On the road to growth, parents cannot miss 9 sentences to let children have inner wealth and security
In life's journey, each of us, adults and children, alike desires inner abundance and security.
This inner satisfaction and self-confidence is especially important for a child's growth and well-being.
Parents play an important role in the family, injecting positive energy into their children through words and actions, so that they have a strong heart and a stable emotional foundation.
Let's not underestimate the influence of parents' words on children's growth. Sometimes a parent's casual words can have a profound impact on their children.
On the road to children's growth, parents cannot miss these 9 sentences. Using them flexibly can give children a sense of inner abundance and security.
What needs to be explained, the following nine sentences are just to provide you with an educational idea to know which point and direction to say.
As for how to use it in reality, we also need to adjust it according to the actual situation and specific context of the child.
01 First sentence: You are unique and I love every detail of you
Every child is unique, and everyone has their own unique personality and characteristics.
As parents, we should let our children know that what makes them unique is something that deserves to be cherished and loved.
"You are unique, I love you in every detail", this phrase conveys not only verbal praise, but also a deep emotional expression.
It implies that we accept all the characteristics and personalities of our children. Whether they succeed or fail, we will always support them.
Such a sense of identity and understanding will give children a sense of inner security and self-confidence, so that they can face the challenges and judgments from the outside world more firmly in the process of growth.
02 Second sentence: You can believe in yourself, you have unlimited potential
Every child has unlimited potential and abilities.
One of the responsibilities of parenting is to encourage children to believe in themselves and stimulate their self-confidence.
When we say to our children, "You can believe in yourself, you have unlimited potential," this positive feedback and support is actually conveying a positive self-perception and belief to them.
With the encouragement of their parents, children believe that they have potential and can overcome various difficulties to achieve their goals and dreams.
03 Third sentence: Failure is not terrible, it is part of success
On the road to the growth of children, no parent can guarantee that they will not take detours, and it is normal to encounter setbacks and failures.
How to face setbacks and failures is the time to really test parents and children.
Failure does not mean the end, it is the only way to success.
It is not difficult to imagine that if the child cannot correctly view setbacks and failures, it may not take a few times to completely beat the child's fighting spirit and growth belief.
We need to be able to convey to our children the idea that setbacks and failures are part of the growing process.
If children encounter setbacks and failures, we need to comfort them and encourage them not to give up and bravely try again until they succeed.
Just like a certain exam smashed, depression can not solve the problem, need the child to calm down to reflect on the problem, and then come up with practical, specific and effective measures to solve the problem, and strive to do well in the next exam.
04 The fourth sentence: Your efforts and efforts will definitely be rewarded
On the road to pursuing their dreams, children often encounter difficulties and challenges.
If we do not do a good job of guidance, children can easily lie flat and rot.
"Your efforts and efforts will definitely pay off", this sentence conveys to children the belief that as long as they work hard and invest enough time and energy, they will surely achieve success.
When they encounter setbacks, we encourage them not to give up easily.
When they put in their efforts, we want to show our recognition and appreciation for them.
Such positive feedback increases children's self-confidence, which in turn makes them more motivated and determined to pursue their goals.
05 The fifth sentence: Your emotions and feelings are valued by mom and dad
Emotions and feelings are a very important part of a child's development.
We want to encourage children to be brave enough to express their emotions and feelings.
Whether the child is happy, sad, angry or anxious, we need to accept and support it.
"Your emotions and feelings are valued by mom and dad", this seemingly ordinary sentence, but inadvertently conveys a warm emotion to the child.
From this sentence of their parents, children can feel their parents' attention and understanding of their inner world.
Such attention and understanding will give children a sense of inner security and stability, allowing them to face their emotions and feelings more confidently.
Parents should also lead by example by showing their children their own positive emotional expression and processing.
For example, in the face of difficulties and challenges, parents' attitude and behavior to solve problems are actually giving their children a "lesson".
Through such guidance, children can better establish a good emotional connection with themselves and others.
06 Sixth sentence: We value your voice and ideas
Everyone in the world has their own voice and thoughts.
From the psychological level of people, even children want their voices and ideas to be valued by the other party.
But in fact, children's voices and thoughts are often ignored by adults, intentionally or unintentionally.
In this case, it is often difficult for the child to feel his importance in the family.
It's all the same when parents say to their children, "We value your voice and thoughts."
This expresses that parents pay enough attention to their children's voices and thoughts.
In addition to verbal expression, parents also reflect positive feedback and response in attitude and action.
Then, children will feel their voice and participation in the family, which will undoubtedly help develop their independent thinking and confident expression ability.
07 Seventh sentence: What makes you unique makes you unique
Academic performance is not the only measure of a child's excellence.
Whether in learning, art, sports or other fields, every child has their own strengths and potentials, that is, advantages that others do not have.
We want to help children discover their own uniqueness, such as encouraging them to try different things, discover their interests and talents, etc.
"What makes you unique" is a phrase that conveys an encouragement and appreciation to the child, so that he can better understand himself and discover his own uniqueness.
08 Eighth sentence: Your friendships and relationships are important
Friendship and interpersonal relationships are the result of interaction and joint efforts, and although it has little to do with learning, it plays a very important role in the development of children.
"Your friendships and relationships are important" can make children feel the importance and value of themselves in social interactions, and will be more confident in getting along with others to build positive and healthy relationships.
We need to teach our children to build healthy friendships and relationships and develop the ability to get along with others. Learn to communicate and understand in the face of conflict and disagreement.
09 Ninth sentence: Your dreams and goals can be achieved
Every child has their own dreams and goals.
It can be said that dreams and goals are the strength that supports children to move forward.
"Your dreams and goals can be achieved", this phrase makes children believe in their abilities and potential, and bravely pursue their dreams.
No amount of truth to children is as good as directly showing children the positive attitude and continuous learning actions of adults.
epilogue
Words run through the heart, and the warmth is beyond imagination.
As parents. It is necessary to teach by example and lead children to grow with love.
In the face of setbacks and difficulties, give constant encouragement, and the light in the child's heart will eventually light up the way forward.
No matter what difficulties and setbacks children encounter in their growth, parents will always be their back.
I believe that children, inspired by the words of their parents, will definitely live their own wonderful lives!