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In 1998, Ding Haifeng, who was thriving in his career, fell in love with actress Wang Siyi, who played Pan Jinlian, in the crew after filming the hit drama "Water Margin".
Hearing her husband's words, his wife Tang Ge suddenly burst into tears. As Ding Haifeng's virtuous wife for many years, Tang Ge has been working hard to run the family, making room for her husband's career, so that he can devote himself to his acting career.
But now, her efforts are in exchange for her husband's betrayal. The pain and anger in his heart were intertwined, making it difficult for Tang Ge to calm down. She gritted her teeth, stared at the man in front of her who she had once regarded as her dearest, and said coldly: "You are so ruthless, Wu Song... Without hesitation, he began to pack his belongings and decided to run away from home.
Before leaving, Tang Ge looked at Ding Haifeng fixedly, and said in a deep voice: "I'll give you three months, if you still can't decide where your heart belongs within three months, we can only say goodbye to each other."
Such words undoubtedly gave Ding Haifeng a chance to think twice. Tang Ge's intelligence allows her to maintain her sanity when her emotions are out of control, leaving room for the relationship between the two.
Ding Haifeng looked at the back of his wife's departure, and his heart was full of remorse. He never thought that he would betray Tang Ge's trust so easily and push her away from his life.
From acquaintance to acquaintance, and then to love, Tang Ge has always been Ding Haifeng's most solid backing. And now, he chooses to hurt this woman who tolerates him in every way.
The pain in his heart cut Ding Haifeng's heart like a sharp knife, and he stayed at home, tears involuntarily bursting out of his eyes.
Three months passed in a flash, Ding Haifeng repeatedly thought about his heart and weighed the value of the two women. On the one hand, Tang Ge, the wife who has been consistent since she met, has never changed her love and tolerance for her husband; On the other hand, it was the beautiful and moving Pan Jinlian in the crew, and her charm once made Ding Haifeng unable to extricate himself.
In such a choice, Ding Haifeng finally understood that Tang Ge was the love of his life, and she was the person he should cherish.
After making up his mind, Ding Haifeng quickly went to pick up his wife Tang Ge and completely cut off all contact with Pan Jinlian.
Such a life experience undoubtedly gives people a deep enlightenment: when faced with life choices, we must keep a clear mind and weigh the pros and cons rationally in order to make the right choice.
Although Ding Haifeng was once lost in the whirlpool of emotions, he finally found inner peace and regained his love for his wife Tang Ge. Such a story undoubtedly makes people feel the complexity and sincerity of human nature, and also makes us understand that only by persisting in faith can we find the right path to happiness.
Back more than ten years ago, Ding Haifeng was forming a band with his wife Tang Ge, and with his passion for music, he started his artistic path. However, in this process, Ding Haifeng did not become famous by chance like Huang Bo.
On the contrary, his band career did not cause any turmoil, on the contrary, his friends around him have entered a happy family life one after another, and Ding Haifeng is also very yearning for this.
Encouraged by his wife Tang Ge, Ding Haifeng finally decided to turn around and devote himself to the field of drama. When he played the role of "Wu Song" for the first time in "Water Margin", it can be said that there is a long way to go.
As a rookie actor, Ding Haifeng not only has to face many powerful old actors, but also has to bear the director's severe criticism. The director once bluntly said: "I can't wait to replace this disappointing Wu Song."
Under such pressure, Ding Haifeng even came up with the idea of quitting the crew, but in the end, under the enthusiastic advice of his friends, he strengthened his belief and gritted his teeth and persevered.
What is even more unexpected is that Ding Haifeng at that time turned out to be a recognized quit smoking and alcohol cesser. This situation undoubtedly made the director very dissatisfied. After all, how can we show the heroic spirit of "three bowls but not work," and how can we shoot the thrilling scene of fighting a fierce tiger? Under such circumstances, Ding Haifeng began to drink alcohol gradually, and for a time he was slightly overly "indulged in it."
Finally, the classic scene of "Wu Song Fighting the Tiger", which everyone is looking forward to, has arrived. Before filming, the director specially prepared an insurance payment of up to 100,000 yuan for Ding Haifeng.
When Ding Haifeng stepped into the scene, he couldn't help but sigh: "If this is the case, no wonder you need to buy insurance of up to 100,000 yuan."
Ding Haifeng took a deep breath and did his best to devote himself to this precious opportunity. After a fierce fight, he finally perfectly interpreted this classic role, and thus became the focus of the audience's attention.
Recalling the scene at that time, Ding Haifeng couldn't help but feel emotional. As a rookie actor, he faced many difficulties and doubts, but with his persistence and perseverance, he finally succeeded in shaping this high-profile role.
This experience undoubtedly strengthened Ding Haifeng's self-confidence, and also made him understand that as long as he sticks to his dreams, he will be able to overcome any challenges and realize his self-worth.
It is this spirit of tenacious struggle that has made Ding Haifeng's brilliant achievements in his acting career later. He not only created a classic image in "Water Margin", but also starred in many film and television works that have been praised repeatedly, and has become a recognized powerful actor in the industry.
This rookie, who was accused by the director of being "disappointing" at the time, has now grown into a well-known actor who deserves his name, and his achievements are admirable.
Ding Haifeng's experience undoubtedly gives us a deep inspiration. On the road of pursuing our dreams, we will inevitably encounter various difficulties and doubts, but as long as we adhere to our beliefs and face them bravely, we will be able to finally overcome many obstacles and realize our self-worth.
As Ding Haifeng showed, as long as you stick to your dreams, you will be able to shine brightly.
During the filming of "Water Margin", feelings gradually developed between Ding Haifeng and actress Wang Siyi. Wang Siyi is not only beautiful and moving, but also proficient in poetry and literature, and has outstanding talents.
During the filming of the crew, she also taught herself how to make pastries, and made the crew's steamed buns by herself. Faced with such a beautiful and seductive "Pan Jinlian", Ding Haifeng's heart gradually surged with a special feeling.
Film and television drama filming locations are often a breeding ground for emotions. On the one hand, the actors are fully engaged in the performance; On the other hand, because the filming cycle of a drama is often several years, many times the actors are not able to spend time with their families.
After experiencing a large number of rival performances, rumors about their relationship gradually spread between Ding Haifeng and Wang Siyi.
When Wang Siyi slightly understood the deep meaning, he decided to stay and spend "wonderful time" with Ding Haifeng. However, such a secret cannot escape the eyes of others.
When Ding Haifeng returned home with his inner secret, and when he faced his wife Tang Ge's questions, he was honest with each other, decisively admitted his deep infatuation with Pan Jinlian, and even asked for a divorce from Tang Ge without hesitation.
This was undoubtedly a heavy blow that shook Tang Ge's heart. She never expected that her husband, who had been waiting for her for more than 200 days and nights, would make such a choice at this time.
The pain and anger in his heart were intertwined, making it difficult for Tang Ge to calm down. She gritted her teeth, stared at the man in front of her who she had once regarded as her dearest, and said coldly: "You are so ruthless, Wu Song... Without hesitation, he began to pack his belongings and decided to run away from home.
Before leaving, Tang Ge looked at Ding Haifeng fixedly, and said in a deep voice: "I'll give you three months, if you still can't decide where your heart belongs within three months, we can only say goodbye to each other."
Such words undoubtedly gave Ding Haifeng a chance to think twice. Tang Ge's intelligence allows her to maintain her sanity when her emotions are out of control, leaving room for the relationship between the two.
Facing the departure of his wife, Ding Haifeng's heart was full of struggle. On the one hand, he had irrepressible feelings for Wang Siyi; On the other hand, Tang Ge, the wife who has supported and tolerated him for many years, wants to leave because of his betrayal.
Even though he still yearns for Pan Jinlian in his heart, his conscience and sense of responsibility still make Ding Haifeng realize that Tang Ge is the person he should cherish the most in his life.
In the end, after three months of repeated thinking, Ding Haifeng made up his mind and chose to return to the arms of his wife Tang Ge. He completely cut off all ties with Pan Jinlian and devoted himself to family life, becoming a responsible and good husband and father.
Such a choice undoubtedly reflects Ding Haifeng's inner struggle and growth, and also makes people feel the complexity and difficulty of love.
Faced with the dilemma of love, Ding Haifeng finally chose reason and responsibility, which is undoubtedly admirable. He understands that life is not all smooth sailing, full of temptations and challenges, but only by sticking to the right values can you finally build a happy family.
This experience has given us a deep enlightenment: on the road of life, we should always maintain rationality and concentration, in order to make the right choice and achieve a happy and fulfilling life.
Looking back at Ding Haifeng's artistic life, we can find that he has experienced a period of confusion and twists and turns.
At first, when Ding Haifeng and his wife Tang Ge formed a band together, he started his own artistic path with his passion for music. However, in this process, Ding Haifeng did not become famous by chance like Huang Bo.
On the contrary, his band career did not cause any turmoil, on the contrary, his friends around him have entered a happy family life one after another, and Ding Haifeng is also very yearning for this.
Although the band's career failed to achieve his wishes, Ding Haifeng did not give up his artistic pursuit. Inspired by his wife Tang Ge, he finally decided to turn around and devote himself to the field of drama.
When he played the role of "Wu Song" for the first time in "Water Margin", it can be said that there is a long way to go. As a rookie actor, Ding Haifeng not only has to face many powerful old actors, but also has to bear the director's severe criticism.
The director once bluntly said: "I can't wait to replace this disappointing Wu Song." Under such pressure, Ding Haifeng even came up with the idea of quitting the crew, but in the end, under the enthusiastic advice of his friends, he strengthened his belief and gritted his teeth and persevered.
At that time, Ding Haifeng also had another unknown characteristic, that is, he was a recognized ex-smoker and abstainer. This undoubtedly made the director very dissatisfied; after all, how could he show the heroic spirit of "three bowls but not work," and how could he shoot the thrilling scene of fighting the tiger? Under such circumstances, Ding Haifeng began to drink alcohol gradually, and for a time he was slightly overly "indulged in it."
Despite the difficulties encountered during the filming, Ding Haifeng finally relied on his own efforts and perseverance to successfully interpret this classic role and became the focus of the audience's attention.
Recalling the arduous process at that time, he couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion: as a rookie actor, he faced many doubts and difficulties, but with the spirit of sticking to his dreams, he finally overcame many obstacles and realized his self-worth.
It was this experience that made Ding Haifeng more determined on the road of acting in the future. He not only created a classic image in "Water Margin", but also starred in many film and television works that have been praised repeatedly, and has become a recognized powerful actor in the industry.
This rookie, who was accused by the director of being "disappointing" at the time, has now grown into a well-known actor who deserves his name, and his achievements are admirable.
From his initial music career to his later career in theater, Ding Haifeng has experienced a tortuous road, but he has never given up his artistic pursuits. It is with the spirit of tenacious struggle that he finally found his own stage and made brilliant achievements in his acting career.
Such a life experience undoubtedly gives us a deep inspiration: as long as we stick to our dreams, we will be able to overcome any challenges and realize our self-worth.
Ding Haifeng's artistic journey also reflects his perseverance and courage. In the face of many doubts and difficulties, he did not choose to retreat, but relied on his own strength to climb up step by step.
Such a spirit is undoubtedly worthy of our learning and inheritance, so that we can also exude a dazzling light like Ding Haifeng on the road of pursuing our dreams.