Preface:
Love, which should be simple, is complicated by the human heart.
In the face of the coveted beauty around you, in the face of the invasion of disease, can love withstand the test? The story of Ding Haifeng and Tang Ge may give us the answer, he actually regarded his cancer-stricken wife as a treasure.
He gave up his job and secretly married her in the basement
In the summer of 1988, Ding Haifeng, a graduate of Jilin Technical School majoring in architecture, stood in the principal's office wearing exaggerated sunglasses and leather clothes, looking untamed.
"Principal, I don't want you to introduce me to a job, just give me a diploma.
Ding Haifeng said arrogantly.
The principal looked up at him in surprise, in the era when graduation was waiting for assignment, there were very few students like Ding Haifeng who directly gave up their work assignments.
"You are being irresponsible. Think about it. The principal persuaded.
"My life is decided by myself and does not need to be arranged by others." Ding Haifeng said without hesitation.
The principal had no choice but to ask him to sign the letter of guarantee, saying that he would not regret today's decision in the future.
Ding Haifeng wrote down the assurance, and at the end he arrogantly pressed the handprint.
"Headmaster, I will definitely let you see that I can break out of my own world!" Walking out of the school gate, Ding Haifeng said with his head held high.
Ding Haifeng joined an amateur band called "Mountain Tiger" as a guitarist.
Every day he performs with the band in bars and song halls, although the pay is small, but Ding Haifeng is passionate about music.
Occasionally when a show is canceled, he will sit on the side of the road in discouragement, playing guitar and thinking about life at the same time.
Just after the late night performance, the bar owner refused to pay Ding Haifeng for their performance in order to save money.
Ding Haifeng angrily punched the boss, but he didn't expect that the other party led someone to counter the army, and beat Ding Haifeng with a swollen nose and a blue face.
Ding Haifeng was walking on the night road with a guitar on his back, his stomach was so hungry that he couldn't help but sit on the side of the road and cry bitterly.
"Haifeng, are you all right?" A gentle voice came.
Ding Haifeng looked up and saw that it was Tang Ge, the keyboardist of the band, who came over to check on his injuries with bread and medicine.
"Also talk about me! If you hadn't caused trouble, would people have beaten you for no reason?" Tang Ge kept chanting while medicating Ding Haifeng.
Ding Haifeng looked at Tang Ge's petite figure and serious side face, and a warm current surged in his heart.
It turned out that this silent girl had been silently caring about herself.
Since that day, Ding Haifeng's feelings about Tang Ge have changed.
This girl, who is two years older than him, is like a confidant sister, not just a keyboard player.
Finally, the two began an ambiguous relationship.
Tang Ge, a teacher in a public kindergarten, is believed to be marrying Ding Haifeng, an unemployed vagrant.
But Tang Ge disagreed, what she valued was not Ding Haifeng's current situation, but his personality charm.
In 1993, Ding Haifeng graduated from the Performance Department of the Academy of Arts, ushering in the first turning point in his life.
He and Tang Ge decided to go to Beijing together to develop, and began the long road to drift north.
When they first arrived in Beijing, the two lived in a dark, damp basement.
Cockroaches crawled around in groups, making Tang Ge scream in fear.
Ding Haifeng felt sorry for Tang Ge and vowed to let her live in a high-rise building.
In order to save money, Ding Haifeng started from the dragon set and desperately looked for performance opportunities.
And Tang Ge went out to work during the day and came back at night to continue washing and cooking for Ding Haifeng.
"You are an actor, you have to dress decently, maybe the director will look at you more."
Tang Ge often spent his salary on buying clothes for Ding Haifeng.
Looking at the simple clothes on Tang Ge's body, Ding Haifeng was full of self-blame in his heart.
Finally, he plucked up the courage to say to Tang Ge: "Let's break up, you go back to your hometown, don't suffer here."
"Don't try to get rid of me! Let's get married, right here. ”
Tang Ge said with red eyes.
In the winter of 1994, Ding Haifeng and Tang Ge held a small wedding in a simple basement.
They lit two red candles as lights and kissed gently under the candlelight, completing the sacred ceremony.
"I will always accompany you until I become famous."
Ding Haifeng promised Tang Ge. The two fell asleep in their arms, imagining the future with longing.
Met the beauty Wang Siyi The derailment is imminent
In 1995, Ding Haifeng participated in the casting of the actor "Wu Song" in the TV series "Water Margin".
Director Zhang Shaolin invited him to the crew training.
Ding Haifeng was ecstatic, this is a rare opportunity in his career.
After joining the group, Ding Haifeng found that the director had played tricks, and the crew gathered two or thirty "Wusongs" to compete with each other.
Ding Haifeng disdained me and only buried his head in martial arts.
After layers of competition, Director Zhang finally selected Ding Haifeng to play the role of "Wusong".
Ding Haifeng happily ran back to the basement and told Tang Ge the good news.
"I knew you could do it!" Tang Ge happily hugged Ding Haifeng.
On the day of the start-up, Ding Haifeng, who was dressed up as "Wusong", was heroic.
He saw Wang Siyi, who played "Pan Jinlian", and couldn't help but stare at her intently.
Wang Siyi has a beautiful face and a proud figure, and is a popular little flower.
She also frequently cast an inquiring gaze at Ding Haifeng.
The two have a lot of rivalry scenes, often locked up together to study the relationship between the characters and the lines.
Gradually, the distance between the two was brought closer, creating an ambiguous atmosphere.
"Wu Song fell in love with Pan Jinlian, which is very topical." Some people ridiculed Ding Haifeng like this.
These rumors also reached Tang Ge's ears.
Although she was sad, she firmly believed that Ding Haifeng would not do anything out of character.
"I believe he's not that kind of person." Tang Ge said to everyone.
However, as the shooting deepened, Ding Haifeng was indeed moved by Wang Siyi's style.
Once, Wang Siyi took the initiative to hug him and kiss him, and Ding Haifeng was almost out of control.
"We shouldn't ... I already have a family. Ding Haifeng nervously pushed Wang Siyi away.
"Don't worry, it's just filming, we will keep it secret." Wang Siyi provocatively streaked across Ding Haifeng's face with bright red nails.
At night, Ding Haifeng tossed and turned, unable to sleep. He knew he was facing a choice, and if he didn't retreat, he would regret it for the rest of his life.
The next day, Ding Haifeng plucked up the courage to say to Wang Siyi: "Sorry, I already have a wife, we can only maintain a normal colleague relationship."
A hint of disappointment flashed in Wang Siyi's eyes, but she quickly adjusted her mentality and continued to devote herself to filming.
Ding Haifeng let out a long breath. He did not betray Tang Ge and chose justice.
His wife Tang Ge suffered from cancer, and he accompanied him for two years
In 1998, "Water Margin" was a hit, and Ding Haifeng became famous in one fell swoop.
Many entertainment reporters wanted to interview the new student, speculating whether he would divorce and marry again.
"We will always be together." Ding Haifeng said firmly, ignoring these scandals.
It's time to deliver on your promises. Ding Haifeng bought a two-bedroom apartment for Tang Ge in Beijing.
"It's all your credit, without you I wouldn't be where I am today." Ding Haifeng said to Tang Ge gratefully.
In 2008, Ding Haifeng's mother had cancer, and Ding Haifeng wanted to return to his hometown to take care of him, but the work was airtight.
So Tang Ge took the initiative to take care of her mother-in-law and serve her as if she were an elder.
"Tang Ge is the most correct choice in my life." Ding Haifeng sighed sincerely.
In 2015, Tang Ge, who has always been in good health, was also diagnosed with breast cancer and needed surgery.
Ding Haifeng was frightened and couldn't calm down all day long.
Tang Ge secretly packed his luggage and prepared to leave Ding Haifeng's life.
"Where are you going? This is your home. I will accompany you to overcome the disease. ”
Ding Haifeng hugged Tang Ge tightly.
In order to take care of Tang Ge, Ding Haifeng resolutely pushed off all his work and accompanied Tang Ge to the hospital.
Take care of Tang Ge during the day and stay in front of her hospital bed at night.
"Sorry for the delay." Tang Ge said guiltily.
"You are the most important job of my life." Ding Haifeng said softly.
After two years of anti-cancer treatment, Tang Ge finally recovered and was discharged from the hospital.
Ding Haifeng only let go of his heart and decided to leave more time for his beloved wife in the future.
"It was a bumpy journey, but fortunately it didn't get separated in the end. This is happiness. Ding Haifeng sighed.
Epilogue:
The years have smoothed out the pain in the memory, leaving only the unswerving love of life.
Ding Haifeng and Tang Ge depicted the appearance of love with two sincere hearts, walking side by side through ups and downs.
This perseverance is enough to warm their path for the rest of their lives. May a lover eventually become a dependent, and grow old together.