, and it grows more and more. Because many people have experienced it and thought about it slowly.
No matter how good life is, how sweet the relationship is, and how filial the children are, there is one thing that cannot be avoided, that is, birth, old age, sickness and death. When your wife leaves before you and you are left alone, you can enjoy your old age in peace.
The first point, do not live with the children, do not go to the nursing home, although the children are biological, but when people are old, they are always different from the young, maybe the grandchildren and daughters-in-law will dislike it, even if they don't express it, we also know it in our hearts, after all, people are old, we may not be as good as when we were young. It's normal to be disliked. How comfortable it is to live by ourselves, no one dislikes us as much as you want. Why not go to a nursing home? To go to a nursing home is to accommodate others, and there is no freedom.
The second point is that I don't want to find a wife, I have reached this age, and I am definitely not looking for a wife because of love, maybe I just want to live together and take care of each other. In this way, everyone has their own ideas in their hearts, and each will consider their own children, and their hearts are always not together, and it is not comfortable to live together, so it is better to come over by themselves.
The third point, don't ask a nanny, let alone let the child hire a nanny for himself, why not, maybe the elderly who have experience should be clear, let's hire a part-time worker who specializes in cooking to clean up by the way, and the full-time nanny will be free.
Fourth, let's treat minor illnesses well, if you have a major illness, you can treat it, anyway, no surgery or chemotherapy, many elderly people in order to hold on a little longer, and then surgery and chemotherapy, and finally admitted to the intensive care unit, the result is just more guilty.
Fifth, after passing away, I don't want to do a big job, everything is simple. After all, the people are gone, and no matter how you do it, no one can come back. It is better to become a handful of dust after cremation, scatter it on the mountains and rivers of the motherland, and return to the embrace of the motherland, and it does not occupy a place.
Sixth, when you are alive, you must adhere to the principle of agreeing to your heart in everything, and do not force yourself to do what you don't want to do. Enjoy your old age in peace, don't trouble others,
The ideas of these old people are really advanced, and many young people can't keep up, do you think that's the case? Or have a different idea?