I have been a sensible and obedient child since I was a child, and I am deeply loved by my parents. When I grew up, I met Wang Xiaoqiang, an excellent boy, and fell in love with him.
On the wedding day, I wore a white wedding dress and shyly walked into the wedding scene that I was eagerly awaiting. The parents and Wang Xiaoqiang's parents are very happy.
After getting married, I followed Wang Xiaoqiang to his home in the suburbs. The first night, I was a little unaccustomed to lying in an unfamiliar bed tossing and turning.
Early the next morning, mother-in-law Zhang Yulan had already got up to make breakfast. She smiled and said to me, "I will teach you how to live, so don't worry."
My mother-in-law is very kind, and I obediently complete the housework she assigns.
A month later, my mom called, concerned about my life. I said everything was fine, my mother-in-law and father-in-law were very good to me.
I promised my mother that I wouldn't, that I was already married and would solve the problem on my own.
After a few more months, I found out I was pregnant. This happy news made my mother-in-law very happy. "I just said that if our little strong marry, you will definitely have good luck!" The mother-in-law said happily.
But I held back and didn't call home to say. I think that I have married into the Wang family, and I have to learn to carry some things by myself, and I can't always go back to my mother's house to seek help.
My mother-in-law saw that I didn't call back to my mother's house and praised me for being sensible. I smiled happily, determined to live well in my in-laws' family and become a good wife and mother.
My eldest sister Li Chun has been divorced for two years. Her ex-husband had a new love in a foreign country and divorced Li Chun.
In order to take care of the children, Li Chun quit his job. She is barely making ends meet by taking on some temporary work. I often call home and care about the lives of my sister and Xiaobao.
"We're doing okay, so you can concentrate on living in your in-laws' house." Li Chun always said this to me.
However, I knew that renting a house was very inconvenient for her. The landlord is always vexatious, and often drives them to move mother and son under the pretext of decoration.
One day, my husband Wang Xiaoqiang proposed to let me go back to my mother's house to borrow some money from my parents, so that my sister could buy a small house.
But Wang Xiaoqiang felt his responsibility to help his eldest sister and repeatedly asked me to go home and borrow money. I was worried that my brother would mind, and finally rejected Wang Xiaoqiang.
"You don't want to think about it, the eldest sister is so pitiful, the child is only 7 years old and needs help!" Wang Xiaoqiang was not happy.
"I understand your feelings, but you shouldn't decide for yourself without asking your sister." I persuaded Wang Xiaoqiang.
We debated this for a long time, and Wang Xiaoqiang asked me to go back to my mother's house to lend money to my sister. I strongly disagreed, and finally Wang Xiaoqiang went out to work angrily.
That night, Wang Xiaoqiang brought up the incident again after returning, but was overheard by his in-laws. My mother-in-law immediately harshly criticized Wang Xiaoqiang for not embarrassing me, this matter can only be found by our husband and wife ourselves, and we cannot cause trouble to my mother's family.
Wang Xiaoqiang and I were both taken aback, and Wang Xiaoqiang realized that he was wrong. Since then, he has become more mature and responsible, and I have re-examined my responsibilities to my family.
After marriage, I often went back to my mother's house to visit my parents, and sometimes I would stop by to see the lives of my eldest sister Li Chun and nephew Xiaobao.
Once, my husband Wang Xiaoqiang drove me back to my mother's house. When he saw the hardships of his eldest sister's life, he felt very uncomfortable.
Wang Xiaoqiang said.
I nodded: "But to ask the opinion of the eldest sister, we can't decide on our own." ”
"Okay, you go home and ask the eldest sister if you need help, how much money we need, we will find a way to solve it." Wang Xiaoqiang said.
When I returned to my mother's house, I mentioned the matter to my eldest sister. She said movingly: "I can handle it myself, so don't worry about me."
I relayed my eldest sister's words to Wang Xiaoqiang, but he refused to give up: "My eldest sister is so self-respecting, so she won't directly ask us for money."
After that, Wang Xiaoqiang kept persuading me to go back to my mother's house to borrow some money from my eldest sister to help her solve her urgent needs. I was worried that my brother would mind, so I politely refused.
Unexpectedly, Wang Xiaoqiang became more and more anxious, and even blamed me in front of my in-laws for not caring enough about my eldest sister. I was embarrassed, but I stood my ground.
That night, Wang Xiaoqiang again asked me to go back to my mother's house to borrow money. Mother-in-law Zhang Yulan happened to hear it, and she said seriously: "Son, you have already started a family, you must learn to solve problems on your own, and you should not and should not embarrass your wife."
Wang Xiaoqiang realized that he was too dependent on his mother's family. Since then, he has never mentioned it again, and has worked hard to earn money, ready to find a way to support his eldest sister himself.
After a while, I suddenly received a call from my eldest sister Li Chun, who excitedly told me that she had bought a house!
It turned out that Li Chun managed to borrow a sum of money from the boss of the unit, plus a little of his own savings, and finally made up enough for the down payment of the house.
I was so excited that I quickly asked her how big the new house was and in which district. Li Chun happily described to me the layout of the new home.
"Sister, I'm so happy for you! You raised your children alone, worked and took care of your home, and now you finally have your own house, you are amazing! I praised from the bottom of my heart.
"That's all I should do. Thanks to the support of the company's leaders, I was able to afford a house. Li Chun said modestly.
I told Wang Xiaoqiang the good news. He was also very happy that the eldest sister had solved the urgent need by herself.
"The eldest sister is really powerful, she didn't ask your family for money, so she bought a house by herself. I still let you go to your parents to borrow money, it's really too much.
"You're also kind, but it's not the right way. If you correct your mistakes now, I believe you will become a responsible person.
Since then, Wang Xiaoqiang has never mentioned the matter of his eldest sister again, and he no longer embarrasses me. He worked harder and often worked overtime to earn money.
Once I was sick and hospitalized, Wang Xiaoqiang went back and forth to the hospital every day to take care of me and asked for nursing. I saw the tiredness in his eyes, but full of love.
I believe that one day, we will become close partners who support each other. I am proud and happy for my husband.
After I got married, I gradually learned how to live in my in-laws' house. My mother-in-law and father-in-law are very good, and my life is getting better.
Occasionally I would go back to my mother's house to visit my parents, and sometimes when my brothers and sisters were there, we would have a lively meal as a family.
At first, I would serve tea and pour water, and by the way, I would instruct my sister-in-law to cook a few home-cooked dishes. But then I realized that I had married into the royal family, and I couldn't always care about my mother's affairs.
At a family gathering, my younger brother had an opinion about my mother-in-law's discipline and complained to me. I advised him to understand and tolerate each other, but my brother disagreed.
"After you get married, you still manage too widely, you have to educate when you should be educated, and no matter how strict your mother-in-law manages it, it is also for the good of your daughter-in-law." The younger brother said.
I realized that I cared too much about my mother-in-law's family, which was not respectful enough. Since then, I have tried to go back to my mother's house as often as possible and rarely asked about my brother and sister's housework.
Once Wang Xiaoqiang's friend came to the house as a guest, and mentioned in casual chat that his sister-in-law often asked about family affairs, which helped him and his wife's life a lot.
That night, I told Wang Xiaoqiang about it. He agreed with me: "Brothers and sisters should care for each other, but they should also keep an appropriate distance and not interfere too much in each other's family life."
I nodded, glad that I had such a sensible husband. Since then, I have rarely asked about my mother's family and only visited my parents on holidays.
After marriage, I gradually adapted to the rhythm of life in my in-laws' family and learned how to be a competent daughter-in-law. My mother-in-law and father-in-law were very satisfied with me and praised me for being sensible and taking care of people.
Once my father-in-law was sick and hospitalized, my mother-in-law went to the hospital every day to take care of my father-in-law, so I took the initiative to take on all the housework at home.
At first, my mother-in-law was worried that the meals at home would not be done well, but seeing that I made the bed, washed and cooked in an orderly manner, I was relieved.
One day after work, I rode to the hospital to visit my in-laws, and found that my mother-in-law was feeding her father-in-law and her face was full of exhaustion.
"Daughter-in-law, hard work for you." The mother-in-law said movingly.
"Mom, that's all I should do. Your elderly family should also pay attention to your body, I will take care of the family. ”
I began to go to the hospital often to help my mother-in-law take care of my father-in-law and share her hard work. Our mother and daughter are getting closer and closer.
My mother-in-law smiled and said to me, "A good daughter-in-law is a blessing that God has rewarded our family." With you, I'm relieved.
I also sincerely thank my mother-in-law for her love and care. She regarded me as her own daughter, and I respected her as my own mother.
Occasionally, I think that Wang Xiaoqiang was bent on sponsoring his eldest sister before, but ignored that there were still elderly people in pain at home who needed to be taken care of.
The most precious thing between people is affection and understanding. We can't just stand in our own shoes, but put ourselves in each other's shoes.
Families need to care for each other and shoulder responsibilities together in order to survive the ups and downs and usher in long-term happiness.
Living in the Wang family in the past few years has made me grow a lot. From a knowledgeable female student, she has grown into a virtuous and capable young woman.
My mother-in-law taught me to be independent and self-reliant, and to rely on myself to find a way when encountering difficulties. My husband also became a man who stood up from relying on his mother's family at the beginning.
Our husband and wife have experienced quarrels and misunderstandings, but we can sit down and communicate well and resolve conflicts. From this, I deeply realized that feelings need to be managed with heart, and families need to be forged with love.
There will inevitably be some twists and turns on the road of life, such as illness, financial constraints and so on. When difficulties come, we must summon up the courage to face them, not choose to avoid them.
As the saying goes, when winter comes, some birds don't fly to warmer places, but instead face the cold resolutely.
I also remind myself to be like these brave birds, with strong willpower. Even if there are rough seas ahead, we must sail forward with our chests up.
Thank you to everyone in my life who has helped and inspired me. I also thank my husband and mother-in-law for their care and care for me.
Life is a long way and I will continue to work hard to become a better daughter, wife and mother. Hand in hand with you through every ups and downs of life, welcome every bright sunny or cloudy morning.