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Mr. Ding Haifeng sat alone in the living room, gently flipping through the stack of letters that had gone through the vicissitudes of life, each of which was written by his wife Tang Ge herself, and the words in it showed her endless thoughts and deep attachment to him.
When he read those letters again, Mr. Ding Haifeng seemed to travel back to more than 20 years ago, and those once stirring images gradually emerged in front of his eyes.
At that time, he was still a young man in his prime, and like countless enthusiastic young people, he had an incomparable love for music.
Although his relatives complained about it, he still stuck to his original intention and consistently pursued his music dream.
In the land of Jilin, he and a group of like-minded rock lovers formed a team called the "Mountain Tiger Band".
Despite the hardships of life and the fact that they often had to pay for a performance, their passion for music never waned.
It was during those challenging but hopeful days that Tang Ge, a positive young woman, broke into Mr. Ding Haifeng's life. At first, Tang Ge was just a loyal fan of the band, but as time passed, the relationship between the two gradually warmed up, and finally ignited the flame of love.
As a kindergarten teacher, although Tang Ge's life is relatively stable, her family has persuaded her to leave Mr. Ding Haifeng.
However, she resolutely chose to stay and spend the storm with him.
Looking back on the past, Mr. Ding Haifeng was full of emotion, and his eyes flashed with tears. Indeed, if it weren't for Ms. Tang Ge's firm support and deep understanding, how could he have come to this point? It is precisely because of her encouragement and spur by her side that he was able to stumble on the road of life, but he never gave up his dream of music.
However, fate dealt a heavy blow to Mr. Ding Haifeng in 2015 - his wife Tang Ge was unfortunately diagnosed with breast cancer.
Faced with this sudden bad news, Tang Ge fell into an extremely desperate emotional trough, and even asked Mr. Ding Haifeng for divorce.
"I don't want to be a burden to you, you're still so young that you can start a new life......" Tang Ge choked up and said these heartbreaking words.
However, Mr. Ding Haifeng hugged his wife tightly and responded in a firm tone: "I have made a vow to you that I will only love you in this life, and I will be by your side whenever and wherever I am." ”
From that moment on, Ding Haifeng resolutely suspended the course of his career and wholeheartedly accompanied his wife Tang Ge as her guardian angel.
He personally accompanied Tang Ge through every medical process, witnessed Tang Ge's strong resistance when he was tortured by illness, and also silently watched her joyful expression when she regained her life after being cured.
Ding Haifeng's company endowed Tang Ge with strong spiritual support and endless strength. With the encouragement and encouragement of her husband, Tang Ge tenaciously endured the hardships of treatment with extremely firm faith, and finally successfully defeated the disease and recovered her health in 2017.
For the tenacity of surviving these difficult years, Ding Haifeng also deeply understood. In the past, in order to pursue the glory of his career, he traveled for many years, and the time he spent with his family was always short and scarce. However, when his wife suffered such misfortune, he deeply realized that the bond of affection with his family is far greater than the glory of success.
Therefore, Ding Haifeng decisively put down all his work affairs and devoted himself to taking care of Tang Ge's daily life, doing his best to alleviate his wife's physical and mental pain.
Sometimes, Ding Haifeng will take Tang Ge out of the house to enjoy the fresh air outdoors and appreciate the beautiful scenery of nature, so as to pass on more positive energy to her.
After experiencing great disasters and catastrophes, we will surely usher in the dawn of happiness. After the baptism of life and death, Ding Haifeng cherished the deep husband and wife relationship with Tang Ge even more, and was determined to put his family first in the future, and no longer let his career ignore the most basic family care.
In 1998, with the popular broadcast of the TV series "Water Margin", Ding Haifeng, who played the role of Wu Song, instantly became the focus of everyone's attention.
In the play, he has had many intimate contacts and ambiguous interactions with Wang Siyi, the peerless beauty who plays Pan Jinlian, and there are rumors about the scandal that "Wu Song is in love with Pan Jinlian".
One day, an old friend of Ding Haifeng's half-jokingly asked him: "I heard that you are divorced, is this true?
Faced with this question, Ding Haifeng did not respond directly, but showed a slightly melancholy look on his face. In fact, after working closely with Wang Siyi for a period of time, this glamorous and moving actress did have a strong affection for Ding Haifeng, and she expressed her heart to him in a subtle way many times.
Ding Haifeng, who is tall and handsome, when he talks to him, it is like being in the midst of the beautiful mountains and rivers that make people fascinated.
However, whenever the words or subtle behaviors spoken by Wang Siyi crossed the bottom line, as if crossing the boundary, Ding Haifeng always kept his sanity in a timely manner and skillfully changed the topic in a humorous way, so as to avoid further contradictions and misunderstandings.
Even so, rumors about the two of them quickly spread across all walks of life. When he returned to the warm family, Ding Haifeng keenly noticed that his wife Tang Ge's expression was slightly abnormal, and he seemed to have insight into the truth of the matter.
As expected, the next morning, Tang Ge calmly said to Ding Haifeng: "I understand that you get along very well with that lady, if you still have deep affection for her after half a year, then we will choose to divorce, I have no complaints." ”
After saying this, Tang Ge picked up the simple luggage and left the house without looking back. Ding Haifeng's heart suddenly had mixed feelings, not only moved by his wife's generosity and kindness, but also deeply guilty, because his behavior brought a shadow to the originally happy married life.
In the next half a year, Ding Haifeng often sat alone in the living room, flipping through the love letters that his wife once sent him, and every sentence was full of affection and emotion.
Just when Ding Haifeng was struggling in the depths of his heart, late one night, he finally made up his mind and drove to Tang Ge's temporary residence, sincerely apologizing to her and asking for forgiveness.
Seeing her husband so serious and serious, Tang Ge bowed his head slightly and said softly: "As an actor, you need to devote yourself to the role, even if you really have feelings for her, I can understand, I only hope that after the scene is over, you can return to the family." ”
Tang Ge's open-mindedness deeply moved Ding Haifeng. Since then, he has returned to the crew, dedicating himself wholeheartedly to his work, never allowing himself to fall into emotional entanglements again.
Many years later, Wang Siyi admitted in a TV show that he had confessed to "Wu Song" twice but was rejected.
In 1993, Ding Haifeng made a remarkable decision, he resolutely gave up his stable "iron rice bowl" job at Jilin University of the Arts, and decided to go to Beijing, a world-renowned city, to seek a broader development space.
This decision undoubtedly shocked and disappointed his parents and Tang Ge's family.
"Have you really decided to go to Beijing? There are indeed abundant opportunities, but the competition is also fierce! You already have a stable and well-paid job, why do you have to take the risk?" Friends and relatives tried to stop Ding Haifeng's decision, but he resolutely chose to leave his hometown and go to Beijing.
Fortunately, his wife, Tang Ge, has always given him unwavering support and deep understanding. So, this young loving couple set foot on the land of the capital of the motherland together and began a long and arduous journey to the north.
When they first arrived in Beijing, their lives were extremely difficult. They rented a dark, damp basement with an empty home that barely met even the most basic necessities. In order to make ends meet, Ding Haifeng had to go out to work, while Tang Ge actively looked for a job, hoping to share the family's financial burden.
Immersed in the deep friendship of his wife, Ding Haifeng resolutely adhered to his original ideals.
Despite the harsh reality, the love between them has become deeper, and the tacit understanding between them has become more and more improved.
It is precisely because of the selfless support and dependence of his family that Ding Haifeng's soul is full of endless courage and strength, and he has gradually created his own piece of heaven in the magical land of Beijing.
2006 was a year of special significance for Ding Haifeng. After years of hard work, he finally bought a property in Beijing, fulfilling his solemn promise to his wife Tang Ge.
Recalling the difficult situation when he first came to Beijing, Ding Haifeng still remembers it vividly. At that time, they rented a cold and damp basement, their home was empty, and they lived a simple and meagre life every day.
However, even in such a predicament, Tang Ge never questioned or wavered in his ideals, but always silently supported and encouraged him.
"As long as I have you by my side, I have nothing to fear. You will be able to bring me a happy and fulfilling life. Whenever Ding Haifeng fell into a trough, Tang Ge always comforted him like this and injected him with courage and motivation to move forward.
It is true that if it weren't for Tang Ge's firm support and deep understanding, how could he have gone through ups and downs in the hot land of Beijing but never gave up, and finally succeeded in creating a world of his own? Now that he is finally able to buy a property of his own for his wife and children, Ding Haifeng's heart is full of great satisfaction and pride.
This warm residence that carries Ding Haifeng's years of hard work and countless efforts and sweat is also a heavy reward for his dear wife's deep affection and kindness for helping each other and sharing weal and grass over the years!
Ding Haifeng, who has made great achievements, has become famous in the industry and has been warmly welcomed by the majority of industry insiders and famous directors, and his busy work schedule is becoming increasingly tight.
However, Tang Ge never complained about this, but took the initiative to take up the burden, took care of the children at home and his elderly parents, and fully supported Ding Haifeng to devote himself to the hard work of his career.
When Ding Haifeng's loving mother was seriously ill, Tang Ge did not hesitate to wait by the bedside day and night, fulfilling filial piety on behalf of her husband until the last moment of her mother's life.
When she was dying, her mother clasped her son's hands and said affectionately: "Tang Ge is such a virtuous, kind, hardworking and capable wife, you must treat her well and cherish this rare marriage forever." ”
Looking back on the past years, those good times spent hand in hand with Tang Ge, Ding Haifeng's heart was full of deep gratitude.
has been in the entertainment industry for many years, although he has caused some rumors because of his intimate interaction with actresses, he has always remained loyal to his wife and has never done anything treacherous. Whenever he completes the shooting task, he always rushes home as soon as possible, accompanies his wife and children, and enjoys this hard-won happy family life.
After experiencing major changes in his life such as his wife's serious illness and his mother's death, Ding Haifeng has a deeper understanding and perception of life and family.
The self that once only pursued fame and fortune has disappeared, and now he cherishes family and friendship even more, and yearns for a simple and quiet life.
Ding Haifeng began to re-examine his values, and he deeply felt that material wealth is not the only pursuit in life, but the deep emotional bond with family and friends is the most precious wealth. Therefore, he took the initiative to adjust the pace of work in the entertainment industry and tried his best to spend more time with his family.
Every day when he returns from work, Ding Haifeng always accompanies his family to go out to play or share a warm dinner time at home.
Even when he is busy at work, he will find time to call his family and pour out his endless thoughts. Ding Haifeng knows that with a loving family as a solid backing, he can spread his wings and create brilliance in his career.
The meaning of life is not only the pursuit of fame and status, but also how to have a sincere love worthy of a lifetime!
Today, Mr. Ding Haifeng has deeply understood this true meaning through his own personal experience. He is no longer the young and vigorous Beipiao youth he used to be and struggles alone, but has grown into an outstanding man with a calm temperament and full of affection.
Over the years, Mr. Ding Haifeng has always been unwavering in his love for his wife, Ms. Tang Ge.
Although he struggled in the highly competitive entertainment industry, it was inevitable that some rumors and rumors would spread around, but he never did anything against morality to his wife.
Whenever he finishes filming, Ding Haifeng always does not hesitate to return to his warm home immediately to explain what is the deep affection between husband and wife with practical actions.
In Mr. Ding Haifeng's view, family is undoubtedly the most important cornerstone, and only by putting family in the first place can a career continue to prosper and flourish.
Even the famous director Zhang Shaolin once sighed: "Mr. Ding Haifeng is not only an outstanding actor, but also an excellent man full of affection and cherishing his family." "
Today, Mr. Ding Haifeng has become a well-respected role model in the entertainment industry. Not only does he have a successful career and full of honors, but more importantly, he has a hard-won happy family.
All these achievements are due to his incomparable appreciation of family affection, as well as his firm adherence to responsibility and commitment, which can be called an example for countless men to learn, a true person of affection and righteousness.