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Text | Little Dream
He had been entangled with many women, but never married.
Now 56 years old, he still insists on his own proposition - to spend his life fighting the "evil system" of marriage.
They may be virtuous or coquettish, all of them are outstanding, but in the end my fair lady leaves one by one.
The attachment in my heart has never faded.
This host "evergreen", his emotional journey, like a legend.
First, concentrate on learning and pursue your dreams to become famous
Dou Wentao was born in 1967 in an ordinary family in Shijiazhuang City, Hebei Province.
When he was a child, Dou Wentao stammered slightly when he spoke, resulting in an introverted personality and did not like to talk very much.
However, he is diligent and studious, has deep literary attainments, usually likes to read, and his articles are often praised by teachers.
Once, the teacher asked the students to participate in an essay competition, and Dou Wentao wrote a very good article.
On the day of the competition, he stammered on stage to read his essay due to nervousness, but he was still affirmed and encouraged by the teacher:
"The way you read the manuscript on stage, it's just a little host!"
At this time, Dou Wentao was determined to be an excellent host.
In order to realize his dream, after graduating from high school, Dou Wentao left his hometown, was admitted to a university in Wuhan, and chose to major in journalism and communication.
During his four years in college, he actively participated in campus activities, volunteered at the campus radio station, and practiced hosting in his spare time.
In order to enhance his verbal skills, he often talks to people everywhere and reads extensively to cultivate his heart.
He is so diligent, and the pursuit of girls is naturally indispensable around him.
Second, the unforgettable first love
Dou Wentao and his first love girlfriend Xiao Shi met in college.
At that time, Dou Wentao had an ordinary appearance, but he was extremely attentive to Xiao Shi and saw her likes and hatreds in his eyes.
After two months of passionate pursuit, Xiao Shi finally accepted his confession, and the two began a sweet campus romance.
For Dou Wentao, the days with Xiao Shi were the happiest times of his life.
In order to please his sweetheart, he always pays attention to her every word and deed.
Once Xiao Shi casually said that the kitten was so cute, Dou Wentao immediately brought back a little orange cat for her from her hometown during the summer vacation.
When he held the cat in his arms and finally delivered it to Xiao Shi after the bumps of the long-distance bus.
Seeing her happily petting the kitten and showing a bright smile to herself, Dou Wentao felt that this was the most beautiful picture in the world.
He looked at Xiao Shi's face and froze this moment in his heart.
However, the good times did not last long, and Xiao Shi felt that Dou Wentao's love was too warm and entangled, and needed some personal space.
Eventually, with the opposition of her family, she chose to end the relationship.
Dou Wentao, who loves deeply, can't do anything about the breakup, and can only hold a face to show respect for her decision.
But blood was dripping from his heart, and he felt that the road ahead was confused.
In order to escape the painful memory, Dou Wentao decided to travel alone.
He carried simple luggage and went to places such as Zhangjiajie and Phoenix Ancient City.
I also spent that Spring Festival in a Tujia village, immersing myself in an unfamiliar scenery and trying to forget Xiao Shi.
Chinese New Year's Eve night, he was walking alone on the country road, hearing the joyful atmosphere of the village, but his heart was extremely empty and lonely.
At this time, an old song on the mobile phone evoked the bits and pieces with Xiao Shi, and he could no longer hold back his tears and cried in pain.
After the trip, Dou Wentao found that he still couldn't really forget Xiao Shi.
He would involuntarily come downstairs to her dormitory and watch the light coming through the window until it went out completely.
The cold night breeze made him shiver, but he still stood where he was, unable to leave for a long time.
Years later, when Dou Wentao talked about this past, he said that he was too young and immature at that time, and many things he did were impulsive.
He didn't really know Xiao Shi as a person, but he was moved to imagine what a good love should look like.
This blind pursuit of results will only make the two people farther and farther apart, and eventually scatter.
The last words left by Xiao Shi also deeply affected his future life choices - no longer hoping for others, but living his life independently.
This unforgettable first love has become an indelible past in Dou Wentao's memory.
When he recalled his reckless pursuit of love, he realized the ridiculousness of youth and frivolity and the wrong understanding of feelings.
This became part of his mature experience, and also gave him a more stable and deep emotional attitude in his later life.
Third, there were scandals with many actresses
After graduating from university in 1989, Dou Wentao went south to Guangdong and began his hosting career at Guangdong People's Radio, starting with children's programs and gradually transforming into hosting news programs.
Three years later, in 1992, 26-year-old Dou Wentao made his mark in the industry with his hard work and won the "Double Ten" host and the "Golden Microphone Award" of China Broadcasting.
In 1993, Hong Kong Television was established and needed a large number of hosts.
When the leaders of Guangdong Taiwan learned of this, they asked Dou Wentao if he was willing to go to development.
Finally having this opportunity for development, Dou Wentao naturally will not give up, he decisively gave up his stable job and set off for Hong Kong.
This became an important turning point in his career.
On Hong Kong TV, Dou Wentao has a close relationship with two female colleagues and broadens his horizons.
Dou Wentao, who was only 30 years old, said goodbye to Guangdong and came to Hong Kong alone to join the newly established Phoenix Satellite TV.
At that time, Hong Kong's return to China was imminent, and Phoenix Satellite TV hoped to strengthen cultural and news exchanges between the two places with the help of Dou Wentao and other mainland celebrities.
During the same period, CCTV's two beautiful hostesses Chen Luyu and Xu Gehui were also transferred to Phoenix Satellite TV to undertake the construction of Hong Kong's new station together with Dou Wentao.
All three are not familiar with Hong Kong life and are arranged to live in the same apartment building.
Working day and night, the three quickly established a deep friendship and became each other's most sincere confidants.
Xu Gehui has a lively and cheerful personality and often makes Dou Wentao happy.
Chen Luyu is like Dou Wentao's own sister, often taking care of him.
The three of them would go to the market to buy vegetables and cook together, and in the evening, they would watch TV and chat together.
In this way, we supported each other in a strange city and spent an unforgettable life in Hong Kong.
However, the outside world misunderstood that the relationship between the three was ambiguous, and there were rumors of scandals between Dou Wentao and the two.
Among them, Xu Gehui also co-hosted an entertainment information program with Dou Wentao, and the two worked seamlessly on stage, making the scandal even more outrageous.
Xu Gehui later caused an uproar because of his involvement in the rich marriage, which also made her scandal with Dou Wentao end without a problem.
And Chen Luyu humorously "ridiculed" in a certain program:
"Everyone always says that I am too thin, I should have a scandal with Dou Wentao, and they won't mention my thinness."
Dou Wentao immediately responded, "Why should I have a scandal with someone as thin as you", and the audience laughed.
The joke between the two perfectly prevaricates the scandal and confirms that they are just pure friends.
During his stay in Hong Kong, Dou Wentao began to emerge by hosting a number of popular programs, such as "News Express", with his excellent hosting skills.
In 2002, some media exposed photos of Dou Wentao dating the diva Faye Wong, and the two looked at each other at the airport and were very close.
At that time, Faye Wong had just broken up with Nicholas Tse, and Nicholas Tse was also in a relationship with Cecilia Cheung, so the scandal between Dou Wentao and Faye Wong became the focus of public opinion for a while.
In the subsequent public occasions, Dou Wentao was secretive about this scandal and seemed to avoid the question.
Faye Wong was also silent about this, and did not say no, which made people feel that the relationship between the two was different.
It was not until 2005, when Faye Wong suddenly announced her marriage to Li Yapeng Lightning, that this scandal gradually faded from view.
Subsequently, Dou Wentao reported his love affair with Peking University colonel Hua Zuojia.
Photos of the two publicly kissing on the street once exploded on the Internet.
And just during the period of love, Dou Wentao's new scandal came again.
In 2006, the scandal with the "goddess of frozen age" Yu Feihong flew all over the world, and it was even said that the two had decided to get married.
Yu Feihong said with a smile:
"I don't know, maybe he doesn't want to marry me"
Dou Wentao said:
"I only have admiration for Teacher Yu, which stops at the utmost goodness."
Both sides have adopted an ambiguous attitude towards the scandal, which is elusive.
In 2007, Dou Wentao had an ambiguous relationship with runner-up Wang Qianqian in a talent show, holding hands in front of the camera to go shopping, setting off discussions again.
To sum up, while his career is becoming increasingly successful, Dou Wentao's lace news is also endless.
He has had scandals with a number of well-known actresses, and the beginning and end of each relationship are twists and turns, which can be described as "flower heart".
And whenever the old news is not settled, new scandals will follow, which has become its consistent method of handling scandals.
Despite repeated rumors, it seems that Dou Wentao's career has little impact, and he still holds the position of first-line host in China.
This fully illustrates the complexity of the entertainment industry, and also makes people have to admire Dou Wentao's balance between feelings and career.
Fourth, the salt and light of life
In the eyes of others, Dou Wentao is a merry and fancy host.
But we may have overlooked what was really going on in his heart.
He once revealed this sentence on the program: "I will spend my life fighting against the evil marriage system." ”
This quote reveals his unusual attitude towards love.
Perhaps many years later, when Dou Wentao looks back at these bizarre years, he will find that love is like a mirage, never chased.
This is the lesson of Dou Wentao's love and hate, and it is also a question that everyone who pursues love should think about.
We should not only look at a person at the surface, but learn to be considerate and understand from his point of view.
This is the wise way to examine a legendary life.
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Dou Wentao's attitude to life and emotional outlook are undoubtedly controversial, but too much judgment is unfair.
Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, and we can criticize and reflect, but we have no right to decide for others what happiness is.