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I retired 30 days ago. A pension of 67 years, more than 7,000 yuan per month, and a 96-square-meter house. I have been divorced for 10 years and raising my daughter alone. My mother passed away three years ago, and my father lives with my brother and is fine. Compared with my peers, my conditions are good, I am 164 cm tall, weigh 57 kg, and my appearance is passable. After the divorce, I devoted myself to work and taking care of my daughter.
Coupled with my mother's poor health, I was so busy every day that I couldn't even take care of eating. Coping with various things and solving various problems every day makes me anxious. The past is gone, for better or worse. After I retired, I began to live a life of idleness. No one hired me, and the certificates and qualifications I had learned were wasted paper. I used to be able to visit my mother, but she has left me. Now, I'm overwhelmed all day and don't know what to do.
Although my house is large, I suddenly feel very empty and even lose sleep because I hear some sounds. One day, I met an old classmate on the street. We talked for a long time and talked a lot after that. Naturally, we talked about my personal problems. She suggested that I find someone with the right conditions and long-term development, and break up if not. This made me hesitate. She introduced someone to me through her husband's friend and said his conditions were suitable.
He works in a central state-owned enterprise and is about to retire, and his salary after retirement is also very high. He has a son who has been married for many years, has been divorced for a long time, has a house and a car, and looks good. We met and it was nice to meet for the first time, we chatted and handled things in a good way. He used to be a small leader. We dated for more than three months and he offered us to live together. He lived on the fifth floor of an old building. I was a little worried and felt tired from climbing the stairs. My own house, although also an old building, is only on the second floor.
He saw how hard I was struggling and suggested that I move in with him and rent out my house so that I could still get some income. It's not much, but it's enough to pay for utilities. I think this advice is not bad, after all, it is the same everywhere to live, and I don't have to worry about it anymore. And just like that, we came together. The first two months were good, he took the initiative to take on all the things at home, buying vegetables and cooking every day. However, from the third month, the situation changed.
He always had various things to deal with, and the unit was also very busy, often returning late at night. Sometimes he drinks so late that he doesn't even care about grocery shopping. Sometimes you can't see him for days on end. Later I found out that he hadn't driven for a long time, and I asked him what about the car? He said it was his son who used it for a few days. He told me he was retiring and planned to take me on a trip, but it's been four months without even saying a word. He doesn't even pay his utility bills, and he doesn't have much money. All this made me feel that something was wrong with him.
So I asked him if there was something hiding from me and why it felt so weird to do things. He thought for a while and told me that his son had failed to invest, owed a lot of money to the bank, and had to pay his grandson's school fees, which was very stressful. I listened to his answer and it didn't feel like it was true. Although nothing was said at the time, my intuition told me he wasn't telling the truth. So I secretly inquired about his unit and learned the amount of his monthly salary.
I told my old classmate about the situation and asked her to help me investigate, and I was really afraid of being deceived. Not long after, my old classmate told me that he did not have a house, that the previous house had been seized by the bank, that all I saw was that he rented it, and that the loan repayment was indeed true. The divorce is also true, because of his divorce with a third party, he had a financial dispute, owed a large amount of money to the bank, and now repays the loan every month's salary. And the car was originally his son's, he himself had nothing.
Currently, he is still fighting a lawsuit with the bank. My old classmate told me not to give him money. After listening to my classmates, I confirmed my instincts. Several times I felt like he wanted to tell me something, but swallowed it back. Now I understand that he has a great purpose for me, but he has not yet asked for money. I didn't know what to do next, and I got stuck in a struggle every day. Do you just let him go, or wait for him to say it himself and leave? More than a month later, I still don't know how to speak.
Actually, I already know his real situation, there is nothing to hesitate. The night is long and dreamy, you should understand this sentence, right? The reason for your hesitation may be because you are a little unwilling, you have some feelings for him, but you can't accept his deception, and you find it a little difficult to face. But in fact, there is nothing to hesitate, since you already know the truth, then solve it decisively, there is no need to get tangled up again.
Summary: After retiring, I started looking for a partner, but unfortunately met someone who cheated on me. He made up all kinds of lies in order to obtain my property. I found out his true situation through investigation, but I was caught in the dilemma of choice. Now, I understand, there is no need to hesitate. I need to solve this problem decisively and stop being haunted by his lies.
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