Introduction: In interpersonal communication, honesty is a valuable trait. But in reality, many people have disguise and have different appearances, which can easily lead to misunderstanding and trouble. However, how lucky would it be to meet someone who is honest and has a consistent heart? Next, we tell the story of Aunt Chen. Aunt Chen, 62 years old this year, just moved into her son's house not long ago to retire. At the beginning, Aunt Chen was very hardworking, cooking and doing housework, and got along very well with her son and daughter-in-law. Recently, however, there has been a conflict between them because of some trivial matters. One day, Aunt Chen was resentful and ate a pot of hairy crabs alone. The next day, she was driven back to her home by her son and daughter-in-law. Aunt Chen told us her story: she had no pension and had meagre savings. For several years, she has been working in a restaurant in town, earning little, but at least without too much work and barely making ends meet.
The son and daughter-in-law live in the city, and they are very busy and rarely come back to see her. Aunt Chen doesn't blame them, she understands their busyness. After all, sons and daughters-in-law are literate and knowledgeable people, and they also have a pension every month. With them, she finds a common language and sometimes receives some financial support. In contrast, if you give money to your son and daughter-in-law, you don't have much, and the conversation is all about insignificant little things, and going to your in-laws' house can not only have common topics, but also get some practical financial help. Therefore, she does not resent her son and daughter-in-law, and does not feel aggrieved. She knows that this is the reality of life, and that everything cannot be perfect. Although her son and daughter-in-law did not come back to see her often, they did not forget to care about Aunt Chen. Although they couldn't take care of her personally, they bought her something from time to time or sent her some money. Aunt Chen enjoys her current life very much, she is not tired from work, and she does not have so many annoying interpersonal relationships.
And her son is still very good to her, which makes her feel that she is the luckiest person in the world. Through Aunt Chen's story, we can see the importance of honesty in relationships. Whether it is between family or friends, when we can be honest and honest with each other and truly express our feelings and needs, we can establish a truly intimate relationship. Although there were some minor conflicts between Aunt Chen and her son and daughter-in-law, because they all maintained an honest attitude, the problem was eventually resolved. So, whether in the family or in the social community, we should be brave and honest with each other, which will lead to better relationships. Finally, I would like to ask everyone, have you ever met someone who is honest in your interpersonal relationships? How have they affected your lives? Please leave a message to share your stories and insights. When the good days came to an end, the sixty-year-old Aunt Chen was "sent" home by her boss when she was paying bonuses and salaries.
Aunt Chen, who returned home, was uneasy, worried about how to live her life in the future. Although her son's company gave her some comfort, she wanted to fend for herself. However, after finding a few jobs, she returned to her son's home. Although she was a little uneasy at first, the love of her son and daughter-in-law made her feel the warmth of family. The welcome of her grandson and the nursing home prepared for her by her daughter-in-law all let her know that she had come to the right place. Aunt Chen's experience makes us reflect on whether the treatment of the elderly in society is reasonable. In some units, age is a reason to fire the squid, how unfair it is, and they also need to live. We should respect the value and dignity of older persons and allow them to enjoy the quality of their old age. Aunt Chen's story also reminds us that in the family, we should try to care for and take care of the elderly family members, so that they can feel the warmth and happiness of the family.
Let's think about how to create a better living environment for the elderly and provide them with more and better services and care. As an elderly mother, I have always wanted to contribute to my family, but I couldn't do it. It wasn't until the care and care of my son and daughter-in-law that I began to have the opportunity. So I gave all my effort, took on all the housework, took care of my grandchildren, cooked delicious and healthy. At first, the son and daughter-in-law were grateful, but for some reason, gradually their attitude changed, and even some dissatisfaction. I am also deeply confused, isn't doing things at home supposed to make life easier for the family? Why have my efforts become a burden? Maybe I should think about whether my efforts are really useful, or have ulterior motives? Do my sons and daughters-in-law really need my help, or do they want me to be able to retire with peace of mind? As a mother, how do I really balance the needs of myself and my family?
In my opinion, family responsibilities and personal values are not contradictory, but mutually reinforcing. As we age, we can still create value and contribute to our families and society. But this does not mean that we have to give all our time and energy, but we should look for our own areas of expertise and make a real contribution to our families and society. As for the attitude of sons and daughters-in-law, I think we need to communicate and understand more. We need to work together to find a way to make families harmonious and happy while respecting each other. Ultimately, I believe that as long as we respect and understand each other, and balance the needs of individuals and families, we can still live a happy and beautiful life. So, how do you think the needs of the individual and the family are balanced in the family? Welcome to leave a message to share your views. This is an article describing family conflicts, and an old man has many difficult problems in getting along with his son and daughter-in-law.
The old man was dissatisfied with his daughter-in-law and tested it, and then a new contradiction arose because of a pot of hairy crabs. The son, on the other hand, played a special role between the three. This article reveals that in the family, it is very difficult for people to get along with each other, and everyone's thoughts and feelings can cause contradictions. Mutual understanding and respect among family members is the key to resolving conflicts. In family conflicts, serious quarrels and endless silence are not desirable. Quarrels only complicate the problem, while silence exacerbates it. For the elderly, whether they can understand the feelings of their daughter-in-law and take the initiative to assume family responsibilities is a question worth considering. Whether the son can take more care of his parents and respect his wife is also a question that should be considered. In such family conflicts, we need to understand each other, respect each other, and solve problems together. Family harmony and happiness require the joint efforts of every member.
Finally, I would like to ask the reader, have you encountered such a problem in your family? How did you solve it? Please leave your valuable comments and suggestions. My son tried to send me back to my hometown, and I didn't know whether to be happy or disappointed. So I asked him, "Aren't you afraid that I got the virus on the road?" But he didn't answer my question. He took out a red silk scarf, sent me to the car, put a mask on me, and told me to stay safe at home and try not to go out. So, this spring, I began a life of "banishment" alone. There is no mountain when you look up, no water when you look down, only a simple hut and some basic necessities. Although my son often called me to greet me, I always felt lonely and helpless. However, such a life of exile is more than loneliness and helplessness.
I began to care about my lifestyle, started trying to cook, grow vegetables, knit sweaters, and live a simple and fulfilling life. Even in this deserted little village, I began to gain some small sense of accomplishment. In this situation, I began to think about the true meaning of life. Is it true that the more we go through tribulation, the more we can appreciate the preciousness and preciousness of life? Is it true that the more we precipitate in loneliness, the more we can find the source of strength and strength in our hearts? In this spring of the epidemic, we have seen the figure of countless retrogrades, and we have also seen the fragility and shortness of life. But what we should see more is the courage and strength that burst out of hardship, and the precious and beautiful moments in life. In this spring when I reacquaint myself with myself, I want to say to everyone: whether you have experienced tribulations or not, whether you have precipitated in loneliness or not, you should cherish every moment in life and explore the true meaning of life.
Because only when we live seriously and explore seriously can we make our lives more exciting and interesting. Finally, I would like to ask you a question: have you rediscovered your way of life during the pandemic? Do you cherish every moment of your life? Welcome to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section.