In the world of love, we were all once that silly person, knowing that love was hopeless, but still waiting there stupidly. At that moment, I deeply hurt the man who loved me the most, and I heard the sound of his heart breaking. It wasn't until I turned around that I realized that the heartbreak was actually my own.
Zhang Ailing once said: "To love someone, not to promise her how good it will be to her, but to know that love has no hope, but still there stupidly waiting for her." This sentence, like a sharp knife, reveals the true meaning of love and the fragility of the human heart.
In love, we were all once that fool, willing to give everything for the sake of that beloved, even if we knew that the end was hopeless waiting, we were willing to wait and wait. We think that as long as we give, we can get love. But forget that love is not a transaction, not if you pay, you will definitely be rewarded.
I once had the experience of falling in love with someone I couldn't love, knowing that there was no hope, but still waiting for her there stupidly. I would be the first to be there for her when she needed help, silently giving for her, but never letting her know. I will silently share her joy when she is happy, but hide my sadness in her happiness. As she leaves, I will look at her from afar, my heart full of endless thoughts.
I was asked, why do I do this, is it worth it? I didn't answer because I knew that love itself is a kind of giving, which does not need to be reciprocated or understood. Zhang Ailing is right, to love someone, not to promise her how good it will be to her, but to know that love has no hope, but has been waiting for her there stupidly.
Perhaps, this is the power of love, it can change a person, can make a person for the sake of another person, willing to put down their dignity, willing to endure endless pain. However, love is also a kind of growth, which can make a person learn how to love, how to cherish, how to give.
Now I no longer wait for the person who can't fall in love with me, because I know that to love someone, is not to have her, but to make her happy. Her happiness is my happiness. Her happiness is my happiness. Her smile is my greatest satisfaction.
Zhang Ailing-style love is a pain that goes deep into the bone marrow and is an unspeakable secret. We are all fools of love, willing to endure everything for the sake of that beloved. However, because of love, we have also learned to grow, learn to give, and learn to cherish.
So, let us cherish the person we love, give our hearts, and wait for the person who is worth waiting for. Even if we know that love is hopeless, we must be brave to love, because love itself is a kind of beauty that is worth cherishing.