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Wen 丨 Detective Little Jeep
Editor丨Detective Jeep
preface
Wei Yanzheng is a talent of Peking University and an executive of Huawei, who has made great contributions to Huawei, but he was abandoned by Huawei after suffering from cancer!
The double blow of body and spirit made Wei Yanzheng collapse for a while, but for the sake of the family, he supported the sick body, and left 4 words of advice to his son before he died, and netizens sighed: Pity the heavenly jealous talent!
What four words did Wei Yanzheng leave to his son before he died? What touching stories happened to him?
Disaster fell from heaven and was tragically abandoned
One day in 2011, Wei Yanzheng was still going to work as usual, but suddenly, a pain sensation gradually spread from the toe of his right foot to his thigh, and the sudden pain made Wei Yanzheng's face turn pale and almost curled up in a chair.
After the colleague noticed that something was wrong with Wei Yanzheng, he quickly dialed 120 and began to notify Wei Yanzheng's family, and after arriving at the hospital, the doctor did a series of detailed examinations on Wei Yanzheng, but did not check for any problems.
Experienced doctors did not think that this was an occasional phenomenon, so they began to ask Wei Yanzheng about his physical condition in the recent period, Wei Yanzheng recalled that about half a year ago, he suddenly had a tingling sensation in the toe of his right foot, but this symptom did not last long, and a small pimple grew on his toe
At first, this feeling happened once or twice a month, but in recent months it happened almost every week, and the small pimples seemed to have become larger, but he thought it was a neurological problem and did not take it seriously.
According to experience, the doctor asked Wei Yanzheng to go for a biopsy, although Wei Yanzheng did not understand, but still followed the doctor's advice, after the results came out, verified the doctor's idea, Wei Yanzheng has cancer, and is a very rare "clear cell sarcoma", and the cancer cells have begun to spread, must be treated immediately.
When Wei Yanzheng learned the news, it was as if the sky was about to fall, and his family couldn't believe how he could get cancer at such a young age, and what worried Wei Yanzheng even more was that his wife was four months pregnant at the time.
Originally, the couple was still fantasizing about how good the life of a family of three after the birth of the child should be, Wei Yanzheng and his wife had successful careers, and economic conditions could provide a good life for the child, but the sudden change completely disrupted Wei Yanzheng's life.
Day after day of chemotherapy, weakening body, especially watching the pregnant belly and taking care of his wife, Wei Yanzheng felt more and more that he was a burden to the family, and he discussed with his wife more than once, asking her to beat the child and live well after divorcing him.
The speed of cancer spread very fast, Wei Yanzheng was no longer able to go to work in the company, and what disappointed him even more was that shortly after he applied for suspension, he received a dismissal letter and 200,000 yuan compensation from the company, although angry, but he also understood the company, after all, businessmen are heavy on profits, but it is already a good result to have compensation.
Wei Yanzheng knew very well that his illness was a bottomless pit, and the family's savings could not pay for his long-term treatment at all, and instead of waiting for the children to be born and suffering with them, it was better to stop the loss in time and let his wife live well with the remaining savings.
But Wei Yanzheng's wife chose to ignore his advice, and often described to him how much she looked forward to the arrival of this child, and wanted to watch the child grow up and get married with Wei Yanzheng.
The road of talent, forge ahead
In 1975, Wei Yanzheng was born in a family of workers in Urumqi, Xinjiang, on the border of the motherland, he was the fourth child in this family, and before him he had an older brother and two older sisters, but his brother died because he was sick as a child and missed the rescue time.
Wei Yanzheng, as the youngest child in the family, is loved by his family, originally his mother became very depressed all day because of the death of her eldest son, but Wei Yanzheng's arrival made her hope for life again.
Although both parents are workers, their monthly salary is not much, especially if there are three young children at home, although they have not lived richly, but the family of five still lives very happily.
At that time, Xinjiang's educational resources were very scarce, and many families let their children drop out of school and start working after they reached junior high school, because they thought that learning could only be enjoyed by rich people, and it was better to drop out of school early and go out to work to ease the burden on their families.
Although Wei Yanzheng's father is not highly educated, he does not agree with others, he believes that learning is very important, which is an important way for ordinary people to change their lives, so even if the burden on the family is very large, he still does not want his children to drop out of school.
However, Wei Yanzheng's eldest sister couldn't bear to see her parents working so hard, with the fact that she was not the material to study, she dropped out of school and went home despite her parents' objections, she told her parents that it was not easy to provide for two students at home, she could stay at home to help, and she could also let her younger siblings study with peace of mind.
Wei Yanzheng's parents don't know what their eldest daughter thinks, but seeing that she insists on doing so, it is not good to say anything, but it is gratifying that Wei Yanzheng and his other daughter study very diligently, and their academic performance is also among the best.
However, it is a pity that Wei Yanzheng's second sister performed abnormally during the college entrance examination and could only go to a junior college in other provinces, but even so, the family was still very happy, because the gold content of the specialty was still very recognized at that time, and she could still find a good job after graduation.
But Wei Yanzheng's parents are both happy and worried, because their daughter is going to school far from home, as the old saying goes, children are worried, but they also understand that when the child is older, he should go out and see.
At that time, Wei Yanzheng's mother once jokingly said to him: "Now your sister is going to go to school so far away, I am very worried, you will be admitted to our school here in the future, closer to me, so you will not be so worried." ”
Of course, Wei Yanzheng knew that his mother was joking, so that she would not delay the child's future, but he still told his mother that he would always stay by her mother's side.
But it is clear that gold always shines, and Wei Yanzheng was admitted to Peking University in 1994 with a good score in the top five in Xinjiang Province at that time, studying at the School of Computer Science.
When the admission notice of Peking University was delivered to Wei Yanzheng's hand, he immediately ran to the place where his parents worked, and his mother's eyes were full of tears, and she gently stroked the admission notice, as if the strength of his hand would break it with a little force.
Wei Yanzheng boarded the train to Beijing with his parents' expectations and love, and after entering the Peking University campus, a sense of gap came to his face, and he realized that the good grades that had always made him proud had become worthless in such a talented top Chinese university.
It was also at that time that Wei Yanzheng secretly made up his mind that he must study hard, break out of the world, for his own ideals and live up to his family's expectations of him, in his spare time, Wei Yanzheng can often be seen in the library.
In addition to computer science, he also minored in economics during school, so after graduation, he obtained a double bachelor's degree in computer science and economics, and after graduation, he joined Beijing Aude Company as a software engineer.
However, in the work, Wei Yanzheng found that his professional knowledge was still too shallow, so he began to prepare for graduate school at the National University of Singapore in his spare time, working during the day and studying at night, which lasted for a year, but Wei Yanzheng did not have the idea of giving up, but was full of expectations.
In the end, Wei Yanzheng was successfully admitted to the National University of Singapore for a master's degree in electronic engineering, and after obtaining his master's degree, he seamlessly went to the University of Southampton in the United States to pursue a doctorate in computer science.
After graduating with a doctorate, he successfully joined the American telecommunications company as a senior researcher of telecommunications information systems, and in the eyes of others, he was already a well-deserved successful person, but every night, Wei Yanzheng's homesickness would reach its peak.
So after some thinking, he resolutely resigned from a high-paying job abroad, returned to the embrace of the motherland after 8 years, has a doctoral degree and work experience in large foreign companies, and Wei Yanzheng received olive branches thrown by countless companies after returning to China.
After weighing the pros and cons, he chose the invitation of Huawei, the then Chinese information and communications industry giant, to serve as assistant to the president of Huawei's wireless sales department.
Although it is a sales department, Wei Yanzheng occupies a very important position, he needs to transform obscure professional knowledge into easy-to-understand words in front of customers, and participate in the development of the department's sales plan while answering questions for customers.
Wei Yanzheng used his excellent professional knowledge and fluent eloquence to sign cooperation between Huawei and many companies in the field of wireless communications, and made great contributions between raw material selection and supplier search.
Wei Yanzheng's efforts were not in vain, his outstanding performance was seen by the leadership, so in 2009, he was transferred to the research and development department of new products, and he shined in the company.
Accept reality
Wei Yanzheng Peking University alumni heard about him, so he gathered classmates to donate to him to help him tide over the difficulties, many classmates lent a hand, in a few days Wei Yanzheng received more than 900,000 donations, he looked at the enthusiastic classmates, for him rushed forward, he secretly thought, others are trying to help him, he must not give up hope, live well.
Soon after, his wife gave birth to a boy, and he was both happy and worried to see his tired wife and the sleeping baby Wei Yanzheng in her arms, although he wanted to see his son grow up, but he also understood his physical condition.
But after the family's health improved, Wei Yanzheng began to work as an independent consulting lecturer, trying to leave more assets for his wife and children in his limited time.
But the good times did not last long, in 2016, Wei Yanzheng's condition deteriorated again, and he also knew that his body was already at the end of the strong crossbow, even if he was unwilling, he had no choice.
Wei Yanzheng once told his children when they began to remember, that everyone's life is limited, that everyone will experience the loss of relatives and even themselves, and that young children do not understand the meaning of their father's words at first.
But as he grew older, Wei Yanzheng's children understood their father's painstaking efforts, and he also understood that his father would leave him sooner or later, but he would still often ask Wei Yanzheng "What if I miss my father too much."
Wei Yanzheng looked at his son with tears in his eyes and said, "Then look up at the stars in the sky at night, and Dad will become the brightest one to look at you and your mother", Wei Yanzheng died on August 8, 2016 at the age of 41!
summary
When Wei Yanzheng was alive, he told his son that death is not the end, but being forgotten, and he wants his son to believe that as long as he is full of thought, then he will accompany him in another way, and the morning breeze and flowers on the roadside can be regarded as his company.
He also told the child about the help of his classmates from Peking University, and he hoped that the child would understand Entu News in the future and repay the society with a grateful heart, but the most important thing for Wei Yanzheng was that he hoped that his son could become a man and protect his wife.
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